I know women don't feel like having sex sometimes but is it normal for a guy to not feel like it even when their wife tries to turn him on? -Please, no rude immature comments-
2006-07-15 08:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure. We are people too. We have days when we are tired, when we don't feel loved, when we don't feel good about ourselves, or when we are angry at you.
When was the last time you told him that you loved him, or that you're proud of him, or that you're glad to be with him, or that he makes you horny? We love that stuff and don't get it nearly enough.
The trick here is to ask him in a non-confrontational why he wasn't interested. Done gently, this could be good opportunity to work on your relationship. I suggest, asking him something like, "Have I done something to make you think I don't want you?"
2006-07-15 09:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I have a male friend that is like that too. I think men really like sex, but sometimes it's not so important to them. Then again, if they are having an affair (which I am not insinuating that your husband is.) I think that can also play in effect of their sex life.
Drugs, alcohol, depression or stress can also hinder a man or woman for that matter to want to have sex. Men do go through they're own menopause, so to speak. Not sure how old your husband is, but maybe this is what he's going through. Men, as much as they would like to be; are not the always going sex machines they were when they were 19-20 years old.
2006-07-15 08:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not common...Don't let a person use you the entire solution to the top. You are there for one cause or maybe two..Your children! It's not convenient to move on if in case you have children concerned in a seperation.But they will grow up and will have an understanding of in the future. Better faster than later. In any other case your kids might be ready to peer the hurt sitting in your shoulder.
2016-08-09 01:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by pihl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been so tired that all I wanted to do was sleep. Sex was not an option, and I would have turned it down. And I would expect the same from my partner, and respect their feelings. After all, if you're too tired to enjoy it, you are just making the motions to satisfy the other person. The desire should be from both sides, or it falls flat.
2006-07-15 09:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by fishing66833 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, this happens to me from time to time. They get moods like us. We go in suprts, sometimes we have sex almost every day for a while and then we can go a week without. Just depends, as long as it is happening on average 1-2 times a week, your all good.
2006-07-15 08:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by adrixia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. It happens to me. My wife can't work, so when I'd come home from work, I'm just plain tired. It's not that she doesn't turn me on, but I'd like to relax and just go to sleep. So don't take it personal if the husband just isn't "in the mood". Best of luck to you......
2006-07-15 09:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does happen. We also go thru our mood swings. There are a few rare times I didnt want sex . The main reason was being tired. Work and working out and children it also affects men.
2006-07-15 08:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time my man isn't accomidating is because he is simply too tired and I can understand that. If it happened all the time I would be conserned. Most men like sex all the time if he is turning you down constantly I would starrt to wonder if he was gay or cheating. Good luck!
2006-07-15 09:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by babyjake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure Is Normal
2006-07-15 08:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by dogsx11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he can just be tired or not in the mood don't take it personal now if occurs frequently look a little further but a one time thing i wouldnt worry
2006-07-15 09:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋