Marriage & Divorce - 22 July 2006

"I found out that my husband cheated on me. I feel bad, how am I going to tell my kids?"

This is a friend.

2006-07-22 20:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married

2006-07-22 20:13:30 · 10 answers · asked by rabbit 1

He will not shut-up. It gets on my nerves. We have been married eight years and I stopped listening after the first year - ha! It is distracting and it is also embarrassing. He talks non-stop to everyone so neighbors, friends, etc. avoid him. We have no couple friends any longer because of it. I am miserable.

2006-07-22 20:10:42 · 31 answers · asked by keepingitreal 3

I have been married now for over a year and in that year, we have gone through tons of stess. WE are a blended family with children with lots of hurt and anger from bad divorces. Since we have been married however, many hurtful things have been said and done, cheating by him, name calling, and I have become obsessed with thinking that he is still cheating. I cant seem to get over it, and I find myself checking out all that he does and says. I even have people at his place of work keeping me informed, which I know is sick and wrong, but I am so scared of being hurt this way again. I have also name called, out of anger. We have been alone now for almost a month and in that month still there isnt a whole lot of intimacy on his part. I have talked to him about my needs, so many times I am sick of it. Nothing ever changes. The only romance he shows is, " Do you want to Fu%%?" That isnt even really fair either, because there is not a whole lot of time he spends warming me up, and there is..

2006-07-22 20:06:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anna Q 1

if he's in japan

2006-07-22 19:53:08 · 3 answers · asked by baby 1

Things like delaying man's orgasm and speeding up the woman's, staying in the orgasm stage for longer periods.. etc?

2006-07-22 19:48:14 · 4 answers · asked by adorpio 1

I was just curious. It'd be nice to know so I dont seem cheap when buying one....

2006-07-22 19:36:42 · 16 answers · asked by marioistheshiz 2

2006-07-22 19:33:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. I don't have any idea how I am going to do this....All I know is that i have to tell him how I feel. I can't actually afford a plane ticket to St. Louis or the drive either. All I know is that i love him and I will be damned if I am not going to let him know. I may be making a fool out of myself or I may just be getting back the love of my life. I just hope for the last part. I LOVE HIM. I just wish it didn't take me so damn long to realize that I still did. wish me luck.

2006-07-22 19:26:43 · 10 answers · asked by angry@fate 2

I have been with my bf for three and a half years but it seems like the relationship isn't going any where. We talked about marriage two years earlier but now "he's too young". So is it time to cut my losses and leave or stick it out and hope for a change?

2006-07-22 19:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by Crazy girl 2

I want to get marriage with chaired girl. Any girl special girl want to get marriage with me.please contact me on my email address lali1001@yahoo.com

2006-07-22 19:17:54 · 9 answers · asked by ali u 1

I've been crying, I've been betrayed. I feel like giving up, whats the point. My question is how can I find myself.

2006-07-22 19:14:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My hubby & I are both disabled but I love him to death & take marriage VERY seriously.....
I also love my 3 children very much...
Tonight my husband finally lost it - he picked up my 10 month old son by the arm & practically threw him at me then hit our 3 yr old daughter on the head - Then he sliced his wrist wide open!! I called the police & for now he is in a mental ward , my kids are with my friends till I can be sure they are safe!! HELP??? ADVICE???
We have been so upset over my medicaid being cancelled & we are dirt poor right now - we have both been under huge amounts of stress!!

2006-07-22 19:03:55 · 21 answers · asked by Catcanscratch 5

I have been married for 8 yrs. and have 2 girls my husband works 7 days a wk. and is never home but when he is he's tired and doesn't talk to us or yelling and screaming at our girls or at me. For the last few mths. it's got worse with the verbal things to me and he hasn't told me he loves me in 3mths. and he says I'm always trying to start a fight with him so I got to where I don't talk to avoid one.I've asked him to go to marriage counseling but he won't go. He said I'm the problem he already knows that. I can't go anywhere without having to have my cell phone on me at all times so he know where I'm at and when I'll be home and now my littlest girl is having stomach problems from all this and I have bad headaches. But I don't have a job and he says if I leave I leave with nothing and a part of me wants to leave but i know how hard it will be & a part of me still cares for him but the hurt is just getting to be to much to bear . Is there anyone out there that can give me some help?

2006-07-22 18:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by thumper 1

Is there possibly anyone out there that agree's
with the saying, Nice guy's finish Last?
Why is this?

2006-07-22 18:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by DUMMY 2

my friend is married with a kid, and his wife is overseas on a holiday, he has got involved with a very beautiful 21 year old,he told her he was 25, but he's really 32,he told her a different name not his real name, but now he is in love with her, and he dosent know what to do, these are 3 options I told him he had:

A)To end it now before his wife comes back (and this will traumatize his new girlfriend cos she has severe emotional problems due to a history of being abused) but he dosent want to hurt her cos he loves her.

B)He could ask her to be the other woman in his life which would mean he can be there to support her emotionally & continue the relationship without his wife knowing (I told him he wouldn't be living a double life, he'd be living 2 seperate truths).

C)He could just run away wif his new girlfriend but that would mean he would lose his house and kid.

these are the only options I could think of to tell him, has anyone here got any ideas on what he should do?

2006-07-22 18:37:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they made gay marrige legal would they have to make all other forms of alternative marrige like polygamy leagal.

2006-07-22 18:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by Evil D 4

My sister-in-law cheated on my brother-in-law the night before they got married. It is my husband's brother, and he still asks me about that night, which I seen her all over this guy in the pool, but I dont want to get into their marraige issues. So am I wrong for keeping a secret or should I spill the beans????

2006-07-22 18:31:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

At first it seemed like love really...you really thought that he loves you and you said "yes''but now...
I realized that looks were why he asked me to marry and i thouhg it was love...and now i see that anything i do makes him so very angry. and i feel like i am being pushed away. for example if i don't wash the dishes right away his mood changes...he doesn't say anything right away but would be sure to say something if i don't do what i'm supposed to do. We had some disagreemnets and argued sometimes but I have asked for forgiveness when i felt that it was my fault, but he keeps grudges...lately i see that we're growing apart and i have tried to discuss w/him...but he takes it the wrong way and gets upset.
I loved him so much and my attempts to show how much i needed him and want him in my life are all in vain. He accuses me of untrue things and when he sees that i am right he becomes very upset.
He works from home has his own business so no other women are involved

2006-07-22 18:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Ultrabrite 1

I need to get married tommorow. so what do I have to do to get married in houston,tx. Its an emergency!

2006-07-22 18:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sparks 2

The thing is I'm married and I met this guy at work who is also married. We have been seeing each other for over a year, we have been sexually active. We are in love with each other but neither one of us want to hurt our spouse by getting a divorce. I have giving him opportunities to let me go but he says that will not make him happy. It won't make me happy either cause I do love him alot and he loves me alot. I want to break up with him cause he has kids and I do not and I dont want his kids to suffer and his wife is starting to get a clue she has found my phone number and have started to call me. I have told him I can't do this anymore now that she is catching on but he do not want that and he begs me not to leave him because I make him so happy and I am nothing like his wife. Which goes both ways because he is nothing like my husband. I'm so confused because I dont want to hurt my husband or his wife but we're really in love with each other. Help what do I do with this situation?

2006-07-22 18:24:00 · 11 answers · asked by Inchhigh 1

Her parents dont want her with anyone but they dont really care until they see us together its wierd but should i attempt to meet them or would i blow it?

2006-07-22 18:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by Big K Dogg 1

recently my girl of 6 years decided to move to vegas to start a new life. we have had a bad relationship for a few years now and i was hoping it would change once we arrived but it didn't. isaid things i shouldn't have out of anger and drove her away. now she is back home and i've realized the error of my foolish ways not only towards her but to my son also. i miss them so much and now my world has come crashing down. she thinks when i was back home i was cheating on her but i was just running from the pain but it wasn't a pain she inflicted because i was on drugs. now i'm sober and begging her to come back and she says she knows she is coming back because she loves me but while i'm sitting here she is going out to clubs and what not which i never minded but whenever i ask her if she's coming back she gets mad and says i'm pushing too hard and i just got to be patient. the more i call the madder she gets. is she gonna come back or did she move on? should i just let go? it just hurts.

2006-07-22 18:06:37 · 13 answers · asked by Chris 1

I am a stay at home mom, I clean houses two days a week. I dont make that much money. But still he has everything separate from my to his money. He makes good money to pay the bills and entertainment money, yet when I make money he makes sure I spend it that day on whatever. Then when I am broke I cant do anything that I want to do. Is this right? Or should I just deal with it?

2006-07-22 18:01:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in California, and my child and her mother lives in Maryland. She used the office in Maryland to sue me for child support (Interstate case), because she wanted more money than we had agreed on. I have been paying a crazy amount for approx. 1.5 years (Wage Deduction). Now I am in the process of moving to Florida. What is going to happen to that court order, since neither one of us lives in the state that granted the order?

2006-07-22 17:56:17 · 3 answers · asked by sirwilliam1229 1

2006-07-22 17:49:10 · 3 answers · asked by Kristy C 1

Trying to find the person who has been married the longest on here. Just curious. Somehow prove it in your answer

2006-07-22 17:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiancee is in jail, and is stressing, he is worried about when he will get out and all that junk, well does anyone know of a good poem or something that i could send to him to let him know that everything will be okay and that i love him very much and will stand by his side no matter what? Help me please!

2006-07-22 17:45:25 · 20 answers · asked by mandadapanda_2005 2

everybody in my familly has divorced or just not happy I don't want that to happen to me

2006-07-22 17:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work out and I am not fat so I know that can't be it. She tells me and so do alot of other people that I look like David Boreanez and she thinks he is hot. I do eveything fo this woman,footrubs,backrubs,cook,etc. Help me please!!

2006-07-22 17:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by tjoe1980 2