What is your worse experience relationship wise ever????
2006-07-14 07:39:45 · 23 answers · asked by viddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before I met my Husband, I was engaged to a guy for 3 years, I thought I loved him and I thought he loved me. We were planning on getting married, buying a house and having kids. I totally trusted him. One day I was at home and I heard a knock on the door and it was a "Very Young" girl ( I was 26 and she was around 18) She is crying and tells me to "Stay away from her boyfriend" I naively said "Honey, I think you have the wrong house" Well she didn't have the wrong house.....I was floored..I was heartbroken...It took me a very long time to get over that hurt. My ex tried to get me back over and over again...and as much as I wanted to...I could not. Well they both did me a huge favor, because I now have met and married my soul mate and we have been married for 13 years and have 3 great kids!
2006-07-14 08:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There has been too many to count. I guess the most horrible experience was with my ex-husband. He was a lying, cheating, drug addict. One night he stole money from my purse, left all night, rented a hotel room and was with a 17 yr old girl. He was 24 at the time. He also stole a very precious ring that my mother gave me and pawned it for drugs and a hotel room with a different woman. (i paid and got the ring back!!) That is why he is now my ex, and still a junkie living in the gutter. May god have mercy on his poor sole!
2006-07-14 14:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by secsimamassita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far the worse experience for me...when a girl was in the middle of me and my husband. He treated her like he had once treated me before we dated. It frightened me to the core cause I thought I would lose him or worse we had to divorce. She was cuter and bouncy and younger than me. She knew how to flirt and catch his interest. They'd talk like they were best friends, when I'm not around or when I'm around. He invited her everywhere we went with a group of friends that don't know her. She even works with him and I was very self conscious. Instead of fighting for him, I just let them get closer until I couldn't handle it anymore. After my blowup, they have been extra cautious and I hear she is very respectable around him at work and he with her. They were just good friends and they both happen to have ALOT in common. I realized it was okay for my husband to have friends that are girls and that he can connect with as long as he knows I'm his wife and that I am #1 on his list. We seem to have solved that problem. But six months was the length it took for me to blow up.
2006-07-14 18:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My second husband. That marriage only lasted 7 days! I thought he'd change after we got married. I'd hoped he would know I only wanted him. But he became even more possessive and I couldn't even glance at a guy without him thinking I was sleeping with them. I'm glad I kicked his sorry a$$ out. I still need to divorce the so and so but no money to do it.
2006-07-14 14:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by whtecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had many bad experiences, but the worst is my first boyfriend, whom I spent a large amount of time with for two years; one day he just dropped me and never talked to me again. I couldn't get him to tell me what was wrong, or what I did that caused this. It was extremely painful to me. Then later, I saw him with a woman who he used to talk about like she was a dog. That was a heartbreaker extraordinaire.
2006-07-14 14:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not my now relationship but the guy I was with before!!! I was with him for 10years and he was an alcoholic,vilent, didnt work, and was a cheater but he lied so well I didnt know.... I only stood with him for the sake of the children and finally I had to leave now I have a wonderfull man..
2006-07-14 14:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by italianprincess_fl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After taking care of his daughter with cancer for 3 1/2 years and then finding out he was having affairS.
2006-07-14 14:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say at the begining of my relationship, I lied to my man about something not very important. By lying to him, it became important and he didn't trust me for awhile. That was the worst feeling I ever had.
2006-07-14 14:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned the most from my ex he hit me when we would fight. I will never go through something like that again, I also say a raised hand will take you 6 feet under. Never again. I am happily remarried and I don't have any problems like that any more.
Man I love my husband...
2006-07-14 15:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my worse experience relationship ever would have to be when the guy i was dateing.told me what to wear,when to put make up on and how to wear my hair.
2006-07-14 14:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋