If you had been married two months and your wife moved out with your child after simple communication breakdowns. Both agree we probably should have not gotten married in first place after living together with child for over two years. Found out she made out with someone one month before marriage after we got married as well. Counseling didn't work and don't know if I can trust her again. Trying to be nice but all she cares about is child and not me. What should I do?
2006-07-22 17:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by Test03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just worry about you and your kid. get over it and move on.
2006-07-22 17:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by jenny e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is not a very nice person...it is possible she is just looking for the child support check...try to work things out because divorce is an ugly thing for a child to have to deal with, but I would also get some proof of her infidelity because it will help you out when it is time to go to court, either with custody or maybe a lesser amount in child support...
Either way you go it will be a long hard road, you have to decide if she is worth the battle to keep her or if you are up to the fight. So many people today just give up and move on, but I suggest you try to make it work...
Good luck!!!!!
2006-07-22 17:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have isn't even a marriage. She's allready cheating on you Before and after teh marriage Why don't you realize its Over and attempt to move on with your life. Probably the only ones suffering in this relationship are you and your kid. The way it looks you can stay and get a divorce later or you can get it over with now and move on.
2006-07-22 17:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to break this to you, but all she's thinking about is the child support she's going to siphon from you for the next 18+ years. Brace yourself.
2006-07-22 17:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bubsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move forward... It sounds like she might be to young to have an actual relationship and thinks that its greener on the other side... She will find out and you will be better off for moving on.
2006-07-22 17:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by rrh1210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuff like that hurts, you have to try and forgive and make her love you all over again, surprise her with a bed of roses or beoutside her job with flowers, if she doesnt appreciate you trying then it wasnt ment to be.
2006-07-22 17:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by shortyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you should move on..........But remember, once you do, I can almost guarantee she'll want you back......Don't fall for it, you deserve to be treated better than that and to have someone love you the way you love them.......Take care.........
2006-07-22 17:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get on with your life, and move on, she has cheated
on you so that should be enough, as for your child, i would be
nice to her because of that reason, but it time to find someone
that will love and respect you.
2006-07-22 17:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waa waaa waaa poor poor pitiful you she loves her kid more then you know what buddy thats life and makes her a good mother now grow up before you lose her for good hell i'd cheat on your punk *** to
2006-07-22 17:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer.
2006-07-22 17:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by ann f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋