it is painfull .. but me confused .
2006-07-14 08:18:07 · 25 answers · asked by payal_joseph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him, you are worth more than that. You can do much better.
2006-07-14 08:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and forget about your so-called best friend! My ex-best friend was after my husband and made life extremely difficult. We have two kids together and ended up getting divorced. We still communicate because we have to for the kids, but other than that, they are both out of my life and my life is better because of it. They are just not worth it and although divorce will be hard, at least it will allow you to move on.
2006-07-14 09:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are common-law & he is having an affair..Looks to me like he should be the one leaving! Pack his stuff, sit them outside the door and change the locks. Do you own the place you're in or rent? As common-law, you just might be entitled to half of the house. Do you have kids? If so, that makes it more likely. By the way, quit calling this other person "your best friend" because friends wouldn't carry on with your lover.
2006-07-14 08:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by guess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new husband and a new best friend. You aren't the first person that this has happen to, and unfortunately you proably won't be the last. Leave and find yourself somebody that will treat like a woman needs and derserves to be treated. As far as best friend, she wasn't a good choice, and you don't need anybody telling you that, but you have been hurt so badly till I think you need sometime for yourself. Let yourself heal, and forget them. Make a success out of yourself, and find your own happeniess. They will get their own payback without you doing a thing, and it will be worse than anything you could think of. If he cheated on you , he will proably cheat on her.. Just leave them alone, and go on with your life. Somebody is out there for you, and I pray that you will find him soon. God bless...
2006-07-14 08:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ask you to leave go. Why would you stay with anyone who would be so disrespectful of you and oh you say that was your best friend, I know that ain't the best you can do in finding a friend.
Best friends don't fool with their best friend's husband. She was never a friend of yours and now it's prov en.
I know it's painful but you shouldn't be confuse because he ask you to leave and he is seeing your best friend so what's to be confused about the picture is clear.
Move on with your life and hopefully you will find a mate who values you and respects you because obviously this one don't.
Yes it's painful, but I will hurt worse knowing I am trying to hold on to someone who is willing to fool with my so called best friend and is willing to ask me to leave after 3 years.
The worse part is you wasted three years but it far worse to waste many more.
2006-07-14 09:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave. Don't stay with someone who will ask you to leave. NOw if it's a house involved and you are married ask him to leave or gt a lawyer. But if your friend and him has a chemistry it's nothing that you can do. Let nature takes it course and make room for someone who will love you and stay with you. you can't make someone love you or like you in a romantic way. BE REALISTIC with yourself instead of letting pain take over and confusing. okay :) it hurts because you have feelings for him but LOVE YOURSELF AND find something to do with your valuable time instead of dwelling on a man and a friend who betrayed you so to speak. ;)
2006-07-14 08:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut your losses. What goes around comes around. He'll never be satisfied and she prolly has a VD.....LOL! Move on honey! The end of something is always better than the beginning. You weren't the bad person in this situation. Only good things will come to you now.
2006-07-14 08:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by sweetkim007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. Wow. Try, and I know this has got to be really hard, to be happy that you're rid of them. At least you've only wasted 3 years of your life with him. My mom knows someone who was married for 25 years before he left her for her besst friend As for your best friend, that is a truly horrendous way to find out what a horrid ***** she is. But at least you know. Also, if it is financially possible, why not move? At least then, you won't have to see their lying scumbag faces again.
2006-07-14 08:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and take all his money. They will both pay by you spending his money, and her having to support him instead. Clean him dry. Make sure you stress to the courts that he left you for your bestfriend sweety, and get the judge on your side. Make sure you make him look like the bad guy that he already is. Take his MONEY!!! Also, If it were me, I'd use all the pain and anger to make myself look freakin hot, and flaunt myself infront of him and your ex bestfriend. I'd get so sexy, a boob job, grow my long and sexy, because its sexy, get my @ss looking good, wear some short shorts, and heals, and go shopping for positive ego boosting attention and move on with a younger hotter sexy exotic man. Actually, Ive already done it, and Im now married to my exotic man now. He is the best dreamiest man alive. He spoils me to death. Good luck.
2006-07-14 08:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you have to, to clear up the legal end. You can always take your friend to court for metal harm. Then when you have that take care of and the money they will need to give you move to the place you alwayed dreamed of living and have fun enjoy your life.
2006-07-14 08:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by lostoneok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave-make him leave and you keep the house, car, furnishings, etc. I repeat-DON'T LEAVE. Possession is 9/10 of the law, if he has the house and the stuff, most likely he will get to keep it.
2006-07-14 08:59:31 · answer #11 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋