i have been seperated from my husband for 2 months. I found out that he had been having an affair during and even before we got married with the same woman. (we had been married for 7 months.) Well he recently called me crying because the whore dumped him and is sleeping with another guy! What I want to know is why this dumbass would call me of all people after he screwed me over?!?!
2006-07-14 09:08:29 · 27 answers · asked by kt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
forget him.
tell him to let you alone.
you cannot trust him anymore.
he is not worthy of you.
2006-07-14 09:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I say dump that loser.... he cheating on you before and after you were married to him.... and He think that what ever happen i alwasy will go back to my woman and he crying like a bitching that dumb a** whore becasue she slept with other guy???? Dump him.. once cheat is too many already... He already damage your life your trust your love your everything....
You are smart, beautiful, outgoijng person, you show your faith to him, you show your trust, and you even put your life in his hand for marriage.. and you can find someone that will do the same thing for you....
So, it better that way reason why? I married first and not work out.. second married now 9 years and look at my first marriage it was like 6 months. not working out... so It better that way.
I hope this answer really get you thinking about it.....that dumbass not worth your time your life even anything. finding the right person it worth it.
2006-07-14 16:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "Comfort".....and that is what he has with you, but DO NOT ALLOW THAT SNAKE BACK!!!! So now that he has some of his own medicine, he doesn't like it, well tell that little man whore that he got himself into that mess, and run as fast as you can to a Divorce lawyer, because had his mistress not found someone else, he wouldn't care AT ALL about your feelings, but since he is alone, he is trying to go back to his "Comfort zone".........so it's time to move on....Best of Luck..........it always Sucks to be the one who is treated bad, but from one broken heart to another, time will heal you and you WILL find someone who will accept and appreciate YOU!!!!!!!!!! Take care and don't give in to him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 ;)
2006-07-14 16:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called you hopeing that he could fall back on you after the other woman left him cause he feels that your under depression and he thinks you still want him more than anyone right about now but if he was once a cheater he would always be.
2006-07-14 16:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he realized you were the best thing that happened to him. I'm sorry your husband turned out to be a louse, but at least you found out and are doing something about it. Don't take him back. She'll probably give him the clap. Good luck...there are good men out there and I hope the next one you meet will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.
2006-07-14 16:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably hoping that you would feel bad for him and comfort him. Hoping that you would take him back or something so that he could get settled and start it all over again with a new girl. Get him out of your life completely. He is not worth anything.
2006-07-14 16:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by just_beju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for comfort. Men have a hard time living without a woman to take care of them. Just tell him you know how he feels and ask him to quit calling you.
2006-07-14 16:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing on your sympathy. Get rid of this LOSER and don't look back. If he was cheating on you before you were married, and even carried it into the marriage, why would you waste your precious time with him?
Run!
2006-07-14 16:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by fourcolor4u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatta Jacka$$!! I hate pigs.
My ex bf did that to me. So when I told him I was getting married he came to my house and started crying and begging me back. Funny when my Fiance answered the door!!!
2006-07-14 17:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows he screwed up, and he is at his low point. I am sure he said stuff like he regrets what he did to you, But don't buy that crap. That just goes to prove "what Goes around, Comes around" Consider yourself avenged. I know it sounds mean but, he wasn't playing nicely when he CHEATED!
2006-07-14 16:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ladyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think for 1 second its because he respects you, he only is doing this because he thinks he can...what goes around comes around...don't be his shoulder to cry on...or else he will soon sucker you in the way he has for so long...respect yourself and dump his a$$.
2006-07-14 16:17:35 · answer #11 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋