My sister-in-law cheated on my brother-in-law the night before they got married. It is my husband's brother, and he still asks me about that night, which I seen her all over this guy in the pool, but I dont want to get into their marraige issues. So am I wrong for keeping a secret or should I spill the beans????
2006-07-22 18:31:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't lie to your husband. Tell him the truth what he does with that information is up to him.
2006-07-22 18:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't spill the beans. That only opens up the can of worms for everybody. More important, it will most probably cause issues between you and your husband. Don't worry - if she is that bad off, it will only be a matter of time before she can't control herself and the truth will come out. At that time, you may want to enter the fray.
2006-07-23 01:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Proofread-Edit-Write.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully it was her last fling before tying the knot. so my suggestion is. let it go, dont spill the beans. their married now, so who knows maybe she changed? if u spill the beans, and their marriage is going well atm. then ull be the reason why it turns out bad. besides past is the past. just focus on the present cuz its the future.
2006-07-23 01:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Tell your husband all you want, as you have a right to tell your husband anything. However, since this guy is not YOUR blood, let your husband decide if he wants to tell him.
You should also explain to your husband that you are afraid of people getting angry at you if you share this, and hopefully he will make the right decision as far as how (and if) he tells his brother.
2006-07-23 01:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by bistekoenighasteangst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont say anything. You shouldnt tell because its not your business but you shouldnt keep it in because your lying to someone about something important so...either way your screwed. I would just be silent every time he asks and he can put the peices of the puzzle together. This way you can honestly say ''I didnt say anything''
2006-07-23 01:42:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell..if she is cheating on him then its not going to be a good relationship anyway. might as well nip it in the bud and tell him what happened. or tell someone. they dont have to find out that it was you that told. just tell the family big mouth and dont imply that its a secret. \
PLUS you cant cheat love
2006-07-23 01:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by K to the C from the C to the K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not wrong and i no that it is hard 4 u to keep it in but dont say anything becuz u will urin many relationships including the one u have with her.......trust me lies come out at the end so dont worry bout it i am sure it will come 4rm someone else.
2006-07-23 01:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it just speculation or did you see it happen with your own eyes? Be careful with the gossip! Unless you saw it happen, you shouldn't be talking about it! (If there is anyone that has a problem with this union, speak now or FOREVER hold your peace!)
2006-07-23 01:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by NFCsouthchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut
for all u know the husband wouldnt care
2006-07-23 01:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Sandra K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too late now, and it's not your place. leave it alone. don't let yourself become the homewrecker.....let the news come out some other way but not from you.
2006-07-23 04:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋