Marriage & Divorce - 22 July 2006

My husband and I been married for 2 years and some months but we been 2gether for 5 years total. My question is.. I feel like im not in love with him and i felt like we got married out of convience we have lots of issues as well like he does not respect most of the things i have to say and that when we do discuss any topic he gets angry and throw stuff around one time he got angry and threw a pot of hot water that touch me and my daughter another time is when we were discuss about a tv show i was voicing my opinon and he voicing his that he thought i wasn't listening to him so he go mad and broke the tv... it to the point were i feel i can't talk to him about anything w/o him getting angry..i've came to the point where i confident in another person to talk and now i feel very close to this person it's going on 2yrs now..how can i confront my husband and let him know i'm not happy w/o him gettin angry is there any solution to my situation..?

2006-07-22 08:23:56 · 19 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2

i have neve had an orgasam how can i get to that point. i have been married for 6 years and not once has it happend. i dont want to use any toys or anything like that.i have tried all kinds of sexual positions with no result. when i met my husband i was a vergin he is the first man i fell in love with and my first kiss my first every thing.is it my lack of experiences. i really want get their. when hes done im left wanting more.we have talked about and he tries so hard and i dont want him to think something is wrong with him. does any one have any ideas.im also allways horny.

2006-07-22 08:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by jannygril31 1

Ok me and my husband are newlyweds but we have been together for over 3 years now. we are still very affectionate and we cuttle alot but we havent had sex for more than a month, what is the problem!?!?

2006-07-22 08:12:56 · 36 answers · asked by cindy k 2

2006-07-22 07:51:39 · 21 answers · asked by jonesywonesy 2

I say I love you and it is so cheapened by the years of abuse this word carries.
How would you like to hear a person express their deepest feelings to you without using the word Love

2006-07-22 07:51:19 · 8 answers · asked by tillermantony 5

I've been married for 22 years - separated for the past 2. Married because I was pregnant at age 19. I was not happy in the marriage since the beginning. He was abusive (physical for the 1st 7 years) I came home from honeymoon with 2 black eyes. Stayed for my children. He quit abusing me he turned into a wonderful husband and father but my feelings (intimately) never changed. I had written letters to him many times over the years telling him how we were missing something and he would ignore the letters. I met a man after I told him I wanted to separate this man made me feel like I was the most beautiful person on this earth something I had never felt before I got herpes & that relationship is fading but I'm having hard time . My husband would do anything to make this work he's such a great guy & loves me so much. We never fight & have so much in common. I love this man like a brother and would do anything for him and he would for me. I am hurting him so bad & feel so much guilt

2006-07-22 07:49:25 · 8 answers · asked by Dee K 1

2006-07-22 07:48:25 · 11 answers · asked by chaffin81 1

Well I have been divorced for 2 years now and every girl I date, I always compare to my ex. She was a real education driven smart lady who always wanted to better herself. The girls I have dated seem so content with their job and seem to think short term instead of long term.We got divorced because of all my time away in the military (korea, Saudi Arabia, etc) but I am out of the military now. Has anyone else had this problem to where they lose interest in current relationships because of expectations set forth from past relationships.

2006-07-22 07:34:57 · 11 answers · asked by SAMMIE C 2

After an affair that I had (I know, I know) we went to counselling, which my ex insisted on. I agreed, as I wanted to save the relationship. After a year at counseling, my ex said she still couldn't forgive me. 9 months later she filed for divorce. During this time (21 months) she wanted me to buy her an eternity ring, and never let up about it. As soon as she filed for divorce she started 'dating' a work colleague. Can someone please tell me why?

2006-07-22 07:33:32 · 39 answers · asked by Joe 1

Many celebrities and ordinary people of western world tend to divorse their spouse and marry another person and they keep on repeating the same.why does this happen?

2006-07-22 07:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by rukram 2

My husband and I rarely talk (even on lengthy roadtrips). When I mentioned recently that he speaks very poorly to me (calls me bit**) and about me (falsely accuses me of being bipolar) in front of our children, he bragged that he rarely talks to me at all. In turn, I suggested that I find it peculiar that he rarely talks to me, but he still wants me to be receptive to his advances in the bedroom (the only place he shows the least bit interest in me).
We have tried counseling and one marriage retreat, but these seem to only work as temporary bandaids to all the hurt and resentment. Every time I start to feel secure enough to put my wedding bands back on (he's left a number of times & I refuse to be made a mockery of by putting on the bands, taking them off, putting them on...), he openly disregards my wishes (blowing off family picnics because he drank too much with the guys hours beforehand). The financial changes of a divorce scare me, for I know I'd have to sell my home. Advice?

2006-07-22 07:15:30 · 15 answers · asked by ophelia 2

he is looking to file for divorce because she is taking maoney out of the accounts while he is over seas and she is not paying the bills and things are going into the credit report that area ffecting him

2006-07-22 07:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by chrissyhoy 1

here is wat happend...... one lied to another about goin to another town with a person of the opposite sex......then they worked it out.........but the relationship was still shakey......then they were mad...... etc but then yester day one found out that the other one was at the beach with the same person of the opposite sex but they werent alone they were with other people and the knew that the other one was at the beach they just didnt know who............. now it could be wat it looks like but it could also be that they are best friends.........

2006-07-22 07:03:49 · 18 answers · asked by saw-duh 1

I just turned 50, and the love of my life just turned 40. She has had a history of mental health issues and also some crimes (embezzlement, bad checks and felony assault on a law officer). She's been married twice, and both of them made her look like a saint. She is working hard through therapy (and so am I) and getting better by the day. My biggest concern is her 12 year old daughter.

My counselor says if I come into this household, the daughter would see me as an intrusion. Kids now know its easy to say "he touched me in a bad place" and POOF you are gone. I am in healthcare and would fail my background check.

I love her a lot. Is this situation just to FUBAR for me to be part of?

(FUBAR=Fouled up beyond all recognition--or something like that).

2006-07-22 07:01:45 · 11 answers · asked by photonic_beam 4

My wife and I are going into counseling she has already met with her twice alone and I have been once alone too. We both go on Aug 7th. Could I be just in for the shock of my life. Wife has been looking at houses to rent?

2006-07-22 06:56:27 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

i have 2 children. 7 and 17. my husband gets on my nerves. likes to run that mouth.

2006-07-22 06:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by badee 1

2006-07-22 06:46:24 · 4 answers · asked by Radha 1

Some people tell love stories, others tell horror stories...is marriage just a business deal, or is it worth the trouble?

2006-07-22 06:39:45 · 45 answers · asked by gokart121 6

had a fight nite b4 last with my fiance.. second major fight like this first time he called me a ho and i slapped him he back handed me back this time we fought i yelled at him and pushed him away and he pushed me on the floor went 2 the er yesturday cause it was all black abd blue sprained it... told the docs i fell.. and it scares me cause i want 2 believe it wouldnt happen again.. but its the second time in 6 months that he let his anger control him...im just really confused......

2006-07-22 06:32:57 · 41 answers · asked by alicia n 1

me and my husband been married for 5 years, and he wants a divorce/seperation. he's in the army, and said if i was to file, it would mess up his army benifits, and the insurance for our kids. i love him and miss him so much, and no matter what i do or say, he won't take me back. I want my husband back, but if he doesn't want me anymore, do you think i should wait to file? i just want to get it over with, so i can quit hurting. should i talk to the army about it?

2006-07-22 06:29:00 · 27 answers · asked by gshawl 2

I was happily married, till recently. I married my high school sweetheart, and even though i'm smokin hot (have to take my word on that one) i never even thought about cheating. But we started drifting apart, and one day, i met the man i think should have married. He likes what i like, he lets me be myself, jeez, how to put it into words? I've fallen for him. We still haven't had sex, but i hunger for it to happen. Meanwhile, i'm feeling pity for my husband, the spark just died. HELP!!!!

2006-07-22 06:18:27 · 22 answers · asked by AMBER D 6

I've had four serious proposals, complete with the diamond ring. Which is dangerous, as I'm easily distracted by sparkly objects.

2006-07-22 06:05:01 · 12 answers · asked by Bunny*Run 4

This is what my ex-husband said he wanted when he left. I thought it was unrealistic and it discouraged me. What do guys think? How about other women? What do you think?

2006-07-22 06:01:29 · 33 answers · asked by doryanne949 2

2006-07-22 05:58:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

After so long being in the marriage, slowly we realised that we are actually growing very different from each other mentally. We have a mixed marriage. Eastern with Western. In the west it is very normall to go appart, if it is not working.

2006-07-22 05:55:55 · 41 answers · asked by dotab 4

She would never watch it. She'd take a picture of two monkeys doing it at the zoo in a heartbeat though.

How can I "correct" her thinking on this? Any ideas?

2006-07-22 05:49:13 · 25 answers · asked by tspbrady 3

2006-07-22 05:40:35 · 19 answers · asked by randy G 1

For the ones that don't that Jesus Died on the Cross, to free them from their sins, He did hang on the Cross for a number of hours, and then taken down and Buried, and on the third dad he arose from the dead.

2006-07-22 05:38:20 · 15 answers · asked by jayco 2

I have three truly beautiful daughters from a previous marriage and I don't know how to handle this statement

2006-07-22 05:27:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you take it if your husband said "If you looked the way you do now when we first met, i never would have gone out with you".. I know i have gained alot of weight and I have tried to lose it, but it makes me feel very unattractive when my husband says this to me. He says it doesnt matter now becuase he loves me and got to know me, but i still feel bad because now i know he does not find me sexy.

2006-07-22 05:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by sea_sher 5