Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2006

before me and my hubby got married we partied alot and he got drunk 1 night and hit me alot. Ever since then it just keeps happening even when hes not drunk i need advice!!!

2006-07-15 10:35:07 · 22 answers · asked by Andrea M 1

2006-07-15 10:35:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together on and off and there have been some betrayals of trust. Not in the cheating way but in the way where stupid things have been said while arguing. I feel distant and I am starting to feel like we are room mates rather than lovers......Anyone with some creative suggestions?

2006-07-15 10:25:27 · 11 answers · asked by sweetmammaearth 2

what are your views on cousins getting married? people that are related through parents such as your uncles's son...something like that - my brother's colleague got married to his cousin the other day so it brought up a few questions.
and my best friends are asian and they are going to marry their cousins too; what are your views on this?

2006-07-15 10:15:49 · 28 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3

we have been together 5 years married for 3. when we first met things were great he always told me he loved me kissed me hello and goodbye goodnight etc.. we would sit and talk and just have a good time together our sex life was great and everything was perfect. Well now we dont kiss he sleeps in the living room and we have sex mabey once a month, he never wants to do anything together and im always alone while he sits in the garage working on his truck.. my wedding ring broke about 3 months ago (it was a cheap walmart special) and he still wont buy me a new one he says he doesnt have the money but he just spent a few hundred on another truck last week i dont know what to do i love him but i cant take it anymore and to top it all off we have a 4yr old somebody please give me advise ***********p.s serious answers only please

2006-07-15 09:58:16 · 30 answers · asked by greeneyes 2

You see, I feel at fault too because I have this tendency to bicker and compare him to other men... and get extremely jealous when he goes out with a girl friend. I can't believe I ruined such a potentially good relationship from so early on. He really seemed/seems to love me, for he has done a lot for me. He's taken care of me when I am sick, he's always there for me when I am down, and he pushes me to do the right thing academically or financially. It wasn't until last night that he said that... and I am thinking that it's because of my constant bickering and comparing him to other guys. Should I keep him and stop this behavior, or pay for those mistakes and let such a great guy go, and learn from my mistakes for next time?

2006-07-15 09:43:31 · 13 answers · asked by confusedphilosopher43 1

2006-07-15 09:39:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am slightly worried cozi feel i am being stalked.....what would be the signs?

2006-07-15 09:39:03 · 14 answers · asked by lady 2

Do you think that my wife will cheat on me when I go to Iraq to work as a fire fighter?

2006-07-15 09:31:30 · 18 answers · asked by firecoolerman 2

I'v been married almost 2 years. I never had a CRAZY lustful sex drive with my husband but married him because I love him and he's my best friend. We've had really good sex in our marriage but I go through stages every few months where I can take it or leave it. I'm worried that it's him, because he is quite the jokester and likes to laugh and have fun a lot and sometimes jokes about the sexual act itself and I find it quite the turn off. He also doesn't seem to care if he looks good or not in front of me. He rarely wears cologne even though he knows that it really turns me on and he likes to wear big baggy t-shirts that accentuate his pot belly. Yes I sound terrible now. But I promised him that we would have sex tonight, and I really don't have any desire to.

2006-07-15 09:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by mkk 2

What should I do? How can I go on living now? I have cried one month and was not able to sleep. Does such lady have a heart?

2006-07-15 09:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

she loves me but she is very shy she cant say i love u? but also she likes this word from me can u help me to let her lose her shyness and make her in the same time loving me more and more?

2006-07-15 09:02:03 · 5 answers · asked by khaled S 1

I met this lady were she doesnt' know how to cook and now she is going to get married. would she make a good wife

2006-07-15 09:00:14 · 9 answers · asked by mr. freeze 2

I know women don't feel like having sex sometimes but is it normal for a guy to not feel like it even when their wife tries to turn him on? -Please, no rude immature comments-

2006-07-15 08:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She talks about having sex but won't make the first move. When we do have sex she hardly does anything. I try to teach her but she doesnt show much interest. Help!!

2006-07-15 08:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. love 3

If were dating a guy and you two were madly in love but you knew that he has three kids by three different women and pays child support $1391.99 in all. Would you marry him. Just curious. Because I did and I feel like I made a mistake sometimes.

2006-07-15 08:45:19 · 12 answers · asked by Lilia 1

2006-07-15 08:38:07 · 3 answers · asked by snow l 3

i don't type so well so i'm agonna let me wife write this so it will be from her perspective.

my husbands ex-wife pays 100.00 child support every two weeks. just recently she has gotten a second job and they have been taking payments from both checks. which i agree is wrong but the amount over is being deducted from back support owed . she tried to tell us that we had to cash it and write her a personal check for the amount but,we were told by by health and family sevice to cash and keep so that is what we have done.

when we told her that we were told to keep it and that we were. she threw a fit and called dcfs out of spite. now there is nothing wrong with my household other than being chaotic. with six kids things get that way but the children are not abused or neglected. what would you do if someone did that to you?

2006-07-15 08:36:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we ve been married for 3 weeks
do i have to talk to him about the way i would like him to love me?
actually he doesn't give me enough time
looks like he has many other important things to do
i am shy to talk about it
i tried to use bodylanguage but didn't work

i love him still but i started to feel hurt when we finish doing this

it hurts me when he ignores my feelings

i need help from an experienced person

2006-07-15 08:31:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for ten years and he is not good in bed at all. No matter what we try he is just not good. He is lazy at sex. Plus half the time he only lasts about two minutes. Should I leave I don't want to be a cheat?

2006-07-15 08:22:02 · 11 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5

My friend has been with her boy friend for about 2 1/2 years. She is talking marriage, he loves her and wants too, but her kids are the problem. They don't respect him. What advice would you give her?

2006-07-15 08:17:43 · 14 answers · asked by Island Girl 5

i want to marry a very handsome, rich, educated, well-mannered young man.i want him to take care of me and love me deeply.

2006-07-15 08:16:45 · 31 answers · asked by Aathi 1

This is a tough question and I don't want you to think I am shallow, but the difference in our appearance is a breaking point in our relationship.

I am blessed in that I am getting better looking as I age. I get asked out daily by women of intense beauty. If there are 100 women in a crowd, the very best looking ones come to me and ask me out. This is new and very odd for me. Of course I like it but I just don't see myself that way. My wife on the other hand, can't get a look if she were naked. Age hasn't been kind to her. Her appearance and body weight have really caused or sexual relationship to dwindle. I am just not very attracted to her anymore. She has treated me poorly or I would be the first to defend 'character over beauty', but she has neither. Because I have been mistreated it is hard to rely on love for our physcal relationship. We are left with superficial beauty and it's just not enough for me to become arroused. How can I change my view point so I can become arroused?

2006-07-15 08:10:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

relationship has become very bad.He does not even want to have sex with me.I am 45 and he is 51.Some how although he is an alcohoiche likes to shout at me only for all his problems.last 7 years not a sinle time he has had sex with me. whether he has another woman or women i am not very sure. but he tries to fight for no reason.I have one adoted son. whi\o is 9 years old.

2006-07-15 08:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by ninu 1

yesterday i hung out with a friend of mine and my husband's who is a guy. my husband is deployed. i told my husband EVERYTHING and he doesn't care that we hung out. in fact he was kind of happy b/c this person is a friend that kept his wife company for a little while and helped out with the kids. but when i mentioned it to a female friend she gave me a reaction like i did something horrible and she isn't the only one who reacted like that either. why? i didn't do anything inapropriate and we're just friends. we went out to eat, with my kids by the way and then went to the park so my children could play and we could talk. why is everyone acting like i did something wrong? it's not like i hid it or anything either.....help me understand. also, would you have done it?

2006-07-15 08:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by origchick 5

we have this huge sofa and my stepdad is sleepy so my mom let him ley down he toke 89% of the space then i have to to sqashy myself to the side i only toke 5 % of the sofa. one time he came back from work and we were eating dinner my mom keep giving him food and keep on saying how hard he worked all day and then i said i study hard too you know then she just give me a whatever look

2006-07-15 07:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

-He hasn't kept any of his promises.
-He lied about having money in savings (none in savings, no retirement, no life insurance, owned nothing, he & his adult son were living with his mother when I met him).
-His son's behavior changed drastically after we were married. I now know enough about this lazy 20's something kid to know he did lots of bad things (hurt animals & elderly relative) as a teenager & is likely a sociopath.
-He blames his son's criminal activities on our government (He is naturalized US citizen, his son is here on a green card). They both say our laws are wrong.
-He works his own business, sleeps in afternoon, no regular hours.
-I work 2 jobs, do all housework (groceries, dishes, laundry, cleaning, etc) plus all outside work (mowing lawns, shoveling snow, the trash, auto maintainence, etc)
-He sits in his lounge chair watching TV while I do all the housework.
-He earns 13-15,000 a year. I earn 4 times as much. I carry all our medical & dental insurance.
Stay OR Go?

2006-07-15 07:57:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance has a trust issue because his ex cheated on him. since we've been dating, he's monitering my calls, checking my email, ect... and i let him because i love him...but has it gone to far? is it fair to me? given the circumstances i grew up as a tom boy, i have lots of guy friends...he thinks im going to cheat... how do i get him to trust me? has it gone to far? does this seem fair to me in your point of view?

2006-07-15 07:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by GOOfBabi 1

we have been married for only three weeks, i am so happy but worried please ans my questions
1-how long have you been married?
2-are you happy with your partner?
3-is there any problem?
4-is this problem ralated to sex?
5-are you thinking about divorce to solve the problem?

thanks

2006-07-15 07:51:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Usually at least once a week, my husband wakes up mad at me because he had a dream that I was cheating on him... I would NEVER do that, and I think he knows it, I just don't understand why he keeps having those dreams. Does anyone have any feedback about this?

2006-07-15 07:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by daisy65421 2