My wife and I have been married 9 yrs and she has never had an orgasm and has a very low sex drive. Now I am a patient caring husband, I do romantic things, I give her long masseges, light candels...you name it I've tryed it. Shes sexual with me yet never gets turned on. I think its me, she says its not. I think I just dont do it for her. She only had one b/f that got her to ***. I think shes taken to masturbating, but she says shes never done it, but often after sex she takes these really long showers..hmm...We have 5 kids, so its not like I'm going to leave her, but come on 9 years of frusterating sex....what do you think.
2006-07-14 08:02:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That would be hard to judge there could be something wrong with her hormones I know that I am 28 years old and my sex drive can be kinda low at times due to my hormones. I would tell her she needs to go get checked out and see whats wrong with her. and the orgasm part how she's never had one thats like really weird??? Shes not messing around on you is she?? Good Luck ....... But you need to see what the true problems is before you get more frustrated and actually go find it somewhere else.....
2006-07-14 08:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend who was frigid like that. Only way she could get off was with a vib. You love each other right? That's the bottom line, if she's giving you sex when you want it, and you have a loving relationship, stop sweating it.
2006-07-14 16:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are sex counselors. It might be a good idea to go that orute if its causing a problem for you. I don't think it's you, she may have some past issues that make it hard for her to enjoy sex. Anyway, it would be better to address the issue than to ignore it.
2006-07-14 16:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definetly her hormones. I have that same problem. It could be stress too. I know when I have a lot on my mind, I cant get sexual. I know its my hormones also because on my menstrual weeks, I get really sexual. Tell her to get checked. Which reminds me, I should too.
2006-07-14 15:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried toys? Has she? My husband and I do sometimes to change things up. Great fun. She could try it alone and if comfortable, let you with the toy?? Then work in the other things.
2006-07-14 15:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by KC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are the good husband you say then any woman would like to b with you
i think there is something fishy going around with her
2006-07-14 15:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Nicolette Martin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone is hiding something for sure. Sorry. It does sound fishy to me.
2006-07-14 15:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess there is someone inside the closet, you better check it before its too late.
2006-07-14 15:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by A.j. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a lenghty answer, like everybody else, but bottom line what are you gonna do? What do you wanna do?
2006-07-14 19:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by nappynap70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why. why she wont have sex with you it may not be you.Maybe its her maybe she dont want it right now or she hidin somethin
2006-07-14 15:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋