2006-07-14 07:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by mary_mulligan99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I married her for her looks, not her brains
2006-07-14 07:33:03 · update #1
I am torn between telling you that if you married the woman you shouldn't give a DAMN about what she looks like (unless that's the only reason you married her, in which case you're a bastard) and telling you that you need to talk to a skilled marriage counciler about how to handle this.
2006-07-14 07:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sure won't be looking to get the "best answer" point from on this one. You said you married her for her looks not her brains...I am sorry--not for you but for her, for marrying such a jerk! You should be so lucky to have a woman love you in the first place...I am not going to say she shouldn't have been careful about gaining weight, but buddy, you are messed up! So, what is a few pounds-what if you had gained the weight, I bet you wouldn't want her to be saying this about you. You should be encouraging her not downing her. Please be a man, and love your wife like she derserves, so what if you got more to love on now...there's plenty of men willing to do it if not you!
2006-07-14 15:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my goodness u dont know what your missin big girl love is the best tighter wetter O my well I know mines is but if youre a lil guy and its over whelmin to u think of it as something to concure im about 310 my man is 175 weve been together almost 9 yrs now and he loves provin hiself like look whAT I CAN DO but if u cant handle the big gurls maybe u should take her out for walks and things like out door activities dont let 40 pounds ruin your relationship and talk to her let her know how your feelin
2006-07-14 15:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Cotton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell your wife about how you feel? Imagine if you are the person who is fat, do you think you are hurt if your wife say that to you? Maybe you should help her out. I guess your wife already know how you treat her differently from the first time you married her. Don't be mean to your wife. Love is the best not her look. Take care.
2006-07-14 14:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you not attracted to your wife just because she gained weight? Marriage is for life, for better or worse. Maybe you could encourage her and work out with her, sex is a good work out and if she feels better about herself it will benefit you in the end also. You should love your wife no matter what,.
2006-07-14 14:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now what's her gaining 40 pds got to do with sex. I have a friend, he brags how great the sex is with a really big girl (300-400 pds). I personally don't see it but he really gets off on it. Can you fantasize that she is 40 pds lighter or instead of complaining try to help her lose the extra pds.
2006-07-14 14:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So it's like this. If you married her for her looks...
You're a piece of Sh*t lower than the lowest form of life. Your opinion and your word mean nothing. You have no decency, respect, love, or passion and will surely die alone never having known love.
It's people like you that cause "good" men to be sh*t upon by jaded women.
2006-07-14 14:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know where to begn with this answer.......It seems to me your problems go much deeper than your wife's waist size. You really should look inside yourself and see what made you become such an unloving, cold person. I really have nothing but the upmost sympathy for your wife.
2006-07-14 14:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats 40 pounds if you take care of business with her she'll drop a few pounds
2006-07-14 15:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by wbroyhobbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I ahd to be married to a fatty I would masturbate too
2006-07-14 14:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋