Okay My sister's Boyfriend picked up a girl on side of the road (kin to my other sister's boyfriend) and he said that he went to get her a painpill somwheres and that then they went up on a graveyard to do the pill..(they i guess are both dope heads) anyhow then he said he dropped her off someones at someones house. He claims he didn't fool with the girl but my sister nor i don't believe him. She ran him off tonight after hearing that. He swears it on peoples lifes that he didnt' have sex with that girl but anyone can swear it and lie at the same time. Right?
Anyhow by all of the above do you believe he cheated?
2006-07-14 22:05:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He had said he was going fishing with his stepdad and that was last week and he just up and told her that last night -not when it happened but last night.
What do you think?
2006-07-14 22:06:39 · update #1
He may not of had "sex" with her but he could of very well of cheated with out actually haveing "Sex" which would mean he wasnt lying he just wasnt giving any detail to what he really did do with her.. I dont know if he cheated or not.. but he screwed up by putting him in a situation that could raise suspicion of cheating couples that are true to each other should never put themselves in any type of situation that can every be view as anything but what it is.. so if he didnt cheat he sure did use poor judgement on what he did and she has every right to suspect that he did according to your story..
U said that the girl is kin to your other sisters bf? well only one way to find out what really happened.. get the ur sisters bf to find out and report back to you so u can compare stories.. if he story is extremely different then his.. then more then likely something happened, or maybe she'll come clean with the truth if something happened, but if she swares nothing happened and her story matches with his, then u know he's telling the truth..
2006-07-14 22:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If they were doing drugs together, then you will never know whether or not they cheated. They (the cheater and the drug supplying girl from the corner) probably do not remember what happened. They could have been too high.
Bottom line, your sister should not be with 1. a guy who does drugs or 2. a guy who picks people up on street corners. Cut him loose before he picks up some STD or worse HIV.
Millions of people make vows/swear on people lives every day. That does not mean that they are going to stick to what they say or that they are telling the truth. Remind your sister that a liar is very good at telling you what YOU want to hear.
2006-07-15 06:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was unfaithful in the fact that he lied. Just because he picked her up and they went and did drugs does not mean they had sex especially in a graveyard. Sometimes the drugs are more important than the sex.
2006-07-15 05:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i probably would say he cheated, #1 why would u pic up girl on the side of the road and take her to graveyard and get doped up with he.. unless u wanted to do something somewhere where u wouldnt get caught..and i think he told her about it jut in case the girl talked so he could cover all bases and say "yah i told u aboutthat honey"..he is jus trying to b slick..if ur gut is telling u he did.. then listen to it, our intuition is usually right on...
2006-07-15 08:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the use of a reationship if there's no trust? Let your sis ask hesrself this Q and dcide for herself, without maybe help from you?
I trust she's over 18 and an adult.
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2006-07-15 08:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Starreply 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated he wouldnt bother telling. unless he has a history of being brutaly honest.
because he told her later rather than sooner, says to me he thought she would react this way, but finaly decided she would be better off knowing so it doesnt come up later and she hate him more for not saying anything.
2006-07-15 05:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by JCCamel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is telling the truth or why would he put himself in the **** anyway by telling her he picked a gorl up to do some pills
2006-07-15 05:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by ozcall2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he picked up the girl on the side of the street.......... its hard to believe he has been faithful.... and of all places why at the grave yard>????
2006-07-15 05:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated. Always trust your first intuition.
2006-07-15 12:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on this story, I wouldn't think that he cheated.
2006-07-15 05:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋