relationship has become very bad.He does not even want to have sex with me.I am 45 and he is 51.Some how although he is an alcohoiche likes to shout at me only for all his problems.last 7 years not a sinle time he has had sex with me. whether he has another woman or women i am not very sure. but he tries to fight for no reason.I have one adoted son. whi\o is 9 years old.
2006-07-15 08:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by ninu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok hun just a little piece of advice from someone who has been there get out now!! I can't even express enough how important that is. It only gets worse trust me! You may feel that there is noone else who will ever love you but you are so wrong you can do better and as hard as it might be you can do better speaking from experience I got married at 18 to an alchoholic and had a baby my baby was not even a year old when I left him and I am not going to lie it was hard but believe me it will work out in the long run. Dont punish yourself a minute longer get up right now pack your bags and leave Please
2006-07-15 08:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean a half-hearted sorry and a plant aren't sufficient for you for smashing your home, locking you out of the house, and throwing the Christmas presents in the fire? Egads! BTW, it wouldn't be sufficient enough for me either. The thing is...DON'T get over it. Get out. It doesn't matter that he does this infrequently and that he didn't do this when you first got married. The fact is that he does this now...and has done this more than once. Take your shock and leave him. And for God's sake, please don't make any babies with him. It's bad enough if you volunteer to stay with him, but don't subject a poor innocent baby to this kind of a life.
2016-03-27 06:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents went through the same exact thing way back in the late 50s. Sure things were different back then, but people are basically the same. My mom had to end up kicking my dad right out, because she could no longer put up with him.
2006-07-15 08:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by oceansoflight777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get out right now. Let him have his love affair with the bottle. You are still young enough to have a fulfilling life. If you need financial help to leave there are organizations to help, especially if he has ever hurt you. Forget about a preacher, they don't live your life for you and your son, you do.
2006-07-15 08:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by thebushman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take my son and leave. Problems and hassles like that I don't need or want and can do just fine without. Either hubby gets his act together or I stay gone.
2006-07-15 08:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of this relationship ASAP. His drinking and behavior has abuse written all over it. Plan your leaving cautiously. I'll keep you in my prayers.
2006-07-15 08:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a pastor:) The will show you that only Jesus can help you in the end, or any of us for that matter:)
2006-07-15 08:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by Yankeegirlfromupnorth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out, take your son away from his illness... and find you a new man who wants you... i think if its true about the 7 years hes got another woman.
2006-07-15 08:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a protection order and kick him out,get a good lawyer and a divorce
2006-07-15 09:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact al-anon for families of alcoholics, You dont need to take the abuse!
2006-07-15 08:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Karin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋