Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2006

so, my husband is in a weird funk lately... and i need to get him out of it.... i need the most amazing date idea ever!!!! PLEASE HELP!

2006-07-14 08:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by MnKLmT 4

My fiance is extremely long. I would say at least 11 inches. It is thin though. We've been together for over a year and a half. In all that time it goes from soft to hard and vice versa. I can't really ride it because of that. The other day we were watchin porn together. He was rock hard and it was like a totally different organ. As soon as we turned the porn off and began to have sex, it went softer. We still had sex, it just wasn't as hard. He was in prison for 12 years. I found out in that time, he had sexual relations with men. He likes anal sex, but won't do it with me. He hides porn and has almost ruined our relatonship because of it. He says I'm insecure. He has a hard time getting a nut. Maybe like 1 in 4 times he'll get a nut. I feel frustrated. I've always been the bomb sexually. I like it at least once a day. What should I do? I've tried talking to him, but he doesn't listen. He's a selfish lover. He only ****$. He never makes love & its rarely. Help!

2006-07-14 08:44:24 · 15 answers · asked by youknowwho 2

i need to know

2006-07-14 08:43:16 · 10 answers · asked by FOMAYZ 2

2006-07-14 08:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by ray d 1

please if someone can help in knowing something. I've been very depressed lately. I don't feel attractive for him anymore. everywhere we go it doesnt matter if it's my family gathering he always stares at other women in front of me smiles at them in a very flirty way. I she smiles back he just lets go of me and then asks what's wrong. if i tell him he gets mad at me as if I'm the one who did something wrong. tells me it's my imagination. that if that what i think he's don't then he did. He doesnt talk to me for the rest of the day. He thinks it's my responsibility to say sorry. Of course i haven't but feel as if I'm dieing slowly. my family likes him a lot and tell me that i just don't understand what kind of a nice husband i have. it's probly because i don't have big boobs like most women do. I don't know what to do anymore to make him understand that it hurts me. he also spends time in the internet looking at pictures of women w big boobs.

2006-07-14 08:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by shy_gal2 3

My 14 yr old son says he wants to live with his dad (different city) and go to school there now. As his mother, I am crushed because my husband (my son's stepdad) and I have been very good parents. We make sure my son has a spiritual life, we have a wonderful home and friends. But my son's dad is a manipulator deluxe, kind of like Satan himself. Even though he is remarried, and has another child- he cannot let it go that I left him. In appearance, he has moved on- in his mind, this man is very immature. He has had my son in counseling all summer and now my son thinks he wants to stay there. I feel it is wrong for him to stay. I don't care what the law says- 14 or not, my son is a child and lives for the moment, not thinking long term at all- not qualified to make decision for himself. If as his mom, I were a gutter drunk, or doing drugs or abusive to him, I could understand why the job of mother is being taken away. I feel like going there and taking him home. Am I wrong?

2006-07-14 08:31:15 · 11 answers · asked by catarina 4

i want have a rommantic night with my husband any ideas and i have to kids

2006-07-14 08:21:46 · 12 answers · asked by beebegogo 2

it is painfull .. but me confused .

2006-07-14 08:18:07 · 25 answers · asked by payal_joseph 1

He is pursuing and I am thinking about him for long term. Not a fling.

2006-07-14 08:17:56 · 27 answers · asked by rizzio 1

me and my husband divorced. we still lived together for two years. then he cheated on me so i left. now he just got remarried last month but he is calling me and says that he wants to be with me. he said that he told her last nite to get her things and leave but i dont know whether to believe him or now. but last nite me and him were together and i know that he loves me but i dont know what he wants

2006-07-14 08:13:00 · 18 answers · asked by miranda b 3

is love only based in apperance only what shall i do l is he worth or iam i worthless what shall i do for a better life

2006-07-14 08:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Peace Country is in north alberta

2006-07-14 08:07:35 · 2 answers · asked by mickmanster1 2

Let me start by saying that I did not cheat. I have been lying to her about money and other various bull **** for a couple of years. She eventually found out the truth about everything. Now she does not trust me at all. She says she doesn't feel close to me anymore and our relationship is in big trouble. She says she doesn't even like me anymore for what I have done to our relationship. I really Love her and will never lie to her again but she does not believe me. I know I did this to us and now regret it. any help will be greatly appreciated.

2006-07-14 08:07:31 · 12 answers · asked by mik_sull 1

im seperating from my wife, by her choice. I understand her point of view but im just curious how others may have turned out

2006-07-14 08:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is only 32 (I'm 28) and has a serious kidney disease. Our sex life isn't as good as it used to be, but it's not totally lousy either. He has actually encouraged me more then once to go after other guys to "fulfill my needs" just because I commented the guy was cute. We used to be honest with each other about whether or not someone was good looking without sex ever coming up. I would never do this, even though he says it's ok as long as I tell him about it and don't get pregnant. Why on Earth is he doing this and how can I get him to quit it? I've told him I'd never do it but it hasn't made a difference.

2006-07-14 08:05:13 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Raven 6

Have you ever cheated on your spouse? How many times? Have you kept it a secret? If so, how? How do you feel about your infidelities?

2006-07-14 08:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by Michael D 3

I was recently confided in by a very good friend of mine. She is happily married to her long time boyfriend of 5 years. He has recently shown an interest in having things shoved in his anal area when there intimate in the bedroom. He has even suggested that she buy's a strap on to wear. She she be concearned with his sexuality?

2006-07-14 08:03:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask, because a friend of mine and I disagree on wether or not it is cheating if there is no physical contact.

2006-07-14 08:02:59 · 24 answers · asked by im_a_guy_tn 1

My wife and I have been married 9 yrs and she has never had an orgasm and has a very low sex drive. Now I am a patient caring husband, I do romantic things, I give her long masseges, light candels...you name it I've tryed it. Shes sexual with me yet never gets turned on. I think its me, she says its not. I think I just dont do it for her. She only had one b/f that got her to ***. I think shes taken to masturbating, but she says shes never done it, but often after sex she takes these really long showers..hmm...We have 5 kids, so its not like I'm going to leave her, but come on 9 years of frusterating sex....what do you think.

2006-07-14 08:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

during the break-up of his first marriage. I was married, now I am going through a divorce. My new partner and I are in love with each other and plan to move in together as soon as is possible. However , he has said to me that he is not sure he would marry again after what he has been through.I feel he is saying it in order to see my reaction. Despite my failed marriage , I am head over heels in love with him and if he asked me to marry him i would say yes....but I can't really tell him that in the circumstances. That would be putting pressure on him, wouldn't it? I would still want to be with him even if we didn't get married.

2006-07-14 07:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by janey 2

mind you she made the decision to not stay at her father's anymore and her mother agreed w/ her and allowed it. we live one block away, she hasn't called on any holidays or stopped. she decided that at 11 she didn't like the rules and responsibilities at dads and decided to not come around anymore. please help me.

2006-07-14 07:54:53 · 21 answers · asked by bschultz121 1

2006-07-14 07:42:49 · 3 answers · asked by lisa 2

What is your worse experience relationship wise ever????

2006-07-14 07:39:45 · 23 answers · asked by viddy 2

I am just curuios how many women on here are totally unhappy in their marriage and if you are unhappy, why do you stay in it?

2006-07-14 07:39:38 · 11 answers · asked by im_a_guy_tn 1

How did it happen? How is the marriage going so far? Is it as bad as you thought?

2006-07-14 07:36:19 · 2 answers · asked by King H 6

And was it a wise decision? Is your marriage as good as you had hoped?

I'm just wondering why. I'm not trying to judge nor has this happened to me. I'm just curious.

2006-07-14 07:34:38 · 4 answers · asked by King H 6

Hi peeps... okie see the thing is that the 2 of us are madly in love... and we know its true as she is just soo perfect to me! but the thing is that we have certain traditions that hold us back from getting married as her cast n religion and culture is totally different from mine. and her parents give consent for her and mine marriage!
But she claims that no matter what she will love me forever, even though she is actually gonna be marryin some othe son of a b*i*tc*h... we are still going out even though we know we dont have a future to spend as much time as we can together, but it really hurts alot to know she gonna wid sumone else.
But will she actually love me forever even though she gonna be sum otha guy... gonna have a family wid sumone else... go b in bed wid sumone else!!! i know she wont forget me ever... but will she love me??
PLease help i need practical advice... she is a strong n very dedicated n loving woman.. truly....

2006-07-14 07:25:39 · 11 answers · asked by _...._ 2

I went through a divorse about 2 1/2 years ago. I met a woman whom I fell madly in love with. We had a son togeather and 6 months ago I asked her to marry me. She said yes and told me several times that she had never loved a man like me and that I was a great guy. We had several conversations about our marriage date and every time she would not give me an answer. Her son, with her x-husband is 7 and his father has been working on him to talk to his mother to come back to him. Each time the child goes for a visit he comes home and starts in on her. I noticed 2 months ago the x-husband began calling and telling her he still loved her and wanted her to come back. The calls got up to 15 a day while I was at work. Friday night we were togeather and she told me she loved me very much. Sat morning we got up and played with our child and made plans for dinner. When I got home 3 hrs later I found my engagement ring, and a note that said that her van would be back in 2 days.

2006-07-14 07:24:56 · 11 answers · asked by John P 1

2006-07-14 07:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by mary_mulligan99 1

I am just wondering what it fels like to be suckered in to pay for and support another man's kids. Thanks!!

2006-07-14 07:20:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous