Marriage & Divorce - 22 July 2006

2006-07-22 17:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by abcdef 1

2006-07-22 17:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by green 1

Did you live together before marriage?
Did you have sex before marriage?
How long did you date before marriage?
How long have you been married?
What is your biggerst regret (if any)?
Do you have children?

2006-07-22 17:29:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 17:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by my4x4truck454 2

Why is it that when guys get a nice, decent-looking, well minded woman they get stupid and ditch her and get themselves a skank or a trashy-looking whore, I am not saying all guys do this but there is a majority of guys who do this and some of it I know is insecurity and I know that these can't be this insecure so what is the problem? It bothers me a lot because I don't completely understand it, I see that girls do leave their men but it is because of either money,looks,or popularity and women know what their doing and its not because of insecurity its materialism! But why do guys do idiot things?

2006-07-22 17:23:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's always saying I don't love him.That I think he's ugly,poor,fat.......It's getting really old.And I do love him,he's not fat or ugly.And we aren't suffering.But DAMN!!

2006-07-22 17:20:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 17:17:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I put all my eggs in one basket? Is there something wrong with my thinking?

2006-07-22 17:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 17:07:59 · 47 answers · asked by Jamez 1

If you had been married two months and your wife moved out with your child after simple communication breakdowns. Both agree we probably should have not gotten married in first place after living together with child for over two years. Found out she made out with someone one month before marriage after we got married as well. Counseling didn't work and don't know if I can trust her again. Trying to be nice but all she cares about is child and not me. What should I do?

2006-07-22 17:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by Test03 2

I have been with this guy for 3 years I truely love him (he takes my breathe away, he makes me gitty, he's great in bed, he is my everything) but I know he'll never ask me to marry him...we've talked about it. Do I leave now or wasted more time, will he ever change his mind?

2006-07-22 16:57:18 · 21 answers · asked by elliott_tiffney 2

2006-07-22 16:50:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-22 16:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by Lois H 1

2006-07-22 16:45:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i did! I met my hubby online, i just wanna find out who else has met someone special online

2006-07-22 16:36:51 · 18 answers · asked by jojo 2

2006-07-22 16:33:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ISEN'T LOVE THE SAME NO MATTER WHAT GENDER OR RACE YOU ARE

2006-07-22 16:23:10 · 21 answers · asked by katrina3662 2

alone. Am I right to feel this way? Hell everyone is stressedddddddddddddddddddddddddddd!

2006-07-22 16:16:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what % of the time would you say are you CURRENTLY happy in your marriage?

can you think of a time you were much MORE or much LESS happy?

are you in the middle of a major thing right now--(death of parents, birth of child/adoption, counseling, relocation, etc?)

2006-07-22 16:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5

2006-07-22 15:57:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he is very selfish and needs to come home. I make enough for both of us, why won't he just stop playing GI Joe?

2006-07-22 15:56:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Must leave an abusive husband and want to take my child out of state of TN and go to Grandparents home.

2006-07-22 15:52:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 children that are still minors, 15 and 13.
I've applied, and they've sent me letters that they will serve him, but he keeps changing jobs, and now he's fired. He also keeps changing addresses. He had 2 kids by 2 different women before the marriage, we had our 2 during the marriage, 1 was by another woman and the child was born 3 days before the divorce! He also had another by yet another woman after the divorce.
He kept bothering me to let my son come stay with him for a year, and I did, only for my son to be on his own, and in the streets til all hours. He wouldn't even give my son a key to his new apt.
So where was my son to go? He failed 8th grade, and had to go to summer school. Now, even though I went and got him, his father keeps calling him to come out there, and there are times I don't know he went. He doesn't care about him or summer school, because he kept him out for 5 days. I say if he can afford an apt.he can pay for his kids. I'm a teacher in IL.

2006-07-22 15:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by classyjazzcreations 5

she's completetly controlled by her mom, they talk non stop. she lies about talking to her and she will do anything she says, she even divorced her last husband because her mom told her to.

2006-07-22 15:43:16 · 6 answers · asked by otc 2

2006-07-22 15:38:10 · 26 answers · asked by aaron c 1

but at the moment my 6mnth old son is stopping me. I hate my partner I want to move back to my countrybut am not sure what is best for my son. Should I just leave him here with his father

2006-07-22 15:29:54 · 20 answers · asked by cindy06 1

I have also started having sex with his best friend. Is this a bad thing?

2006-07-22 15:29:16 · 20 answers · asked by Kat_21_1998 1

My husband and I were having a big argument, and I have been going through postpartim depression, so I've been a little wacky. I was so upset that he went to my parents for advice. My sister is over there at the time. She didn't have her car so my husband gave her a ride home. My sister offers him to stay the night, or in fact stay the night anytime we are fighting. I think this is odd, because they barely know each other and she knows my husband does not like her cause she borrowed money from him and never payed it back. I thought this was in poor taste, and tacky, even though she claims she would have stayed with a friend if he had stayed at her house. Am I wrong? Also that same day I had asked her if I could stay with her, cause I didn't want to be alone. She said yeah, I guess, but had a put out look on her face, showed that she didn't really want me too. This was a mnth ago. Now I find out she is telling everyone I have always been nuts!

2006-07-22 15:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by sky 1

When will it be my turn to be happy? It seems like all my life I have taken care of everyone else, and put my life on hold. Well I'm sick of it! My middle name should be on hold. Everybody wants me to be their puppet. Yeah, my life is sooooooo easy, I have everything. I have a husband, kids, and a house. An American dream, the perfect family. And I'm only going to be 28 on July 4th. I am sooooo young, and have not lived life. Right??? Wrong. I do not have a dream life. And if you could handle my life for a month, then you would be doing really good, because I can't handle it anymore. I have put on a smile for the longest time. It became a habit. Yeah, just pretend Cassie, or you are a Drama Queen. Everyone tells me that I am the strongest woman they have ever met. Well, this strong woman needs someone to love me for who I am. Someone who will touch me, because they want to, and not because I asked them to. Someone who will spend time with me, and not be too busy. Someone to make love to me because they want to, and not because it's their job. Someone who will love and want to take care of my children, instead of thinking I can have kids, lets have another one! Is there any real men out there anymore? All the men I've been with, have a very huge flaw. It's either drugs, beating the crap out of me, not wanting to pay attention to me, cheating on me, and lying. Most of the time I think I deserve better, but if I did, wouldn't God have given me what I needed? My soul purpose in life is to take care of people. When will it be my turn? I would love for someone to take care of me. I have needs too. When I get sick, will there ever be anyone to take care of me? When I am lonely, will there ever be anyone to talk to me, and not treat me like I'm a nuisance? Will there ever be someone to make love to me, when I want to become one? Everything I want seems so out of reach. The only thing I have been succesfull with, is having kids. I am sick and tired of single people saying I am so lonely, you do not know what it feels like. Do you think they know what if feels like to be married., and have that person not want you, and have to put up with that for years and years? I do know what it feels like. It is the worst feeling in the world. Don't get married unless you are actually going to be there for that person for the rest of your life. Marraige is a two way street. And both persons have to make it work. If its just one person working on it, then that's the end. It don't work that way. If one person don't want to work on it, and continues apologizing, yet don't do anyting about it, then they don't deserve you. It's time to move on, and that is exactly what I am going to do. I am sick and tired of you abandoning me, I am sick and tired of being lonely, and not touched. When I talk to you, you do not listen. I deserve better. It is time for me to move on. Please God, send me someone that actually loves me, and will not play games. I don't know how much more my heart can take.

2006-07-22 15:23:42 · 35 answers · asked by sdattitude2004 2

My husband and I were having a big argument, and I have been going through postpartim depression, so I've been a little wacky. I was so upset that he went to my parents for advice. My sister is over there at the time. She didn't have her car so my husband gave her a ride home. My sister offers him to stay the night, or in fact stay the night anytime we are fighting. I think this is odd, because they barely know each other and she knows my husband does not like her cause she borrowed money from him and never payed it back. I thought this was in poor taste, and tacky, even though she claims she would have stayed with a friend if he had stayed at her house. Am I wrong? Also that same day I had asked her if I could stay with her, cause I didn't want to be alone. She said yeah, I guess, but had a put out look on her face, showed that she didn't really want me too. This was a mnth ago. Now I find out she is telling everyone I have always been nuts!

2006-07-22 15:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by sky 1