im seperating from my wife, by her choice. I understand her point of view but im just curious how others may have turned out
2006-07-14 08:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We communicate, i did things in the past that i shouldnt have that hurt her. She is feeling like she isnt in love with me. I however fall more in love with her every day. I dont want anything else but to spend the rest of my life with this wonderful person. She is unsure. She said that we could go on dates but she wants me out of the house. I would do anything for her. ANYTHING
2006-07-14 08:41:50 · update #1
BAD IDEA!! 'cause then there is THE DOUBT about...
-"SO, What you do while we were separetated"?
-"Did You go out"? ...you know things like that and it just get worse..when somebody need time appart is cause they don't love u anymore or they are tired of you....an easy way to say......Let's get divorce.....So i f u love her don't let her go...Bit if she already LET U GO then there is nothing you can do....sorry! But cheer up.only u knows what's up! My husband only left once 'cause I was mad, but I though about it and I told him to come back, cause I do love HIM very much! So talk to her and if she says NO then NO and move on! Good luck!
2006-07-14 15:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I separated from my husband after 10 years of marriage. He was verbally abusive to my two kids from previous marriages (widowed,divorced). We were apart for 4 1/2 years, during which he campaigned to get me back constantly, but I divorced him a year ago October because he couldn't change his bad temper, and even browbeat my kids when he wasn't living here. That didn't stop him and he still wants me back, but I'm not interested in having a relationship with anyone anymore, don't want to submit the kids to another step parent, and have resigned myself to being single.
It may be that you feel so in love with her because you're separated, and if you got back together again all the arguments would start up again, and things would go bad. That's what usually happens,and that's what happened to me, and still does with my ex.
Anyway, follow your heart, but if it looks like things are hopeless, move on and don't drag it out too long. Don't keep up hope when it's obviously hopeless. You deserve to be happy, too.
2006-07-15 19:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we separated, tried counseling. we obviously have a communcation problem. He sees things one way and i another. We have been separated for a while now and are waiting on the divorce to be finalized.
If you really are in love with her, communincate. I have lost 12 years of my life!
Good luck!
2006-07-14 08:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by candi girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce he said he didn't love me but ended up with another woman who he married, and to this day I am treated like the bad guy
2006-07-14 12:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by twistedsingle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we talked about what caused us to seperate and then worked on changeing those things we have 4 kids and have been happily married for 7 years
2006-07-14 08:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by christie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife left me 9 months ago; & she is filing for divorce -irreconciable differences in august of this year. i'm devastated; seriously depressed; very hurt, angry & all the ****** up emotions that go with it all. i may contest the divorce;haven't made up my mind what i want to do yet.i'm not sure if its worth putting myself through that mental trauma;kaos & drama to fight her in the courtroom cause the judge probaly will give her the divorce that she wants.
2006-07-14 08:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by amtrakcafe2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My separation turn to divorce. So it didn't work out.
2006-07-14 08:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I separated from my husband, and we got divorced.
2006-07-14 08:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separation followed by the D. Don't look good for ya man.
2006-07-14 08:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jaded 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im currently seperated from my husband, but its not the same kind of seperation that your talking about....he's deployed to iraq.....sorry...
2006-07-14 08:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by ILoveMySailor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋