Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2006

...when you grew apart and both just live their lifes by themselfes?
is there a chance to get back together?

2006-07-16 23:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by 42 6

2006-07-16 23:39:59 · 9 answers · asked by loverbig_boy 1

been married 3 years..2 yr old and 2 mo pregnant...hubby leaves wednesday..doesnt even call...i go friday and tell him to come home...he dont till 2 am...we talk sat morn...he dont say anything...i had to go somewhere and when i got back hed got his things and just walked out...no note or anything...what kind of man would just walk out on his babylike nothing matters...and he never did anything for the family either...3 yrs of marriage...hes never worked...he gets ssi...but thats not near enough...and he hates my dad that has helped me pay for things i cant...my dad fixed a old house for us..give us a car to drive(and hubby refuses to let my drive)...and me his truck(cause hubby being a a**)..to drive...and this isnt the first time hes done it...he thinks my dad is the problem...im just not gonna drop my dad because he wants me too...should i work it out or just let him stay away...he dont seem to care about me or his children

2006-07-16 22:55:11 · 18 answers · asked by crazywitch911 1

2006-07-16 22:40:25 · 32 answers · asked by hmh 1

I wrote not too long ago about my abusive marriage. I am really
having a hard time because I was planning on leaving and I am
ambivalent about everything. I talked to my husband earlier about
going to counseling and he thinks that it won't work. He is verbally
and emotionally abusive(we also have 2 small children). He says that he is tired of me. My question today is, do you think there is
any justification for his anger on my part? I ask this because I
admit that I have done things also over the years that he complains about such as not always being reliable (job wise), nagging (a little), not accomplishing goals: weightloss, going back to school, etc).
I'm wondering if I didn't do these things beause of the abuse(lowered self esteem and depression) or is his anger justified by calling me names and hollering and putting me down. I am so mixed up and I always find myself wanting to make things work and that if I changed to better myself, things would be ok. please help.

2006-07-16 22:32:44 · 15 answers · asked by Veronique 3

2006-07-16 22:13:42 · 8 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1

My lazy no good hubby drinks and likes to get violent when he drinks, at what point should I say enough is enough I don't need another black eye and I am leaving you?

2006-07-16 21:58:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband drinks alot and when he does we tend to argue a lot and sometimes it get physical. Can I ever change him?

2006-07-16 21:51:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in a no win situation with my wife
i am a head chef and short on staff so am having to work upto 15 hours a day due to summer and hoards of customers
i still make sure i have two days off although i have had to go in to work to help out the last two weeks due to staff being under pressure, on my off days i wake early to take care of our three month old daughter which i love while her mum works the two days i have off
i get attacked verbally or emotionally when i get home most nights. my wife seems to blame me for being busy at work which i feel is a little harsh as its a sign that i am good at what i do surely
i know that in a month or two it will be less strain as the weather will mean the customer abundance will drop off and i will have more time to spend with her and the baby. i do all i can, i cook for her every day and as i said take care of the baby when i can, i try my best to do things on my evenings off with her yet she still moans, i rarely even get a cuppa made

2006-07-16 21:29:39 · 29 answers · asked by jude 2

my mother was married to who i thought was my real dad .she was married to him for.29. years .i am.19. years old and she told dad that he wasnt my real father.she said that .19.years ago she had had and affair with another man andthe other man was my real dad. i love my dad even he aint my real father he was always there for me and when she told him he cried i hate my mother for doing him like that he has worked all his life and mom done him like that i hate her and never want nothing to do with her the rest of my life he told me i was stil his child and always would be and she got pragnet my a mormon missionary .19. years ago i over heard her tell him i hate this missionary as much as i hate her can i keep my name given to me at birth i am going to collage and dont want her in my life never as for how she did the man i still all dad who raised me and told me no matter i would always be his child he filed for divorce from her over what she did and i cant blame him

2006-07-16 21:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2

2006-07-16 21:14:13 · 10 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1

and am too practicle in life... which many people cant take.....so i wnt to heve lots of patience and tolerance .....

2006-07-16 21:11:14 · 5 answers · asked by sampalis 1

the bed and a larger sized type kittie type pool over the bed and you found your wife sitting there in her sexy undergarments ... (as a spice of life anniversery gift ) what would you want in the pool for lube to make everything slippery and would you like this idea or is it way to dang strange ?
I'm so serious please be nice .

2006-07-16 20:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by insertstrawhere 4

My husband and I had a heart to heart talk the other day and he told me "that he knows that he hasnt been a good husband and loves me and wants to be a better husband" I have already seen changes in him and I want to let himn know how much he means to me and how much I love him. What can I do for him that would knock his socks off?

2006-07-16 20:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jamie S 1

2006-07-16 20:26:23 · 15 answers · asked by Jordan 2

2006-07-16 20:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by Sasha K 1

2006-07-16 20:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by biblegurl79 1

I used to think she was the hottest woman in the world. But anyone who leave a loving husband like that makes me sick. I am just glad he has moved on with his life and stayed strong. He is a great role model for the rest of us men who have been treated like this.

2006-07-16 20:16:43 · 14 answers · asked by Roger S M 2

what u think

2006-07-16 20:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by lord i 2

2006-07-16 20:04:36 · 25 answers · asked by Inner B 1

2006-07-16 19:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by rekha c 3

I love my wife and my secret lover and want them both by my side.

My wife dont know that I have a secret lover but my secret lover know that I have a wife and I intend to keep it this way.

Will I ever make it through??? Both women are as important to me.

2006-07-16 19:51:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-16 19:51:51 · 14 answers · asked by COOLasBLUEice 2

what can you say about a husband who's dating and having sex with someone other than his wife.. but this time its a gay..

2006-07-16 19:49:49 · 23 answers · asked by iNfectiOus 1

My mom found out that my dad is cheating on her yesterday, and my mom told me they had been together for about a couple of months. This is not the first time my dad is cheating on my mom, and I don’t know if they should divorce or not. For me, I don’t care about my dad anymore as long as my mom is happy. Anyone plz help me out cuz im kinda confuse here!

2006-07-16 19:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by exige240R 1

Today, July 16th is my 9th wedding anniversary and I sit here at 11pm in front of the computer on yahoo answers. He caused a confrontation on purpose so that he wouldnt have to spend any time or money on me and sat in front of the TV all day. I am terminally ill and he knows this. I would think he would want to spend any time he has left with me. He only tells me he loves me when he is confronted and he lies to my mother about taking care of me. He told her he was making an anniversary breakfast for us and we were going out to dinner if I was up for it. Instead, I went through drive thru at Burger King to get him breakfast and I didnt even eat dinner. He is in bed now and I havent heard an Im sorry or even a Happy Anniversary. He left the house 1 time to go to the gas station and I told him I moved more $ into his personal account so he had it in case he needed it. That was his hint. He came home with nothing. He swears he isnt cheating but I think differently. Please help

2006-07-16 19:09:58 · 24 answers · asked by anginfla 3

2006-07-16 19:07:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-16 19:06:37 · 5 answers · asked by chaku 1

i mean when some one get married to someone else who belongs to his family? dose this has effects? what it's advantages and it's disadvantages ?

2006-07-16 18:57:14 · 1 answers · asked by sosa 1

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 1.5 years. We plan to get pregnant next year and our baby will be born when we are 25 and 27 if everything goes right.

We will have our house mortgage paid off next year, and we will have $0 debt. I have a college education and we both have been at our jobs for a couple of years and make a good living.

My mother doesn't want me to have children because she thinks I will have no patience for my children and she thinks I should wait until I am 30 before I get pregnant.

My husband and I rented some movies on pregnancy and babies, and my mother saw the receipt in my car. She frowned and had this unhappy look on her face.

We are happy together and want to start a family, we have had our dog since he was a puppy and he is 2.5 years old and I have tons of patience with him and he is hyper and a pain in the butt!

How do I deal with my mother, she thinks she is entitled to say what she wants about my future kids!

2006-07-16 18:56:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous