what % of the time would you say are you CURRENTLY happy in your marriage?
can you think of a time you were much MORE or much LESS happy?
are you in the middle of a major thing right now--(death of parents, birth of child/adoption, counseling, relocation, etc?)
2006-07-22 16:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by Hot Lips 4077 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
90%
Married 21 years
Yeah. In the middle of a major thing or two.
Best advice is this: (from my grandma) Marriage is not a 50-50 deal ... ever. Sometimes it's 90-10, your favor. Sometimes it's 30-70, his favor. You can just never tell. The best you can do is be good to each other as often as you can. It all works out in the end. If you're looking for "fairness," that's not really what marriage is about.
2006-07-22 16:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a lot happier when my husband and I first met. The one thing I would love to get back is the bitterflies. I realize that is unrealistic but it's true. As for a percent I would honestly have to say less than 60% of the time I am happy. The only issues I have in my marriage right now is I have an evil mother in law. Have you ever seen the movie Monster In Law? Well someone met my mother in law and decided to make a much tamer character and make it into a movie!!! (Only been married 4 years and we have 4 kids)
2006-07-22 16:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by vanembryzoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY? Well not mad is sorta like being happy I guess.
Satisfied would be more like it, I'd say about 25% after 14 years
We were happiest the forst 2-3 years before the kids came along
or the first year they did arrive, I wpoild not chane anything but it has been stress city since then for sure.
2006-07-22 16:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Renegade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately the times of happiness have depreciated so bad over the last few year that there are not many left to speak off.
2006-07-22 16:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married 2 yrs happy 20% of the time
2006-07-22 16:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by TM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good marriage only gets better. A bad marriage only gets worse. Stress is like building getting hit with a bomb...if the marriage is good it'll withstand the hit....if the marriage is bad it'll crumble.
I'm married and very happy. Thanks for asking.
2006-07-22 16:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ought to have hardship with a million and a couple of. i ought to a lot extremely be with someone who's extra managed or tactful. My spouse angers easily and it is my least popular characteristics of hers. 3. human beings can change this kind. have you ever tried being extra affectionate which includes her? this can help her to make certain how spectacular that's and he or she ought to commence being extra affectionate with you. 4. This too ought to change. once she learns the thanks to be seductive she ought to correctly be extra prepared to attempt. also even as she's extra sexually helpful and mushy she ought to correctly be prepared to provide you oral sex. 5. i'm a tidy man or woman so does no longer care a lot for this trait. 6. in case you do marry her, you'll likely be the guy who handles the charges and funds. no man or woman is proper. you would possibly want to opt for once you're prepared to stay with someone who has those characteristics. in my opinion, if I were searching for yet another spouse, i ought to stay faraway from everybody with trait selection 2.
2016-10-15 02:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5%
Bevore kids and while they were young.
One kid has left for college and the other one will be gone next year. I am not sure what to expect afterwards.
2006-07-23 15:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋