My husband and I had a heart to heart talk the other day and he told me "that he knows that he hasnt been a good husband and loves me and wants to be a better husband" I have already seen changes in him and I want to let himn know how much he means to me and how much I love him. What can I do for him that would knock his socks off?
2006-07-16 20:37:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jamie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Candle lit dinner (his favorite dish) at home and have no other lightson & no interference switch off you cells unhook the phone and candles and petals leading to your bedroom petals on your bed. Lovely music in the background. this is his night so you please him so he is first priority.
2006-07-16 21:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I suggest not worrying about what you can do for him to prove you love him. If he's been an awful husband and your still there then thats all the proof he needs for right now. Let him worry about proving his love for you. Don't be mean or anything but don't let him think your a fool for sweet talk. Because then he will use that everytime. But if you really want to know how to knock his socks off then you need to start with his pants.
2006-07-16 20:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only u know your husband, is there something he's always talked about that he always wanted, or always wanted to do.. we cant answer this one for you, the only way to knock his socks off is to do something that comes from your heart that u know that he'd love..
2006-07-16 20:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever you're not doing now as far as being romantic, running his bath water, having dinner fixed when he gets home, wearing lingerie, having "special" romantic evenings (with the strawberries whipped cream and champagne), the tap on the shoulder in the middle of the night, or just simply saying "i love you" just because
try some of those things and more
p.s. and a little head won't hurt either
2006-07-16 20:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Went through a similar situation w/ my hubby. Sex always works for them. Lots of sex. Lots and LOTS of sex. Like, I'd arrange w/ neighbors to take the kids after CHURCH to "knock his socks off." Any time he wouldn't expect it.
And GO YOU for doing whatever it takes to save your marriage. It ain't easy, but it's so worth it!
Good luck, and have fun! ;)
2006-07-16 20:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by LastNerveLost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan a private party with just you and him.. find a sitter for the kids.. have dinner by candle light.. his favorite meal..and have romantic music on and just show him how much you appreciate him... and if you do not want to do it this way think of something that really turns him on, or something you both have fun doing together....
2006-07-16 20:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy him something that he really wants or plan a romantic weekend/ trip some where like Paris as an example.
2006-07-16 20:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sheik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw a bubble bath and give him a bath after the bath give him a massagage with lotion. Then make love to him like you never have before. signed born2damromantic
2006-07-16 20:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I can say best.........show him this question. He would probley be very happy to just know that you have noticed by hearing it straight from you!
A very romantic, hot oil massage by his wife would probley do him wonders!
2006-07-16 20:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already proved that you are important for her. That alone is the reason which forced him to change.
So just keep your routine.
2006-07-16 20:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋