Marriage & Divorce - 18 July 2006

I found out last year that my wife had an affair. It was a combination of me snooping and investigating and friends who told me what she was doing. When I found out I slapped her on the leg out of anger. I had suspected she was cheating but I trusted her when she said she wasn't. The past year I hoped that we could begin building trust. I love my wife very much and we have two very beautiful children. I am currently deployed to Iraq, and I have begun to suspect that she's cheating again. This time I have been investigating much harder, hacking her e-mail, listening to her voicemail, and when I confront her with things she lies to me. I have hard evidence that I am confronting her with and she still lies to me. She blames me for not respecting her privacy, and threatening her friends. I think she is just trying to blame me for her behavior. I'm calling her on the things she's doing wrong trying to keep our family together. SO I pose the question am I wrong?

2006-07-18 23:55:55 · 35 answers · asked by letsohhostel 2

My wife works in close contact with a young girl whom I would call "confused". She was married once, to a boozer, and now divorced. She now hangs with mostly women, and has confided to my wife, that lacking a good man, she has been intimate with women, although just lightly. My wife has told me that she thinks this girl has some interest in her, and kind of makes a joke about it. We have done things together, and she treats me very well, very warm and freindly. I remark to my wife that she is attractive, and such a shame she has "gone the other way". She agrees with me, and says " a good hard man would be able to bring her back around. We all three enjoy each others company, and I see some sparks. I think we all have the same thing in mind, what should I do. Married for 23 years, same sex partner, just each other. Time to give a threesome a try???

2006-07-18 23:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Somebody, help me. I don't need anyone to save me......but, just a little help would be so good!. I know this can't possibly make sense......I just felt compelled to write this.

2006-07-18 23:30:53 · 16 answers · asked by treefrog 4

how do i know if he really loves me.

2006-07-18 23:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by jamila h 1

i have cute male sex partner with 3-4 hr sex encounter

should remain with him or go back to hubby.huby has no interest in sex.i m40 yrs old.

2006-07-18 23:23:24 · 15 answers · asked by adi s 1

2006-07-18 23:22:57 · 15 answers · asked by frozenrose 2

ive been getting prank calls .and i believe is the shameless son of a mistress. argh. it certainly isnt a good feeling. what should i do?

2006-07-18 23:19:23 · 3 answers · asked by woohoo123 2

2006-07-18 23:18:06 · 3 answers · asked by jaydechef1981 1

2006-07-18 23:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by mohannad_n1 1

2006-07-18 23:09:22 · 2 answers · asked by mohannad_n1 1

2006-07-18 22:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by mohannad_n1 1

My ex wants to give our daughters back to me after keeping them for seven years; however, he wants the matter resolved before school starts where he is on Aug 4th; can I do something with out a lawyer's intervention?

2006-07-18 22:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by savvyladydiamond 3

my friend who is 20 years old guy, and lives with his mom lonely. his mom is 40 years old woman and has been divorced for 10 years. my friend tells me sometimes he sees the porn movies with his mother, and then he grabs her mom's boobs and hug her and touches her private parts. and both of them enjoy. and they do this for a long time.
what do you think about them, and their relations...i want to tell something my friend, bout i don't know is correct or not. give your advices to me. i need your advices for him...

2006-07-18 22:08:53 · 15 answers · asked by ton_rimas 2

2006-07-18 21:58:59 · 26 answers · asked by shalini 1

If it was legal, and your husband/wife didn't care - would you have more than one spouse? Just one of those 'I'm bored so let's ask a poll' questions. That and someone will get those 10 points as a bonus. *incentive!* LoL

2006-07-18 21:44:09 · 12 answers · asked by Inked Fantasy 3

Do married ladies who have afairs tend to swallow more? Most of the married women I have been with swallow but they say they never do with their husbands. I figure that the wife is just trying to "get rid" of the evidence. Any insight? Thanks.

2006-07-18 21:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in early 30s n not really desperate to get pregnant.Going to celebrate 1st anniversary soon this Aug06.Havent come menses yet .Me n Hubby early 30s

2006-07-18 21:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

HelloeMy name is randy i am 28 i have 2 children i just found out that my wife of 8 years just cheated on me for the 2nd time the first was a month or so after we married With an ex-boyfriend but we were split up for a while and were living in different states i forgave her and i thought we moved on nicely with our marriage however 4months ago she did it again with the bread guy who delivers to the store she works I love her with all my heart but she hurt me and im afraid she will do it again also i think my kids need both a mother and a father im not scared to move on im a good looking guy with a good job but thats not what i want i want a family is this a lost cause?

2006-07-18 21:25:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The wife is a female dog and hardly gives him the time of day anymore. She should have taking care of her husband more better or he would have not seeked me!!!

2006-07-18 21:18:42 · 44 answers · asked by butterfly 1

2006-07-18 21:17:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 21:13:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 21:12:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

no I feel kinda bad about it, should I keep it to myself or tell him what I done?

2006-07-18 21:10:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i take care of my financial necessities. i am thinking of leaving him. am i right in doing so?

2006-07-18 21:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

if someone is fedup with life , is it better to end life or sacrifice everything and live.

2006-07-18 21:06:19 · 11 answers · asked by kk_epy 1

afterwards? My boyfriend desprately wants to be married again. He lived with me in my current state and moved away to get away from a nasty drug habit and get a better job. He is clean and well now, 500 miles away. He wants me to move there now and marry him. I am in college and have 1 1/2 years left. What to do? I love him but he moved away. Should I leave everything and go? I feel like if I don't he will move on quickly--the long distance thing would be too much for him.

2006-07-18 21:05:42 · 5 answers · asked by Tell it like it is 2

needless to say, how can i stop her from administering this agony and make her understand how painful it is.

2006-07-18 21:03:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 20:59:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-18 20:37:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is stealing money from me all the time well tonight i was going to the store and i went to count my money and it was missing well me and him got into it then i left to go to the store anyways.... when i came back he was gone that was at 5pm it is now 2:23 AM and he is still not back im getting sick of his crap some one help me and i don't want to hear leave him he aint no good i all ready know that give me better advice!!! thanks sarah

2006-07-18 20:25:55 · 17 answers · asked by 123456789 1