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Question

we have been married for only three weeks, i am so happy but worried please ans my questions
1-how long have you been married?
2-are you happy with your partner?
3-is there any problem?
4-is this problem ralated to sex?
5-are you thinking about divorce to solve the problem?

thanks

do i have to talk to him about the way i would like him to love me?
actually he doesn't give me enough time
looks like he has many other important things to do
i am shy to talk about it
i tried to ue bodylanguage but didn't work

i love him still but started to feel hurt when we start doing this

it hurts me when he ignores my feelings

Answer 1

I have been married for five years. And I will be the first of many to tell you it is hard. But if your love is strong it will last, your just starting out. Everything will be fine, you just got to take time to get to know eachother that's all.

Answer 2

To whom it may concern:
I have been married for almost 2 years now. I am extremely happy with my husband but it most definitely did not start out that way we have had a long hard relationship. After about 6months of marriage we both admitted to each other that neither one of us was really sure that we wanted to get married at the time. We had the biggest communication problem I would definitely say that communication is the biggest commitment that you have to make to make a marriage work. If you are thinking of Divorce you need to tell him that. Don't argue don anything you have to do to not argue it will not solve anything.
After two years of mirage my husband and I are so close we love each other so much and it is because we started communicating otherwise we never would have made it.

Answer 3

Married 25 years.
Somewhat happy and somewhat not.
Yes - there will always be "problems" -- it's how you handle them is what matters.
Yes - but just in the past 3 years.
I don't really know what to do. Our "issues" go very very deep and a lot of years of them. I have personally been feeling bitter, angry and sad because my husband spent most of those years just agreeing with people instead of sticking up for me when I deserved it. He doesn't "like confrontation" so he avoids things and therefore, in-laws, etc. all think I'm this child of satan or something. (Marriage doesn't have to be that way).
We have made it this many years though. It's not like I hate him or anything like that. I will always love him but I will also always remember that he let me down. It is worse than if he had an affair as far as I'm concerned.
SO MEN, listen to me -- if you want to keep your wife happy, defend her. You don't have to have money or buy things (I've shopped at Goodwill most of my adult life - we don't have $$) so this isn't some spoiled person talking. I've been hurt more than anything by this behavior and he can't understand it.

Answer 4

1).Honestly , I've been married for 16 years..
2).Yes and no to being happy, If I had a choice between married or single ,I'd choose married. It has it's ups & downs , You make your marriage, ya just hafta decide wether you want it or not.
3).Sure there's problem's but none worth leaving for, I believe all problems can be worked out, If both of you are willing and forgiving.
4).Yea sex is one of our problems , she doesn't want it as much as I do . And when she's in the mood I'm not & vise-versa.
5).Tried leaving , 6 years ago it ain't worth-it
We're too far wrapped up in each other financially;mentally, emotionally, We had grown together some how inseparable.
We are one and I wouldn't leave her for the world.
I tell you this though, if you make it past the first 5 years its smooth sailing , for most of us ........... Because your just really getting ta know each other..

Good Luck !!!!!

Answer 5

You must be questioning something, three weeks is a little early to be worried unless there are doubts, but.
1. 15 years
2. Very ,very much so.
3. Minor, that's life!
4. No, kids from my and his first marriages.
5. No, we're soul mates, great communication, fantastic sex,
we both love pizza and the blues!

It wasn't this wonderful at first, every couple has to make adjustments when starting a new life..just make sure the adjustments aren't one sided. Give and take , if there's something that your partner just can't change, consider compromise before you put your foot down too hard and destroy everything that made you love them in the first place.
Congratulations to your groom and good luck to you both.

Answer 6

1. 20+ years.
2. Definitely.
3. Only one.
4. Yes.
5. Of course not.

Answer 7

I Have been married for 4 months. And I am very very happy with my Husband. We never really fight.. we have had mabye 3 disagreements since we got married.. but we always COMMUNICATE with eachother and work out the problem. He honestly was worried I would leave him over sexual life.. And there is nothing wrong with it.And I just tell him how wonderfull he is and what strong love I have for him. My husband and I love eachother very deepley... and we both have kids. We always keep the Lord in our lifes, and we always communicate, trust, be there for eachother, and WORK out our problems like adults. YOu have to be willing to have all that in your marriage or it will fail. If you truley love your other then you will have to make sure you keep whats important in your life. If this makes any since.

Answer 8

1: 7 months
2: Very happy
3: We don't always see a lot of each other, or we don't spend time with each other.
4: Sometimes, we want it but too tired or not enough time. The quality is never the problem.
5: No

Answer 9

Been married a long time and had lots of ups and downs. I could tell you details, but not here. Marriage takes effort on both sides and when one starts to falter the other suffers too. Good luck

Answer 10

10 years
Yes, I am very happy
Always
No, sex is great.
Divorce won't solve such problems. People are always changing due to growth and maturity. I am not the same man my wife knew when we first met, nor is she the same women. Having said this, our relationship florishes, becuase we do not hold onto the preconceived notions of who we each used to be. We love what the other has become.