I think he is very selfish and needs to come home. I make enough for both of us, why won't he just stop playing GI Joe?
2006-07-22 15:56:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I think you should move on. This is just not working out for you.Why stay married to a guy is not there.That is not being married.
2006-07-22 16:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES! Move on...but believe me...he's doing nothing wrong. While you are at home having a selfish pity party, your husband is away at W-A-R fighting for your freedom AND protection. Ya, he's real selfish...right?! Always remember the term...you don't know what you have until its gone...and I mean REALLY gone. If you leave him, I'm sure he will find someone that is appreciative for all the hard work, and faith that he is doing. While he's away protecting you, you're sitting at home contemplating divorce?? POOR MAN!!! You sound very spoiled...please, do this man a favor...move on. You should be PROUD of what he is doing. I can't believe that you can be SO disrespectful as to say that he should stop playing GI JOE!! Ugh...women like you are the ones that make us real women go buzurk
2006-07-23 02:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking this question? Being a military wife you should have known that your husband could be called into serving in a war zone, like Iraq or Afghanistan. I think you're the one who's being selfish. ( First you want to cheat, now you think about leaving him. ) It's not like he's got the choice to come home, nor is he " playing " GI Joe, for crying out loud. His tour of duty will be up eventually, so grow up, and stop thinking about yourself only. Get a hobby, go volunteer at a homeless shelter, do something for someone less fortunate than yourself.
2006-07-22 23:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by cairnlvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that when you point a finger at someone three fingers point at you. You are the selfish person. You either stand by your man or take the bus. You are selfish because you want to control what makes him happy. If I was him I would tell you goodbye forever.
Here is a good idea for you: Get a divorce because he doesnt deserve a selfish person like you and then find a loser that you can control.
2006-07-23 00:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by ricaca123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey your husband is fighting for his country and all of us who live in it. It's men like him that gave us the freedom that we have now. I can't believe that you would even think about putting him through that with everything that he is dealing with now. How disrespectful, undecent and selfish of you. I would like to go further with this but the more I type the madder I am getting at you. It's women like you that make the rest of us look bad.YOU are the selfish one. He is not playing GI Joe he is putting his life on the line for you and everyone else. Why don't you carry your a** over there and see what he is going through everyday....GRRRR
2006-07-22 23:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by cowgurlup763 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I mean no disrespect, but he's not there because he wants to be, he is there because he got ORDERS to go there. Selfish is not the word I would use at all. He is doing his job in which he signed on for. He's not playing GI Joe over there. His life is in danger. This is for real. I know it's hard for you and all the other spouses that are without their mate. But if you truly love him, you will wait for him to come home and welcome him with open arms.
2006-07-23 00:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By you asking him to leave Iraq is being selfish. He is protecting you and your family. Did you know of him being a soldier before you married him. Maybe he made a mistake by marrying you. Many women would trade their situation for a good man like yours. Appreciate what you have before it's gone.
2006-07-22 23:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mir3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you're saying but maybe it's not about money. Maybe he just loves his country! I know it's probably easy to say because I'm not in your shoes but I think that you should wait until he gets home. That's probably would really hurt for him to get home from a WAR and then having to go through a divorce! Just wait until he gets home and talk it out. But in the end it's your decision and this is just my opinion. If I was u I would probably feel the same way. GOOD LUCK! â¥
2006-07-22 23:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he join the armed forces after you were married. If he leaves you to come home he will be arrested. You should stop being so selfish and support the fact that he may be killed for his country and give him all the support you can.
2006-07-22 23:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he there voluntarily? Does he choose to stay over there? He is fighting for our country and our beliefs and the freedoms and safety we have grown accustomed to.
What if he was home living off of your salary that you say is enough to support both of you? And while you were out working hard one day to make sure you bring home the money, you came home to him asking you for a divorce?
You bring money and a lifestyle home to him. He keeps you free to do that and more.
You really want to divorce him for that when you do the same thing but on a smaller scale?
Don't be sad. I know its rough. But remember...for better or for worse!
2006-07-22 23:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you are asking that!! It's not like he chose to go to Iraq. He's protecting the country. Sounds like you are the one being selfish. If you can't wait for him to come home, it just sounds like you didn't have enough love for him to be worried about him and wait for him to come home safe and alive.
2006-07-22 23:00:55 · answer #11 · answered by Kat_21_1998 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋