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My fiance is extremely long. I would say at least 11 inches. It is thin though. We've been together for over a year and a half. In all that time it goes from soft to hard and vice versa. I can't really ride it because of that. The other day we were watchin porn together. He was rock hard and it was like a totally different organ. As soon as we turned the porn off and began to have sex, it went softer. We still had sex, it just wasn't as hard. He was in prison for 12 years. I found out in that time, he had sexual relations with men. He likes anal sex, but won't do it with me. He hides porn and has almost ruined our relatonship because of it. He says I'm insecure. He has a hard time getting a nut. Maybe like 1 in 4 times he'll get a nut. I feel frustrated. I've always been the bomb sexually. I like it at least once a day. What should I do? I've tried talking to him, but he doesn't listen. He's a selfish lover. He only ****$. He never makes love & its rarely. Help!

2006-07-14 08:44:24 · 15 answers · asked by youknowwho 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

15 answers

Hey, pssst, you've got damaged goods. Do not marry him or you'll not only be sexually frustrated, you'll have to deal with all the other insecurities he has, as well as the basis for any relationship - communication. If you cannot communicate what do you have.

I surely hope he not on the down-low with you baby girl. If he had other redeeming qualities (unselfish lover, good communicator) I'd suggest trying to salvage what you have. The issue you opened with having a long shlong that does not consistently remain hard may be an erectile dysfunction or it may be that you are not the he/she he is used to.

Try doing some intense foreplay, if it does not improve either see a doctor or read what I wrote earlier and leave him to his own kind.

2006-07-14 09:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 2 0

My guy is about about accepted 5.5 inch, yet he does have the region of going somewhat delicate, at the same time as i'm on accurate. Your guy may have a similar difficulty. What works, is a co*ok ring. once you've not in any respect used one formerly, make certain you take advantage of rubber first and get some lube for the co*ok ring. placed it on at the same time as he's tremendous puzzling and then do cow lady, i'm particular you'll see and experience the version.

2016-11-06 09:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think I would have a problem being with a man who had been in prison and had sex with other men. Has he been tested for HIV? A big penis isn't everything.

2006-07-15 07:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0 0

im not being sarcastic but, you might want to get an std test, considering he was in prison. it might be the reason he cant keep an hard on is because he doesnt find you sexually arousing..

2006-07-14 10:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 2 · 0 0

I'm sorry but he's gay. If you are hot and he can't get it hard he's gay. I was married for 16 years and my exhusband now, had the same problem, find a new lover and definatley don't get married. you deserve better.

2006-07-14 10:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by babyjake 2 · 0 0

well first off, try Viagra, i had the same problem and that's what the doctor suggested, if all else fails leave the the porno on and have sex.

2006-07-14 08:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by michael p 1 · 0 0

Ummmm...what the hell is getting a nut? Am I the only one that doesn't know?

2006-07-14 11:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Uhhhh. Bogus. Yeah. That's all I got for ya.

2006-07-14 10:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

deep down he want anal from a man that is what turns him on ,its very obvious by what you said

2006-07-14 09:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Let him go. Hes got issues you cant help with.

2006-07-14 08:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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