iam 95kg after my first delivery ifeel lousy and feels like my hubby avoiding me?

Question

is love only based in apperance only what shall i do l is he worth or iam i worthless what shall i do for a better life

Answer 1

I would sit down and talk with your husband. It should not matter to him what weight you are, the fact is that you now have a baby and that is really what is important. He should be greatful and thankful to you that you carried his child for 9 monthes, and that you and baby are healthy. If he is avoiding you because of what you look like, I would seriously consider why you have this man in your life. A man who truly loves a woman does not care about weight.

Answer 2

You all just need to reconnect...that is all. You need a babysitter a few times a month to just sit on the couch, watch a video and be in each others faces. If he seems to be avoiding you (and you sound like you think it is physical) then get out of the house for 20 minutes (let him see you making the effort) to walk/jog around the house. Eat smaller food portions and just get back to being the gal he fell in love with. Don't forget to pray, honey! Matthew 21:22 ~ a wonderful promise to get you where you want to be.
~Blessings to you and your family!!!
Love,
Sleek

Answer 3

Did he see the birth. If so I will tell you what, it kind of takes the thrill out of things for a while. Seeing the baby come out is beautiful but the blood and all that has a impression that last a while. If not I guess I am way off track.

Answer 4

u shud really not think anythin bad bout ur husband.....well i cant say nuthin bout that since im a no1 to judge him..u know him better..but wut im tryna say it dat mayb he jus has sumthin else in mind n is not tryna avoid u...mayb itz only wut u think..i strongly belive u shud talk to him bout it.....if he really loves u, he wudnt do nuthin like dat......buh if he is tryna avoid u i really wudnt call it love....u have to clear errything out wid him....

Answer 5

maybe he doesnt like look at a blimp