2006-07-22 15:57:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No because if you were there and the roles were reversed he would be doing the same thing, think about it.
2006-07-22 16:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by TM 2 · 6⤊ 6⤋
Yes, it's still cheating. You are married to the man and are supposed to be with only him. How would you feel if he were in Iraq and he was with some women there? Always put yourself in the other person's shoes before you act on anything.
2006-07-22 16:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is love I personally would never cheat even If he was gone for twenty year you enter a contract when you got married. How would you feel if you did cheat, and a few days later a military Chaplin show up at you door to tell you your husband died in the line of duty protecting you and his county. How would you feel the rest of your life. If you need it that bad have a naughty lady party and get yourself some toys to help until he returns
2006-07-22 16:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by karol p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay look first off all military wives already have a bad name for doing that so WHY would you want to add to that? Second he is defending your country and you knew what you was getting into when you got married, long nights alone, long times alone, the standard military wifey scene. So where do you get off thinking it is right? And what the **** is he gonna think when he comes home and finds out what you did? It's going to ruin your marriage so while your asking yourself is it cheating ask yourself DO I LOVE MY HUSBAND AND MY FAMILY? Get some toys go to the room and get off . What the hell do you want to wreck everything you have worked to get in this life with your husband for a touch that will probly only last a few minutes?
2006-07-22 16:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answering your question regarding the stress. if i knew this info i i would have said otherwise.cheating is wrong. cheating is cheating. you are immorally and spiritually wrong. you have the nerve to ask about leaving your husband for stress he should leave you for cheating. in bible times they stoned adulterers. being a military child. my own mother would never had done such a thing. my husband is right if you couldn't handle being a military wife and looked into the way they have to handle things you shouldn't have married him. he deserves a wife that is understanding and can wait for him as a proper wife should.military or otherwise. you are a disgrace to military women every where. i was trying to help you over the stress. but god will be your judge and adultery is not views good in his eyes. repent
2006-07-22 20:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by angelchele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of answers already. But, he is already fighting a war so you can remain free to cheat on him, and not fight for your life. Obviously we are not in your shoes and it might be lonely for you, but why make the man come home from something so horrible to having a different kind of war in his own home where he should feel the safest? I feel sad for him and God Bless him and his safety, but I am even sadder for you that at what is possible the worst time of his life you managed to perhaps make it even worse.
You can't make it right, but try to do what you can to start paddling a little faster to save what is left of both of you. And for God's sake don't decide to tell him while he is there. That would be cruel. I wish you and him the best.
2006-07-22 16:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirlup64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. Besides, what kind of sick B#$%^ would cheat on her husband while he was risking life and limb for his country and his family in Iraq? You should trade places IMO.
2006-07-22 16:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by kierr31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating. There are no pre-conditions to cheating or adultery. If one is married and has sex outside the marriage, it is adultery.
Having said the above, i am not going to make a moral statement about this aspect.
And to those who call this person names, who gave you the right to cast stones? You do not know this person or why she is asking this question. Military spouses go through a lot when their spouses are away, and if anything, a person in this person;s shoes needs counseling or someone to talk to.
2006-07-22 16:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by blah_in_az 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being unfaithful sexually is one thing.
If you have a friend your talking to and gives you emotional support that's another thing... but if he is holding and kissing and all that other stuff that falls under cheating...then your cheating and You should think if you were away from the ones you and they were doing all the stuff you wish they didn't then how would you feel?
2006-07-22 16:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by Rain S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with you?? How old are you? Cheating is cheating. Our men and women are dying over there putting their lives on the line. For better or worse, remember those vows, love , honor, and cherish. Grow up!
2006-07-22 16:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by bewildered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating you know it is.
How would you feel if you found out he had a girlfriend over there?
Shame on you....here he is....risking his life on a daily basis, in a hostile war... and your only concerned with your own libido.
He deserves better....
on second thought, cheat on him, confess to him, and let him dump you...jand let him find a woman that has some respect for him and some self respect....he deserves better than you.
2006-07-22 16:06:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋