Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2006

2006-07-14 07:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by hi t 2

Ok my friend just got married in April and his wife is a total B****, everything was going fine until the wifes daughter moved backi into the house with her mother and of course she brought her 2 sons with her...That was fine with my friend because he would help his own daughters out too....but then he came home from work one day and the daughter had invited all kinds of kids around and hang out without my friends permission and he confronted the daughter and told her he did not appreiciate her doing whatever she wanted if she would have asked that would have been fine...she went off and the wife stuck her 2 cents in and took the daughters side and started bringing up his kids which really made him mad and now he is moving out and getting a divorce....he offered everything to her all he wants is his desk, tv, clothes and pictures. do you think he was wrong?

2006-07-14 07:15:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are both white. One night, I rented a porn flick just trying to spice things up for my wife. She didn't say much or show a reaction to most of the movie. However, during one scene where a well hung, muscular black man made love to a pretty white woman, she said, "Now that's hot. She's going for it" about three times and began massaging me. Later, when I asked her if she liked the movie, she said, "I would never cheat on you, baby, but I love the way black ***** look on tv. I wouldn't want one for real, though. They just look good on tv." I told her that I wasn't worried one way or the other. We all have out fetishes. I even joked that I may get her a black stripper for her birthday. She laughed and said, "No, I just like the way they look on tv." About six months passed and I offerred to buy her a dildo. She searched the whole web site and picked a large, realistic black one. Am I too accepting of my wife's fetish? Is this a clue that i'm not satisfying her? Cheating?

2006-07-14 07:08:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 07:07:40 · 22 answers · asked by ROSIE 3

I'm a newlywed with a full time step daughter and I find that I put to much energy into my husband and his children. I think that I am smothering him. I find that I am unhappy, and relize that I have no hobys or intrest outside of my new family.

2006-07-14 07:06:45 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1

What makes it difficult for me is a 5 year old child is in the picture, and my wife tells the child "It is ok, mommy will never leave you", and this makes it more difficult for me to deal with.

2006-07-14 07:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by bunort 1

2006-07-14 06:58:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 06:55:45 · 20 answers · asked by LarryGuy 1

My boyfriend and I are deeply in love. His X-wife continues to battle him over more child support and does not let us have peace in our lives. She uses his children against him, and that hurts my boyfriend very much. It has gotten to the point where he cannot make ends meet with his own finances, and I have had to dish out my money so he can have enough to pay child support and private school tuition, on top of my share of the house hold expenses. I really think the only way we can be happy is if we move far away so that she will leave him alone! How can I convince him that this is the only way we will live in peace?

2006-07-14 06:48:21 · 13 answers · asked by secsimamassita 1

i gave him till next friday to get a job or he would have to move out i cant have him continueing to live off of me having me live payck to payck i think he thinks im just fibbing but im not when a person is fed up they will go to this extreme. i do love him but i dont know what to do to make him see i am for real this time.

2006-07-14 06:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by julz3494 1

2006-07-14 06:34:13 · 7 answers · asked by funny guy 1

2006-07-14 06:31:15 · 28 answers · asked by Mocha Choco Latte 5

I'm 5 foot and i weigh 149lbs he likes short women and thick women not fat just thick, I've noticed alot of tall men with women that are full i'm just wondering why

2006-07-14 06:25:52 · 15 answers · asked by rebeccaangel2004 2

2006-07-14 06:24:23 · 24 answers · asked by Nicole B 1

My husband has cheated on me twice that i know of and we have managed to some how work it out for now because i love him, but i have nightmares all the time that he is cheating again and i just have a hard time trusting him with anything he says. is there a way to know if he is cheating or thinking about it with someone seriously, just by the way he acts?

2006-07-14 06:22:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi..there...need advice...
i posted a q abt this ..most poeple answered making fun ...but i am posting again...hoping this time i may get advice,.i am married since 1 yr ....i love to have sex with my hubby all the time ..i mean atleast everyday..but he kinda doesn't care much...b4 he used to be all over me,,,i am still the same...i agree his work is hectic at times...and i am home most of the days and vibe may not match..but at times i get mad..i don't want to show my anger as it seems too selfish..but i feel really rejected..there has been times when i felt that i looked desperate...may be i am..but the fact is i feel really nice if we have a good active sex life..and we are so young and i bothers me that we are loosing our passion...i don't reach orgasm with him much..i use my toys...to satisfy myself as most of the times he is never around..but i feel bad at times ..i wonder whats the point?i don't understand his sitn and he doesn't understand my sitn...how to cope up with this?

2006-07-14 06:18:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My botfriend walked out on me and our son who has learning difficulties 2 and a half weeks ago,At first i wanted to hurt him and not let him see our son,but this morning he emailed me and i decided to change my mind.He hasn`t seen our son since last friday,and sent me the odd text which is making me now think he is seeing someone else,he is moving into a flat not that far away but anyway i told him that i think he is with someone else and that if she is telling him when to see our son then he shouldn`t let her.i sent him a very civil email saying he could come up either tonight after his work or tomorrow whatever suits him,he says he`s working tomorrow although it`s his day off,he says he`s doing overtime but he only works till 1pm anyway,so i said he could come up then.I told him i`m trying my best to do whats right for our son although it`s killing me and asked him to put our son first for the first time in his life.He asked if he could visit next friday on his day off,wot do i do??

2006-07-14 06:18:16 · 24 answers · asked by onlyme 5

we have never had a real reationship he goses to work while i stay at home but all my ex boyfriends told me that they loved me he used to tell me that he loved me all the time then he just quit when i ask him why he dosent tell me he just says i dont know why you need to hear it all the time and i dont but once a week would be nice but i hear it maybe every 6 months if that it really stresses me out and he knows how i feel so dose he just not love me anymore im pregnant now and i want someone to love and father my son and myself what should i do evey time we get in a fight i tell him im leaving but he tells me he dosent want me to go im lost please help

2006-07-14 06:05:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-14 06:03:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband & his ex were together for 4 years & they broke up 2 years ago. His mom is still friends with his ex. She asked how I felt about them being friends & I said I was okay with it-- I wish I was still friends with my ex's mom, we were close too but I gave her up when I gave my ex up. Well his ex has called my husband 3 times since March and I let him know it bothered me. Last night was the last time and I text messaged her a polite message asking for her to please not contact my husband. My husband was upset that I did that. I told him months ago that if he didn't tell her himself that I would. I saw on his cellphone she called 4 times. He answered 2 of the times but never called her back on the other 2 missed calls. I confronted him about it last night & he said "I wish you talked to me before you did anything." He said she was contacting him about his mom's b-day which is Saturday & she wants to surprise her. I told him its starting to weird me out. He didnt care. What to do?

2006-07-14 06:00:38 · 20 answers · asked by karekare330 1

am married and my wife buy me some thongs and i like to wear them cause they keep me for sweating to much

2006-07-14 05:59:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i asked a question and some of the answers made me feel like a freak for being married for 13 years. we are in love and have ALWAYS remaind faithful to each other.

2006-07-14 05:57:32 · 22 answers · asked by mongo862001 5

2006-07-14 05:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by davidsz9 2

i had a bf who worked overseas.we were together for a month then he left for work for 2yrs.during that time,i met a new male friend.he also had a gf at that time.but we enjoyed each other's company.we r on the same wavelength.when my bf came home,we got married.it's been 4yrs now.my friend's still single & unintentionally,we started bonding together recently.we'd eat out,watch concerts or just hang out.time flies when we r together.i'd call the relationship platonic.he awakened me to what my marriage was not.& i'm beginning to question it.i have no deep relationship w/ my husband.4yrs & it hasn't been consummated.is it worth saving?i strongly feel that it should have been my & my friend.i just didn't see it before.friends r starting to notice us but since he has this high regards for me,my husband & my family,he won't cause trouble.now he has chosen to stay away.but i feel that we r depriving ourselves of our destiny.how do i make him realize that w/o scaring him away?

2006-07-14 05:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by confused 1

I can't figure out what is going on. I have been married for 3 years and been with him for 4 yrs. I am a military wife. And it seems that he doesn't want sex really anymore and we don't even really kiss. I try and try to figure out why but he says he doesn't know why. I am becoming unhappy and don't know what to do. I am almost thinking if leaving would be my best option. Can Anyone Give me advice please? I also tried to have him go to counseling with me but he won't go.

2006-07-14 05:50:51 · 25 answers · asked by tckedwards 1

This is a question i've always wondered i've alway been made to believe that our time to die is already set okay so i ask this is are lives already drawn out he we love, what we acheive, how we prosper. its a sad thought if all choices we make are really not ours that they've already been decided by a higher power

2006-07-14 05:50:17 · 8 answers · asked by rebeccaangel2004 2

ok this is a little strange. my husband's ex wife pays child support every 2 weeks 100.00. well now she has gotten a second job and for some reason they are takin support payments out of both checks. I know that is not allowed by law but we have called the department and they say that it has been deducted from her overdue child support and that we should cash it a keep it because it was taken from the total. now she says that she is not behind and that we need to cash it and write her a check for the additional payment. if it is taken off her over due amount wouldnt that be cheating the kids out of money they are rightfully owed?I have have talked to this department twice now and both times we were assured that she is behind and we should keep the money. I just don't know what to do, she is being very hatefull about it all.

2006-07-14 05:45:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

traveling very far is not an option as we live 5 hours from an airport so most of the weekend would be shot traveling. not looking for destinations so much as something to do. we live in the midwest and not a lot of local attracitions.

2006-07-14 05:45:44 · 25 answers · asked by mongo862001 5

2006-07-14 05:43:58 · 38 answers · asked by junkfoods4u 1

when he leaves his job. where together on weekends. but i still am scared. his this normal for me . how can i trust him?

2006-07-14 05:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by robin w 2