2006-07-16 20:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by biblegurl79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love is love
2006-07-16 20:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by j e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u get married your spouse becomes your immediate family..your family nor his is to come before your spouse.. so based on that alone.. why would u care what his parents say? If you both love each other and you both have what it takes to be committed to each other for the rest of your life then thats all that matters. It would be nice if they could share in your happiness.. but if he really loves u and plans on making a life with u.. then he needs to focus only on that and hope that his parents will come around..
2006-07-16 20:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you both want to get married?
Then who cares what anyone else thinks?Including either set of parents!!!
Do what is right for the 2 of you.
Why are they disapproving?
2006-07-16 20:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by cmeand3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about his or your parents for that matter. He didnt asked his mother or father to marry him he asked you, so your choice shouldnt be base upon them disapproving your relationship. But now if he is having second thoughts then i wouldnt waste my time. Either way if love brought you guys this close i say let God handle it and if its meant to be then it will
2006-07-16 20:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not marrying his parents, so yeah you should, although is hard that they disapprove it, (im in your same situation) but if wants to marry you no matter what they say it means he really loves you and cares about you!!!
2006-07-16 20:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by jimena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. My parents have been married for 25 years, and my dad's mum never liked my mum. In fact, for the 30 years that they've been together, my Nana has mentioned my dad's ex girlfriend within the first 10 minutes of seeing my mum. Luckily for my mum I guess we live 3000miles away, so she doesn't have to hear it that often! Unless the parents are causing HUUUUUUUUGE issues for you, it shouldn't affect your decision.
2006-07-16 20:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally feel its totally upto u and ur man...if u guys dont really care about family's concerns, then yes go ahead...and if you do care about how they feel then find out the reason why they are disapproving, talk to your man and find out a solution to the problem...solve it, make the parents happy and then get married...this'll make all the relationships stronger.
2006-07-16 20:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Ruchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to have their approval before you go ahead with the marriage. Do find out what they want or why they disapprove. Won't you wan't your son or daugther to have your approval b4 marriage?
2006-07-16 20:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! You are marrying him NOT his family. And it will be their choice whether or not to accept you or risk losing him.
If he loves you then let him love you.
His family will ease up with time and see the same qualities that he has seen to want to make you his wife!
2006-07-16 20:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficulties if not always, most of the times come into the way. But one should not give it up. Try them to convince, everything will be alright.
If they couldn't get convinced then do what your heart says.
2006-07-16 20:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Aum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you yes, but just know you have a long road ahead of yourself dealing with them. If you think you can get past them then do it if it's for the right reasons.
2006-07-16 20:31:52 · answer #11 · answered by tejasred2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋