Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2006

2006-07-15 23:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by D 1

2006-07-15 23:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by mohammed E 1

2006-07-15 22:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Pete 1

2006-07-15 22:20:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anything i should do after losing my virginity? should i sterilize my vagina? should wash the area with a soap or only water? how long would it take the wound to heal? how long am i going to be in pain? we are planning to go on a trip the day after, and my friends told me that i will not be able to sit for a long time... is it true?

2006-07-15 21:53:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and my hubby is acting like he cant tell me what his bro said.Why not?does he love his bro more than me?

2006-07-15 21:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I broke off our relationship b/c I'm tired of his crap. Did I do the right thing?

2006-07-15 21:00:16 · 31 answers · asked by Tuffy 1

I have been separated from my wife and first love for 2 months now. People tell me that I will find someone that really loves me and that I will be happy. I just feel that I cannot love anyone that way again. I still feel commited to her, and definatly have not moved on. I have such a hard time moving forward when I spend all my time looking over my shoulder waiting for her to love me agian. I am in total limbo, scared to move ahead, but holding onto a past that is dead. I just still love her so much and don't know how to just forget about her. I never thought I would be in this position...ever. Has anyone ever felt like this and moved on to find happiness? If so I would love to hear you story. I just feel like she is the ONLY ONE I could ever love. Thanks for hearing me out.

2006-07-15 20:51:58 · 21 answers · asked by Scott B 2

Okay so i was datein this guy..and we were pretty serious and i ****** him..and well today i found out the whole time..he was ******* my best friend but she didnt know about us because i wasnt aloud to tell anyone i was dateing for drama factors and tonight i found out they had been doing stuff for 7 months of our relationship..So we confronted him and he lied to us..
what should i do..

2006-07-15 20:50:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do people get seperate? are there any particular reasons?

2006-07-15 20:18:26 · 25 answers · asked by nadia a 1

financial stability and lasting marrigaes: are they interconnected?

2006-07-15 20:14:24 · 12 answers · asked by nadia a 1

2006-07-15 20:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by tai joyce tutut 1

I am Palestinian girl. I engaged to an American 2 months ago while he was spending his vacation here in Palestine. We signed the merrage contract before he left, and we planned to do the wedding in the next February. I ask you to read the following paciently and then give what you advise me to do please.
Before few days he sent me the following email:
"I don't know what to do either. I am being
completely honest when I say I really have been busy.
I get home I'm always tired. I fall asleep at home, I
fall asleep at work and I know it's driving you crazy
as well. I am so stressed out and some of the doctors
are so mean and they add stress to our lives. I
couldn't even stay awake to watch the world cup game
and the only reason I know who won was because my
friend told me. I'm sorry that I got you into this
mess. I am miserable right now. I am so overworked
and I guess in reality I wasn't ready to make these
big life changing steps that I thought I was ready to
take. We can't go on like this...there is no time to
get to know one another but at the same time I don't
blame either you or I. Because I think you did not
know I would be this busy and then you get angry at me
for falling asleep or not calling. I sleep in the
hospital 3-4 times every week. And I feel that even
if I were married this life would be too difficult for
another person to deal with. A wife should be able to
see her husband to get to know him and with this life
there is no time for either person. I know I told you
I would be busy but I didn't know it would be like
this. And I apologize but I think there is too much
heartache and I am in the most difficult and stressful
part of my life right now. I think you feel the same
way when I say we should really reconsider and think
about what we are doing here and if we can carry on
this way. Let me know what you think but I feel very
bad and I have been extremely depressed on top of all
the work that I am doing. I will talk to you soon and
I am sorry that the cards my father brought for me
didn't work. But he said he was sorry about this.
Take care and I hope this reaches you in good health

2006-07-15 20:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Olivia 1

I am Palestinian girl. I engaged to an American 2 months ago while he was spending his vacation here in Palestine. We signed the merrage contract before he left, and we planned to do the wedding in the next February. I ask you to read the following paciently and then give what you advise me to do please.
Before few days he sent me the following email:
"I don't know what to do either. I am being
completely honest when I say I really have been busy.
I get home I'm always tired. I fall asleep at home, I
fall asleep at work and I know it's driving you crazy
as well. I am so stressed out and some of the doctors
are so mean and they add stress to our lives. I
couldn't even stay awake to watch the world cup game
and the only reason I know who won was because my
friend told me. I'm sorry that I got you into this
mess. I am miserable right now. I am so overworked
and I guess in reality I wasn't ready to make these
big life changing steps that I thought I was ready to
take. We can't go on like this...there is no time to
get to know one another but at the same time I don't
blame either you or I. Because I think you did not
know I would be this busy and then you get angry at me
for falling asleep or not calling. I sleep in the
hospital 3-4 times every week. And I feel that even
if I were married this life would be too difficult for
another person to deal with. A wife should be able to
see her husband to get to know him and with this life
there is no time for either person. I know I told you
I would be busy but I didn't know it would be like
this. And I apologize but I think there is too much
heartache and I am in the most difficult and stressful
part of my life right now. I think you feel the same
way when I say we should really reconsider and think
about what we are doing here and if we can carry on
this way. Let me know what you think but I feel very
bad and I have been extremely depressed on top of all
the work that I am doing. I will talk to you soon and
I am sorry that the cards my father brought for me
didn't work. But he said he was sorry about this.
Take care and I hope this reaches you in good health.

2006-07-15 19:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by Olivia 1

2006-07-15 19:49:56 · 18 answers · asked by luckyinlove 1

the children you have now would not have been born?

2006-07-15 19:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my x wife left the country to avoid paying court ordered child support for our 5 kids that live with me in iowa.

2006-07-15 19:26:07 · 2 answers · asked by don m 1

My husband goes out every Saturday. He says he will stop when I stop having a problem with it. We have a 10 month old baby. He has been out the past eight weekends. We fight about it. I hate it. I have tried to talk to him about it and ask him why he has to do it. He says he likes it. I don't know what to do. Why does he have to go out all the time? He doesn't do anything at home. He used to help clean and cook. Now I do all of it. He doesn't even help out with the baby anymore. He won't change her diaper if it's dirty, he leaves it for me. He told someone that I don't want him to have a good time, but I just want him to stop going out all the time. I don't care if he goes out occasionally, but this is ridiculous. When he goes out he sleeps all day long the next day and doesn't want to help out. I am not sure I can just let him be to see if what he says is true. Honestly, I didn't think marriage was supposed to be like this.

2006-07-15 19:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by cniane33 1

of course i caught them. the only reason i forgave him is because it was only on the net and phone nothing physical at all. but now here is the clincher. this woman wants me to be her friend and cant understand why i want nothing to do with her. am i being too hard on her. she told my husband via emails that she never loved her present husband but she married him because she settled because she heard my husband and i had gotten married. every email was her telling him on and on how much she loved him. she would say things like do you love me more than starla or just different and to be honest my husband told her he would never leave me but i still consider it cheating. he also said if i forced him to choose he would choose her but he didnt. ok should i talk to this woman or not.

2006-07-15 19:21:44 · 12 answers · asked by starla 3

I can only see one logical reason you would separate and that is if you intend to get back together one day but need your space. It is not like you are divorced where you can legally marry again; however, you are not actually married in the “marriage sense” either. I have came across women that have been separated for years, however, I am scratching my head thinking why they did not get a divorce. If I am not mistaken you have to get a divorce to get married again anyway. I guess it just does justice for my psyche to know that a person is single, divorced or widowed, however, separation makes me think they may work things out “potentially.”

Is separation a safe haven for married people to see other people without legal problems? What are all the logics of behind separation?

2006-07-15 18:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by worsetofirst 3

I was married twice 7 years each and both of them left me for a friend>3 serious girlfriends b4 them and they all cheated wth one of my friends.A woman will tell you all her life she dreamed of love and how your the one forever.But once life gets alittle tuff they run to the nearest penis around not even thinking about how there crushing the heart of the man she said she once loved.But will actualy throw it in your face and not even give it a second thought.Woman just lie better then men.thats al

2006-07-15 18:51:45 · 29 answers · asked by tssfix 1

2006-07-15 18:43:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-15 18:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he claims part of it is because he is always the one to instigate the sex how do i make him understand that im not confortable with starting it im afarid he is going to reject my advances. in 2 years he has only 2 but that really bugged me. PLEASE HELP

2006-07-15 18:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by tammy 2

Basically, we've been together 4 years, married 2. Had a great sex life, got pregnant, sex life died! He said he was freaked out having sex with a pregnant woman and after the birth, which he was present for, he had NO interest in having sex with me. Our son's birth was the most amazing experience of my life, but it really just turned him off to me. As a result, he spent alot of time looking at porn and ignoring me and you can imagine how the rest of this story went. Now that my son is older (18 mos.), our sex life is starting to return to normal. I just am trying to understand this reaction and wondering if this happened to anyone else.

2006-07-15 18:01:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-15 17:52:34 · 8 answers · asked by Chuck B 1

my ex wife is makeing life hell for me and my kids i got custudy of the kids 4 years ago. she only see the like 4 are 5 times a year and every time she see them she make life hell for us. she does thing like calling dcfs when ever she can. and every time she does this they find nothing wrong will guess i am tired of it and ready to stand up for my self anyone got any good ideas how i can make her life hell like she has made my life and the kids life hell

2006-07-15 17:36:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anyone know where i can get a cheap divorce.. or how annulments work... i live in arkansas and my husband isn't cooperating with me... please help... we have been married a year on the 21st

2006-07-15 17:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by A$#!ey 2

The biggest mental problem that i have now...is that i did not love the person whom im married to...but i have the affection for her
On the other hand im suffering from the thought of one sided love affairs all over my life....i have loved girls but i have got negative feedback from them...just rejection....as someone told be on YA once...that TO LOVE IS NOTHING,TO BE LOVED IS SOMETHING AND TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED IS EVERYTHING....but now i think everything is too late in my life...im really frustrated but still im a responsible husband and my wife will always tell u that...and my question is WHY? TO LOVE IS "NOTHING"?

2006-07-15 17:28:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think some woman love their man more than their own children,and they take abuse and cheating from them and get back 2gether nowing what they do to them why??? its not like hes the only man in the world!and even if he was i wouldnt take that crap from nobody!!

2006-07-15 17:11:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous