How can I put all my eggs in one basket? Is there something wrong with my thinking?
2006-07-22 17:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you feel you need someone else in your life all the time then you haven't really found true love. When you find it, you won't even consider having another man in your life.
2006-07-22 17:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You certainly haven't found love. If you did you wouldn't be looking for a back up. You are no where near ready to be in a committed relationship let alone be married. I would stop the engagement and date until your interest are focused on one man. Marriage is tough enough with 2 committed to each other. 50-60percent of marriages end in divorce and that's going in with the best of intentions. Don't risk it.
2006-07-22 17:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by ShellRe' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you talk to other men the more you take away from your fiancee. it is hurting you even if you don't think it is. be true, be loyal. I guarantee all the other men want is some fast fun. think about the long term and there are ways to have just as much fun with your fiancee present. its all about discipline. All the best to you.
2006-07-22 17:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with your thinking unless you're serious about getting married.
You are obviously not ready for a commitment. Slow WAY DOWN!!! Or end it. You'll be happier until you feel like you can make a monogamous commitment to one man.
Good luck!
2006-07-22 17:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what need to happen is your fiancee need to back up out
of this relationship. since you seem to not know what
you want. then you can talk to all the other men that you want
you be a single women. that will serve the purpose don't
you think since you need so much back up.
2006-07-22 17:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to tell yourself are you ready to get married. Need a backup just in case sounds as though you are immature and do not know what love is.
2006-07-22 17:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be your 1st feeonsay. fiancier. feeancee.Your 'Not Yet Married Husband' Yes? I think he's just a boyfriend so I suggest to re-define what you're in before assuming too much.
2006-07-22 17:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need back-up? You have a man that loves you and I suggest you don't lose him.
2006-07-22 17:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by cheerbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is take a risk and trust him that everything will be ok
2006-07-22 17:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋