he cut himself and said i did it and now i am terrified to call law enforcemnet
2006-07-30 08:31:44 · 15 answers · asked by denisevans2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do not have any friends, and i have three animals is there anywhere i could put them?
2006-07-30 08:44:52 · update #1
Call without telling him your going to do it, that way it takes him by surprise. Other than that go and talk to them in person and let them know how he does and hurts his self and put the blame on you.
2006-07-30 08:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rickstar 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever hit you and left a mark on you? If so have someone to take a picture of it. You need to go to a friends house some where and have the police called in so they can make a report of it. One thing that you really do need to do, is go to the court house and file for protective order against him. The police can't really do anything until you have that piece of paper in your hands. It will not stop him from hitting you but it will give the police the right to be able to do something with him.
Been down that road my self. He was always trying to get me in trouble, when it was him doing it. Been out of it for over 10 years and I love the freedom that I have and feel now.
2006-07-30 15:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The police can give you a referral to a battered womens shelter. They probably will not take your animals, but you have to protect yourself first. I noticed your other post that you felt dead inside, it that's the reason why, I'd say you have some seriouse self esteem issues and a shelter will be able to refer you to someone to assist with that which the cops may not be able to do.
2006-07-30 15:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Custody Consultant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go the police department and take out a restraining order. Possibly getting a lawyer involve might help. Also try video tape, tape recorder, snap a picuture if you have too. Good luck on your situation. Always here to talk if you need it.
2006-07-30 15:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the National Domestic Violence hotline and speak with someone about your situation. They will know what your best legal options are: (OH AND PLEASE CALL WHEREVER YOU KNOW YOU CANNOT BE FOUND OR OVERHEARD BY HIM)
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
Quote direct from their website below:
"The National Domestic Violence Hotline answers more than 16,000 calls per month from victims, survivors, friends and family members, law enforcement personnel, domestic violence advocates and the general public. Hotline advocates provide support and assistance to anyone involved in a domestic violence situation, including those in same-sex relationships, male survivors, those with disabilities and immigrant victims of domestic violence. All calls to the National Domestic Violence Hotline are confidential. "
2006-07-30 16:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know that you love you animals you should call the animal shelter see if they can take them till you can take them back. and you should leave and go to the shelter for abused women. they really can help you alot!! they can also help you find your own place somewhere he will not know where you are!! no man has the right to abuse a woman!!! and remember that his actions are not your fault!!! get out now!! dont walk way but run as fast as you can!!!! it only gets worse not better!!!!
2006-07-30 15:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by kel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see an attorney, and since it appears you and he no longer have a marriage, you need to get out of it. Place your animals with a rescue place or with your friends. He sounds like a controlling nutcase. Real question is Why are you still there???
2006-07-30 15:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the house yourself and go to a friends house then call the police.
2006-07-30 15:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT!!! If he is abusing you get help. If he won't leave then YOU need to! Get as far away as you can. Call the police and tell them that you fear for your safety and get a restraining order. Be brave I know this is scary for you.
Good Luck
2006-07-30 15:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by lopezjri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go the cops yourself, sit thier and explain to them all what you have been through. Just be confident and they will beleive you. You have to be strong dear.. fear will not let you do things in a proper way. You have to fight, and you can do that..surely
2006-07-30 15:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by salcsan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋