Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2006

i have been married for 20 years and he knocked me about, i got divorced met some one else who i thought was the ideal partner and he just keeps getting us in to debt, why do men let me down i alway think im a strong person but im not so sure any more!

2006-07-14 23:56:51 · 31 answers · asked by Tracy F 1

I mean is it an old fashion , or not ?

2006-07-14 23:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by citizen high 6

Being married doesn't mean you will have happier kids. I mean, what's wrong with raising kids together without the piece of paper called marriage?

2006-07-14 23:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by jan 2

Maybe if it was more difficult to get married in the first place there would be less need for divorce...that's what I think anyway and yes I have been divorced twice.

2006-07-14 23:40:25 · 16 answers · asked by Mindy Jo 2

A. A midnight finale' a Disneyland
B. A Spectacular finale' over looking the Hudson Bay in NY
C. A mediocre finale' in your driveway
D. A fizzled out dud display either on the beach or in your backyard

2006-07-14 23:25:29 · 7 answers · asked by aunt_beeaa 5

He has been so boring, lacks of sense of humour,calculative...etc Wonder if hes goin through andropause. I need some excitement. We are in our mid 40's

2006-07-14 23:23:10 · 4 answers · asked by liz 1

2006-07-14 23:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by bangkok 2

Quick answer please

2006-07-14 22:30:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 22:24:42 · 14 answers · asked by just curious 1

2006-07-14 22:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by praveen jain 2

Okay My sister's Boyfriend picked up a girl on side of the road (kin to my other sister's boyfriend) and he said that he went to get her a painpill somwheres and that then they went up on a graveyard to do the pill..(they i guess are both dope heads) anyhow then he said he dropped her off someones at someones house. He claims he didn't fool with the girl but my sister nor i don't believe him. She ran him off tonight after hearing that. He swears it on peoples lifes that he didnt' have sex with that girl but anyone can swear it and lie at the same time. Right?

Anyhow by all of the above do you believe he cheated?

2006-07-14 22:05:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please answer if you've been married for more than 2 years.

2006-07-14 21:50:27 · 13 answers · asked by GoateeBoy 3

Ok, my GF just got back from vacation. She now, after having had time to think about the current state of our relationship, isn't sure we can be together anymore.
A little background, I have been really down becuase I lost my job a few months back, and it's effected my ability to get another job. Becuase of it I've been absorbing myself in video games to escape that harsh truth. And, subsequently, have been spending a lot less time with her, and havn't been really doing much of anything to help out around the house (bills, cleaning, etc).

The day she left I started thinking about our current situation too, completely independant of her starting to ponder, and since have become a machine. I've cleaned up the whole house, put in 40apps in 3 days, and have overcome my little depression.

Question: How do I convince her that I'm for real? That I really have turned over a new leaf, and am not just trying to do the minimum?

2006-07-14 21:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

they got 1 child...her husband hurts her sometimes...

2006-07-14 21:33:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee wants me to stop taking my birth control (we're getting married next year)....he wants kids and so do I, but I already have one and I'd like to wait till after the wedding. He seems to want them now....a little pushy, but really sweet.
He never had a good home life and I think he wants to make a good home life with us and very soon.
I've already told him to wait, but he's very adamant about starting soon, even talking about pushing up the wedding date just to start a family.
I'm not upset, just concerned that he thinks this family that we're going to have together is going to replace the one he already has and doesn't like.
Opinions???

2006-07-14 21:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by punk pirate 2

i was married to my husband for.29. years and i have a daughter she is.19. years old the man isnt her dad but he loves her and alls him dad . she aught me out and wants to know who er real father is now. the man who i was married to for.29. years never once cheated on me not once and i made a mess out of every thing .19. years ago i was with another man and got pragnet by him now my husband is divorcing me as for my daghter she loves my soon to bbe ex. husband as if he was her real father and he also loves her he said i raised her like she was my blood daughter and always will. how do i tell her who her real father is he is married and is a mormon as well i really messed up onthis he was a missionary back .19. years ago that is wh i never told i need help i am losing my child as well soon to be divorced why cant he forgive me over this help please?

2006-07-14 21:21:48 · 10 answers · asked by whitmangal_2 1

If she has tried to be the best wife and mother, and the husband seems disinterested? I know this lady, and she loves her husband, but he is sitting around getting fat and seems content with the way things are. She has talked until she is blue in the face, but he sees nothing wrong. What should she do? She believes in making the marriage work.

2006-07-14 21:10:53 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6

Ok, My fiance left this morning cause I was on here asking for some advise she threw a fit and left me so I love her but I am not chasing after her this time, is this wrong of me for not chasing her

2006-07-14 21:01:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many did you had if you are married?

2006-07-14 20:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 20:28:03 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle S 1

Hi remember me, Bryan the truck driver, Well My fiance just left me because I asked for some advice So, My life is goin to be hell from here on in, Just a good ol' boy never meanin no harm

2006-07-14 20:06:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 20:05:58 · 38 answers · asked by John D 1

2006-07-14 20:05:34 · 19 answers · asked by 197404 1

2006-07-14 20:01:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my age is 35 year and I am divorced after 3 month from my marriage and being the female it is very hard for me to search for a suitable relationship.I am graduate and servicing with a private orginization

2006-07-14 20:01:40 · 1 answers · asked by Maqsood N 1

I really dont know.Few couple had tried and ask me but never gone further.so i am just curious to know is there any in reality or its just timepass

2006-07-14 19:59:28 · 1 answers · asked by amazingsofty 1

I have a tattoo on the inside of my ankle. Nothing offensive: just a flower and a latin mottoe. I'd say it's about 1.5" by 1" in size. I got it over 10 years ago to mark an important change in my life-- it wasn't a decision I took lightly. My fiance is very traditional, very conservative. He thinks that, if we had kids, the tattoo would send the wrong message about us as parents, set a bad example, and make them more likely to get tattoos. I think the tattoo would just be an example of something that you can choose when you're an adult and not before then, a serious grown-up decision. I understand his point of view, but whenever I think of getting the tattoo removed, all I feel is sadness and loss. I don't think I can agree to having it removed. Am I being too stubborn?

2006-07-14 19:46:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i came home from work 2nite, and my husband was in a funky mood & he said he was going to bed, so i was going to join him and i told him i love him and he didnt say a thing, so i asked him if he heard, and he said what do u want, i said nothing, and i was going to my moms, and he told me to get my stuff tommorrow, get out. We talked a lil bit, and all and even know im not going anymore, why is he so quick to say that? Like he dont give a crap. i am only 19, and he is 26

2006-07-14 19:46:04 · 18 answers · asked by rachel b 2

How do i get my 14 years older than me husband to want to do fun cool things with me that i like doing he is 38 and i'm 23! And also how do i spike up his sex drive with out viagra! please help!

2006-07-14 19:43:27 · 13 answers · asked by brandi_23sc 2

My wife has always been a controlling person. After 12 years I have woken up to it. I put my foot down and she seriously gets upset. Consistently. I have grown tired and bitter to the situation. I have 3 children. I care about them. I met someone online and in one week my whole countenance changed for the positive. I had a great week at work just from her words. If I got involved with her I would leave the house and car to my wife and kids, but I would be starting over. I would also be ridiculed by all who know us. I want to stay in town so I can see my kids. I would lose alot in possesions, but gain a positive partner in my life?

2006-07-14 19:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by lightningdj 1