2006-07-14 09:05:11 · 15 answers · asked by ray d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I knew someone who let their fantasies enter their bedroom. Ended in disaster. It is truly the quickest way to end your marriage. If you care for your spouse, love him/her in all the little ways- it will overflow into passion in the bedroom. But never add someone else to that sacred place of a husband and wife.
2006-07-14 09:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by catarina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's just asking for trouble. If you want to have sex with people other than your spouse, you should not be married, or even in a committed relationship, because you're not committed. The only situation in which anyone should have a threesome is when none of the people care about each other, then you can have all the reckless, casual sex you want to. Once you're married, though, don't even think about it. Well, it's okay to think about, but don't say it out loud -- at least, don't sound too serious or name names. You'll never unring THAT bell!
2006-07-14 16:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Judgie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in The Lifestyle for over 5 years now and really don't see any problem with it. Of course, some relationships are not secure enough to handle this sort of thing. It is really only for people with open lines of communication, trust, and faith in knowing that no matter who you bring into the bedroom that the two of you always come first (no pun intended).
I have enjoyed the heck out of threesomes and will continue to for as long as I can! Some people don't get it and I really don't care! It works for me and I have NEVER had a bad experience....I know that there are those out there that have and I really think that they weren't ready to begin with to experience it in the first place!
2006-07-14 16:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. There are many dynamics involved in a relationship of that nature. Both spouses need to be in full agreement in order for something like this to be successful. If the women is doing this just to please her husband, then there is not a concentual agreement which is needed in this type of arrangement.
2006-07-14 17:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a thrid person into a committed releationship is ALWAYS A BAD IDEA!
If you want to be with someone else, break up first.
2006-07-14 16:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Strictly F/M/F... But only if there is no trust issues & if both of you want it. You can't push anyone into it if they don't want to... You gotta have a strong relationship. If your wife isn't bi or bi-curious I wouldn't try it though. GOOD LUCK & HAVE FUN!
2006-07-14 17:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousCouple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never invite another person into your marital bed. Male or female, that's just asking for trouble.
2006-07-14 16:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by TheAdviceGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jenny. You will lose every sense of intimacy between you and your spouse. I have seen people get divorced because of it.
2006-07-14 16:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It would complicate things too much. If my husband and I invited a female, I would be extremely uncomfortable and if we invited a male, my husband would have a jealous rampage. haha, so it wouldn't work for us.
2006-07-14 16:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry about ruining the intimacy you two have now. It will bring up jealousy and hurt feelings.
2006-07-14 16:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by cass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋