Her parents dont want her with anyone but they dont really care until they see us together its wierd but should i attempt to meet them or would i blow it?
2006-07-22 18:11:56 · 14 answers · asked by Big K Dogg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find another girl without the drama. There are WAY too many girls to spend tim worrying about one with over-protective parents.
2006-07-22 18:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how well you present yourself and the way you look when you meet them. If you look to be and behave as a respectable young man with good intentions then you might be ok, if you present yourself as a little thug or brag of some other kind you'll go down in flames. Be patient, they are her parents, although it seems as though they talk a lot but don't actually do much or she wouldn't be seeing you at all.
2006-07-22 18:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't want her dating, this is going to be tough. You could meet them, with your girlfriend, and talk to them. Ask them if there is any way (early curfew, making sure that they have your cell phone # etc) that would change their minds.
Some parents are pretty strict about this. They don't want her dating. The worst thing you can do is be sneaky, though. There is no quicker way to put your girlfriend on lockdown than to sneak around behind her parents' backs.
2006-07-22 18:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Daijobu K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay make a nice aproach and make entrance be nice dress good and when parents tell you some bullcrap that they dont want there daughter dating someone if you really love this girl i suggest you do this trust me this works and just sit them down tell them you love her and that want to be her and you wont do anything to hurt her and the reason parents do this is there over protective about there daughter and dont want anything or anyone hurting her or going the wrong way and tell me how it goes aight.
2006-07-22 18:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be to your advantage to meet the parents and talk with them about things. If you are prepared to wait until the girl is older and take it slow they may give you time with her under supervision. If she really interest you that should be enough for starters.
2006-07-22 18:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
old people are funny. they will already judge u before they meet u. just lay low for now, ur building a loving bond w/ ur gf not her family. so dont get too emotionally distress for them not wanting her to date. in time, when they gradually accept that ur there for her, and see that u are a really good guy and FINANCIALLY STABLE. then u can meet them =)
2006-07-22 18:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this isnt really youre problem...All you can do is ask your girlfriend to talk 2 her parents about it and whenever u see her parents be very nice..
2006-07-22 18:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no be a man n show them that ur a good guy n ur a gentleman n want to take their respectable daughter out on a date n u will follow the rules n be respectful of their daughter
2006-07-22 18:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but I think you should be respectful to how they feel. Not all parents are just nuts, you know. It is really stressful raising kids up. Go be nice to your mom and dad.
2006-07-22 18:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by erginflergin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship is about you and that girl, not with her parents. As long as you don't do anything inappropriate early in the stage, you should be fine.
2006-07-22 18:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by 2feEThigh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋