Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2006

her family they dont agree and mine also they dont liek us to get married , my and my love thinking to get marreid alone even with the objection of the 2 families ..

2006-07-14 11:53:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 11:50:25 · 16 answers · asked by Che-che 1

2006-07-14 11:34:41 · 13 answers · asked by Ravi s 1

I had a 10 year relationship with now my ex-gf and its over. What is the quickest way to get over it? I dont really have any close friends either because I spent all my time with her, I know that was bad. Any real suggestions?

2006-07-14 11:12:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 11:06:00 · 29 answers · asked by tia_tiatia 1

If you married a man after 4 weeks because he was the sexiest man you had ever had and then after 2 years you found that no only do you find him to be dumb, but you also can't find a dam thing to talk bout with him. He is a christian and although I tried to attend his church I have since decided it is nothing but a cult. Another man is now seemingly in love with me and I find him to be brilliant and we agree on almost everything. He is also not a christian and he is very articulate. The only problem is he isn't very sexy to me.

What would you do? What if I'm unhappy all my life with my hubby? Would it really be worth the rest of my life just to know that I would always be married? Or that when I was old and grey I wouldn't be alone?

What do you really think?

2006-07-14 11:05:23 · 17 answers · asked by sissy 2

My husband has incurred a large debt over the past few years (for nothing) and I offered to consolidate so it is not overwhelming. Four months later, he has yet to give me a total amout required. I was hoping that this offer would allow him to get his financial life together and have us operate more as a couple than individuals. I pay for all living expenses right now and have not been receiving financial support from my husband for the past 5 years (on and off prior to 2001). I understand that I will always be the major financial contributor, but I never agreed to be the sole supporter (this has been discussed at length). I snooped recently at his bills and found out that the balance has increased since last year by a significant amount. He has been telling me that he has been making great strides in paying off the balance, but in reality he has not. I am afraid if I do this and decide to ultimately divorce him, it will hurt me in the division of property/leverage. Any suggestions

2006-07-14 10:58:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a single father in Florida with custody of my 7-year-old daughter. At the time of my divorce 2 years ago, my ex-wife and I agreed that I would take custody (she would retain full parental rights, of course) of our daughter. Now, two years later, she is starting to make noises about wanting custody back. She's now living with a boyfriend.

My understanding of Florida law is that post-judgement modification of custody is very difficult to petition for, and that she would have to show a serious lapse in our daughter's care before the court would be able to modify custody. I've taken exemplary care of her, footing the bill for just about everything, including her school. The only drawback to my situation is that I work odd hours, including nights and weekends. When I work, though, she stays with my parents, who live half a mile away.

I guess I'm just looking for reassurance from people knowledgable in these things that my position is secure!

2006-07-14 10:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married 15 years in an upddown relationship.One son and one who died ayear and half ago at 7 months old.While he was in hospital i discoverd my husband on the phone texting for very long times! Also became cold and very distant. He was working away from home aswell. Anyway 3 months after my son died me and my son were on school hoilday at the place he worked were i was on his computer and discoverd some emails innappropriate. I confronted him and he siad nothing didnt deny it though either. Anyway he moved back and he became so moody and more distant critasising me and making remarks etc. I finally confronted him again and this time he said i had pushed him and that there were lots of problems in the marriage and that he wasnt sure if he wanted to be with me but wanted to give our son a stable home. He suggeste we live seperate lives under the same roof while he made up his mind! He didnt want to make a rash decision. I said i couldnt live like this and that he needs to decide

2006-07-14 10:49:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i meet my husband when i was 14 and now im 19 so he was my first boy friend i actually took serious but i made the mistake on getting married to young why is it that we do that ?

2006-07-14 10:49:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anna C 1

2006-07-14 10:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by enmcdonald1 1

now i am having married blessed next week in front of 150 people and i am so nervous, petrified of walking in hall with all these people even though they are family and friends, any tips on how to calm myself down, and not look petrified when i walk in

2006-07-14 10:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by shirls m 1

2006-07-14 10:45:45 · 35 answers · asked by weberliner 1

i have been happily married for 4 years. husband returned home from iraq 2 months ago. at first everything was normal. but the past 3 weeks he has changed drastically. he says he is no longer in love with me, that he doesnt want the same things that he once did. we used to get along so good, we were each others everything. this hurts me so bad. he refuses to go to counseling and says he doesnt even know if he wants to work on our marriage. what do i do? do i try to let him go and if so how? or do i stay and give him space and see if he changes back, if so how long do i give it, what do i do?

2006-07-14 10:45:40 · 12 answers · asked by jenns 1

2006-07-14 10:27:51 · 21 answers · asked by Hoda 1

My wife and I have been together for 5 years and married for 1.5 years of that time.

She finally said she didn't want to wait any longer to have a baby (she is 23 and I am 25) and that I needed to set a date to start trying.

I told her we would start next May when we pay off the house so I will have $2300 extra every month for a baby. And she agreed to that and has been really happy that we will start soon.

Everyday she talks about how she is excited that in 10 months we are going to try for a baby. She likes to see the baby clothes and talks to me about it and sometimes cries because she says it hurts that she doesn't have a baby yet and time is going by slow for her and its hard.

I keep telling her 10 months will go by fast, but she seems to really be upset about this.

How do I deal with this?

2006-07-14 10:20:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't. I can explain one feeling. I don't want to let him go.

2006-07-14 10:09:50 · 11 answers · asked by Ava 2

i am not good at writing letters, when i try my mind goes blank, i need to write one to my husband that is working out of state, i want the letter to be romantic at the same time sentimental, i want him to know that i miss him and that me and our soon to be born baby is waiting for his return and that we love him ... Can any one help, please....

2006-07-14 10:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by honey22252005 2

and found that she had emailed him, too. He lives halfway across the country, but we're moving near there in two months. When I confronted her about it, she said "Oh, I looked him up a long time ago, it's nothing." When I told her I knew from the browser "History" that it was the day before, she became teary. She claims that nothing bad was happening, and that she just wanted to say hi to him. Our relationship has been very good, with normal ups and downs, but I am a very supportive/understanding husband. She told me that she lied because she didn't want me to think anything was happening (backfired, eh?).

My question is, what to think of this. Should I be concerned about moving to the ex's territory? Should I "forbid" any future contact? If it was just innocent, than I would hate to be "that guy" that controls his wife. Women, can this scenario be "innocent"?

2006-07-14 09:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Whattodo? 1

I am in a HONEST open marriage. I am just start to feel guilty about her not having a choice in the matter. She loves this lying man who is lovin on me.

2006-07-14 09:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by soleolunar 3

I have a friend that has had a crush on my wife for a LONG time. He mustered up the courage to tell me that he'd give me 80 bucks if I let him sleep with her. My wife would NEVER go for that so I had to trick her. I told her that I wanted to try something new with the lights off and her blindfolded and she was game.

I sent my friend in to collect on his 80 bucks. When he wrapped up he hurried out of the house and I walked into the room naked and smiling. She told me it was the best sex she's ever had! WAY better than anything I've ever done.

I'll never be able to recreate it, because I don't know what my friend did. Should I come clean with my wife or find out from my friend what it is that he did?

I've never seen her so happy.

2006-07-14 09:36:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

them adopting kids

2006-07-14 09:25:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there is no physical violence, but name-calling and insults, and constant raging all in-front of two young children. The house is the only home the kids have known and they love their dad even though they are afraid of him much of the time. Do you pack your things and move to a battered women's shelter with your kids? Do you file for a restraining order and have your husband removed from the home and take the risk of "adding fuel to the fire"? Counseling has failed three times and cannot afford $100/wk. to go anyway! Parents don't help. No family locally.
I've actually had to sleep in my car in our driveway so the kids wouldn't be woken from his screaming about bills and why he doesn't have anything to snack on at 1am. He uses intimidation tactics to get what he wants and has no problem with using the kids to do so.

2006-07-14 09:21:49 · 43 answers · asked by carolinagrl 4

Have a husband, who does not help around the house and with kids, does not 'care' about me, at least doesn't show that. It seems that I have tried 'everything' to get him more loving and passionate. I would describe him as 'cold'. It's not that he does not love me (sometimes I doubt that) butno kisses, no sex for weeks and weeks, and believe it or not, we have been married for 2-3 years and we are in mid 20s. So, help me please?!

2006-07-14 09:13:41 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been seperated from my husband for 2 months. I found out that he had been having an affair during and even before we got married with the same woman. (we had been married for 7 months.) Well he recently called me crying because the whore dumped him and is sleeping with another guy! What I want to know is why this dumbass would call me of all people after he screwed me over?!?!

2006-07-14 09:08:29 · 27 answers · asked by kt 2

2006-07-14 09:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by ray d 1

I'm just starting what is working up to be a nasty divorce. Tried very hard to make it work with as little drama as possible but my husband is just hell bent on making my life miserable and my son is so angry. I want this so he's mad at me. I started asking him for a seperation months ago, he refused to move out or sign the agreement, living this way has been hell. My marriage has been over for a while and I went out for a drink with a friend, he followed me with my kids in the car, it was ugly. I know it was wrong but I feel like an animal in a cage, now I think my son might never forgive me.

2006-07-14 09:03:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I have a wonderful relationship, we both know we were meant for each other. At times we get along better than best friends, other times it is just pure hell in arguments. What is a good way to solve this, we both want it to work. We want to try something other than a therapist. PLEASE HELP, the arugments are over petty things. Im really scared that it will hurt our relationship.

2006-07-14 09:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by blueeyes24 2

even though i receive child support and alimony, (which most people would find substantial) am i entitled to more money based upon my ex income quadradupled, in the last few years.
i have 5 young children in school, i am a homemaker, and have not worked in 14 years. i supported my ex and put him through law school, there was no mony at the time of the divorce to split, but as stated did receive good settlement in alimony, although what seems like small amounts of child support?

2006-07-14 09:01:45 · 25 answers · asked by maryann 1

I want to know if i should try marriage counseling for a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage. We have 2 small children and we have been together for a long time considering I'm only 33. I have been preparing to leave but I don't want to feel like I didn't give it my all before leaving. I hear that abusers rarely change but I don't know what to do. I don't want to wonder in retrospect after I've already left if this marriage could've been saved or not. When he's an asshole he is the ultimate asshole. He is also the sweetest most loving man when he's not the asshole and a great provider.
I am in individual counseling and she's really helping me understand and build my self esteem and I've become more spirtitual(which is making me wonder if I should try to salvage this marriage). Mind you, I know that I would be the one who has to initiate the counseling, but I'm quite sure that he would go. Please help!

2006-07-14 08:45:37 · 30 answers · asked by Veronique 3