What do you think about a husband that wants "wild passionate lovemaking every day"?

Question

This is what my ex-husband said he wanted when he left. I thought it was unrealistic and it discouraged me. What do guys think? How about other women? What do you think?

Answer 1

dorryanne your ex husband is a perpetual child like dreamer who has seen way to many movies. although having a healthysex life is awsome in a marriage and alot of marriage can keep their sex lifes exciting but 365 days a year for how ever many years you two where married is ummmm kinda wishfull thinking that its always going to be this great passtionate love affiar not every time is both of your moods going to be perfectly timed. realistically he either is making this up as an excuse to blame you and have an excuse or he is in la la land and very unrealistic. there is MEN out there understand that marriage isnt specifically about just sex. good luck

Answer 2

He is unrealistic and he'll figure that out in no time. Maybe...

I've never had any complaints in that department, but it's not like it was "wild and passionate" all the time, just mutual admiration and respect. Sex was the last thing to die in that relationship. It sounds like your ex was only interested in the "take" part of give and take. What did he do to deserve what he wanted? Just sit there and demand you to worship him while he kicked back with a beer? Yeah, there are thing all guys want. Most are mature enough to know that no man gets that. You're better off and you'll discover that not all men are like that fool.

Answer 3

That's not why he left. Those were just the words he was using for the sum of the frustrations he was feeling. Why did he say that? Because he sucked at communication; why else would he leave someone who he wanted to make love with passionately every day?

It's a lot easier to focus on one issue like that instead of really trying to fix the problems. If he wanted what he says, he really needed to satisfy you in a way that you were happy and wanted him on that level. Clearly, he wasn't serious about acheiving this.

Answer 4

I think it's great that he wanted YOU all the time. I have a friend that wants sex all the time and she practically has to beg for it 2 times a month. But men are men and seem to be stupidly controlled by their d****. Alot of times I would just love some affection, kissing, etc...to me it is enough. I'm learning that men are really very different as far as needing sex all the time and what is included in the sex. It doesn't seem fair, but I guess that's just the way it is. If a guy makes you feel pretty, special, loved then it would be great to be together as much as possible. Having said that, men need to understand that if women are supposed to perform as sex goddesses all the time then they need to help get the kids to bed, do some of the housework or run errands so the goddesses have time to prepare. But if he is just expecting it or requiring it as his daily release then you are better off without him.

Answer 5

Well EVERY DAY is a bit much, but as a husband, I will definitely agree with him. We want a porn star in bed.

We want a girl who will swallow.
We want a girl who will work out and have a nice body.
We want a girl who will talk dirty.
We want a girl who will squeal, grunt, and tell us to give it to her.
We want a girl who will want to try new things, and have fun doing so.
We want a girl who will do anal.
We want a girl who will wear high heels in bed.
We want a girl who will wear sexy underwear.
We want a girl who will watch porn.
We want a girl who will masterbate, with and without us there.
We want a girl who will take the initiative.
We want a girl who will wear wigs and pretend to be other girls.

Fair or not...this is the fantasy guys have, and there are women out there who do all this...so it sucks to get stuck in a relationship with someone who is not willing to have fun like this in bed. And yes, it is VERY disappointing to know your spouse will never be like the fun girls we know or see on TV.

Also...keep in mind a healthy sex life needs a healthy relationship. For example, you can't be jealous, or nag...or bicker all the time, and expect him to think of you in a loving way.

I guess to answer your questions...no, I do not think he was unrealistic. I think he wanted what every guy wants...and it went beyond just the bedroom.

Answer 6

You are a plain fool - When he digs you that much go for it and be proud and secure.

Remember only women can have mad passionate sex ten times a day - Men aren't built that way, we might be able to manage twice if we told the truth so he was ALL yours - Till you lost him that is!!! Or just maybe deep down you didn't fancy him like he fancied you?

Sex releases endorphins and they make you live longer and stay healthy so he was taking care of your well being too

Answer 7

ok women i don't know how old you are but i wished i could have wild passionate sex everyday. if it was up to me i would have sex four and five times daily if my husband could keep up with me. So no i don't think that was unrealistic other than when you are on your period is the only time you shouldn't want sex

Answer 8

I would think that is a dream come true and that is what I miss most about my ex is the sex on a daily basis :) Darn the luck now I take it whenever my bf will give it to me and be happy with it :)

Answer 9

I very caring and loving one that that you should respect that he wants it at home and not any where else.Please your husband and if it is some kind of a problem for you,atleast make sure you sit down and talk to him about it,that will go a long way.Good luck.

Answer 10

I think that sounds like a normal man...but if that's why he left you than that was just an excuse in other words he wants to bang as many women as possible!