Marriage & Divorce - 15 July 2006

I am married to a man who has left me serveral times, 2 months after we were married and countless times doing the 3 and half years we have been married,when he leaves he gose to hes brothers house and hes brother is married to my husbends x wife.the last time i saw him was in febuary he came to my house made love to me and said he wanted are marrage, i had to go to work and he said he would see me when i got home the next morning I have yet to see anything of him, not a phone call a letter nothing...I feel like a fool i stop doing any thing I stay home all the time and wont see none of my friends he has done this to hurt me i know ..i dont or cant understand why he did this to me agian...iv heard hes been with other women..i am a very atrative women iv had men wanting to go out with me but i just wont let myself ,how can i get over this and move on...

2006-07-15 07:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by in_lembow 1

My marriage has been going downhill for some time now, so I am going to consult with a divorce attorney. What questions should I ask her?

2006-07-15 07:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

My husband pays child support. If one of the woman he pays child support to were to take him back to court would they look at my pay too and come up with a new figure or would the judge just consider his income.

2006-07-15 07:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by LIZA 2

2006-07-15 07:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1

with my wife to let her know how much she means to me

2006-07-15 07:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by canibus 2

HOW LONG SHOULD YOU WAIT TO GET MARRIED WHEN A DIVORCE IS FINAL? MY SOON TO BE DIVORCED, SOON TO BE HUSBAND SAYS ITS UP TO ME HE DOES NOT CARE IF ITS THE NEXT DAY AFTER THE HEARING..... I DONT WANT A WEDDING BUT I DONT WANT TO DISRESPECT HIS CHARECTER

2006-07-15 07:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by CHRISTINE 1

do any of you believe,if a man pays child support regular every month,is he entitled to have visitation rights.iam asking this question because i know women havent got a penny from their exes for years and their exes still think they should still see their kids.what is your opinion about this question?

2006-07-15 07:20:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-15 07:19:48 · 8 answers · asked by Mili 2

My husband has been off of work for 2 months because he was hurt on the job. Now he can not go back until he is released. Since his income was the bread winner of the family we are getting behind on bills. I have taken on a 2nd job and he is suppose to take care of the kids. Which he has not done very good at. Plus since this has happened I just have lost a lot of interest in him. What would you do?

2006-07-15 07:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy B 2

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2006-07-15 07:07:17 · 4 answers · asked by maryannmccarthy2003 6

what kind of girls are attractive ,in men's view, and can be suitable for marriage?

2006-07-15 06:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by bammzzy 2

I would like to talk with someone that has used legal aid, To get a DIVORCE ? I need to talk with someone that has used legal aid.
they have me in contact with a lawyer. if you have used legal aid hot long did it take to get a divorce ?
Plese get in touch with me you u or someone you know has used legal aid...... I need advice fast please.................................

2006-07-15 06:56:26 · 4 answers · asked by Nancy D 2

2006-07-15 06:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by samantha 1

i am racist its just everyone i see is stuck up and **** well my bestfriend is blond and oh my god does she think shes the and i tell her shes no better then anyone else on this earth and she says whatever i a goddess!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-15 06:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by monia8685 1

2006-07-15 06:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a follow-up. Basically, my wife confided to me--after we watched some nasty movies--that the thought of her enjoying sex with a muscular black man has become a fantasy for her. She says that's it is just a fantasy and she would never act on it. I love her, believe her, trust her. It's just a huge turn-on, she says. When I let her choose a dildo online--suprise!--she chose a large black one. She said that we could play games and she could pretend she is having sex with a muscular personal trainer or stripper. She says that it is a way to fulfill her fantasy and experience a huge cock without actually cheating. Of course, she goes out of her way to stress how much she loves me, enjoys sex with me, and would never stray in real life. She says that women are more disciplined and that she could have a muscular black personal trainer in real life (hypothetically) and she would just get turned on and rush home to me for sex. My question is..is the dildo a bad idea? Am I a fool?

2006-07-15 06:34:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for three years, I'm 20, hes 29, and we want to start a family.

2006-07-15 06:18:05 · 12 answers · asked by obsession0524 2

what will be your reaction?

2006-07-15 06:12:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to move as Ive built up my house, pay all the bills etc myself and I'll be dammed if Im leaving. Womans Aid was not for me.

2006-07-15 05:52:47 · 30 answers · asked by ~Lez~ 2

I'm being very clear & honest here, so please don't read into my Q. You're getting all facts & not twisted psych. I'm a gal who cares 300% about my man, his pleasure w/ me & meeting his needs. That's why I was always a happy, content single...I could focus on my daughter & I & give us both happy lives. Years ago I decided 2 stop dating til I met my husband. It WORKED! OK. Being "me", I strive to be a good wife. My hubby's what you call "a great catch"~wonderful! BUT, our intimacy & commun. could be better at least 40% of the time. When he criticizes (physically, parenting) it messes me up ment'ly & emotion'ly. I'm not a basket case, but I feel taken for granted since I make major effort. The other day he googled some of his exes names + liposuction, arm exercises, etc...Hello, I'm 7 ms. pregnant & think I look fab. Should I tell him why I'm p!$$ed SPECIFICALLY or what should I say to him? I wasn't spying, I use the history to revisit sites. Advise me with care, esp. guys. Thks!!

2006-07-15 05:24:00 · 8 answers · asked by Sleek 7

I bought him tickets to a Nickelback concert because the 1 year anniversary gift is "paper" and we have dinner reservations. But I want it to be extra special... any creative ideas?

2006-07-15 05:22:41 · 13 answers · asked by jessiebellduncan 2

Should All Marriages have 2 year time limits where they are automatically disolved and each party leave with what they bought. A person should be able to renew after 2 years with a 2 or 5 year marriage only after all assets are divided clearly.

2006-07-15 05:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by dyno_bot 2

2006-07-15 05:20:22 · 12 answers · asked by Chuck B 1

2006-07-15 05:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by justcarrisa 1

I caught my husband on the phone, computer, and staying after their fire meetings whispering "I love you" and "beep me when your husband leaves and I will come over" to a married (3rd time)woman. I gave him 2 years to end the relationship.He refuses so I left him and filed for divorce. He refuses to sign the divorce papers. I am waiting my 2 years for the divorce to be final. He says he can't end the "friendship".That will be admitting he is doing wrong. His hours of phone and computer conversations left him even less time with his family. He's married to the DVFD for the 30 years of our marriage.The kids and I dealt with his leftover time. I refuse to except the little time he has left now. I have no family so this was very hard for me to do. I was just wondering if anyone feels that a relationship like this is adultery? He insists it is not, and he is just being there to support her in a bad marriage. He is getting support from her for our bad marriage also. Why not sign????

2006-07-15 05:14:16 · 17 answers · asked by Sassie 1

My relationship only lasted 2 yrs with this guy and it was a very stormy relationship-although I was mad about him.We split up 12 yrs old ago and I have been married for 10 yrs now (to a fab bloke)and have 2 lovely kids...so why I do still think about my ex b/f and wonder what might have been?Please help

2006-07-15 04:53:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-15 04:52:02 · 7 answers · asked by ofelia46 1

2006-07-15 04:34:06 · 17 answers · asked by charls 1

Random whack question. I'm in the middle of a divorce (i'm american living in germany) and my wife (german- was living in germany) seems to have vanished. The courts came to her home to present divorce papers and she was gone. Any places online i could use to aid in my person search?

2006-07-15 04:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by master shake 1

I can't believe what a pitifully pathetic piece of manure I've become, but I need to talk about this to anyone who can hear. I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. This is my fourth serious relationship, and I am ready to settle down. This is HIS first serious relationship. I let him know this about four months into our relationship that marriage was my goal, and though he was surprised and a bit confused at first, he seemed to want to get married as much as I did more and more every day. When I let him know from the start that I wouldn't wait for him more than 5 years (probably not even that long), he said that he wanted to get marry ASAP. We even opened a bank account together. But it's been a couple of months since he told me that maybe we won't get married as soon as I had hoped. BUT LAST NIGHT... last night he told me he's not sure he even wants to marry anymore. He just graduated college and he says he's not sure of what he wants anymore. And now he told me that he doubts he'll even be ready to marry in 5 years. He says he wants to marry eventually, but he doesn't know when.... and, he said, "as much as I love you," he's not even sure if we are compatible.

I love him as I've loved no other man.... and though I've tried breaking up with him before, he always begs me not to go... but last night HE broke up with me. He cried like a baby, as did I... but I ran to my house. I couldn't stand the pain of losing him, and I called him telling him that it doesn't matter and that we can work on it. We got back togehter instantly, but things don't really feel the same. Yet he demands the same level of intimacy-- like, sex and sleeping over. I asked him how long are we going to "play house," and he says he doesn't know. WHAT HURTS ME THE MOST is that he said he was so sorry for hurting me, but that he really meant what he had said about spending his life with me at the time. "At the time... I really meant it. I deluded myself." And the bank account? THat was part of the delusion as well.

Now, my question is, should I, the once strong independent woman, and now a pathetic loser-- should I rehearse and wait for him to realize that it is I who he wants to marry, knowing that no matter how much effort I put on my part, I know there's a risk he might let me go? I love him VERY much. I've always been careless and somewhat selfish in relationships which is why they never really worked in the past-- which is why I am trying so hard, because I think he's worth it... but am I losing my dignity? I mean, he's a great guy. Responsible, mature, punctual, loving, caring, spends most of his time with me.. but some of the reasons for our constant bickering have to do with our difference in personalities. You see, he is extremely social and most of his friends are female, whereas I am not too social unless I am attracted to someone, and I am a bit financially irresponsible. He says he wants someone who is financially responsible... and I want to be that way... but if I do, he'll think that I am doing it for him, because honestly I think I am coming off as desperate, and he'll think that I'd do anything to marry him. And I would... but I have no clue what to do.

READERS, please, tell me, WHAT should I do? I love this guy to death, but is he worth my time? SHould I continue to give him "free rides" knowing that I may not get to marry him? Or was he just feeling pressured by my ultimatums and it's in my shoes now to prove that I am not as bitchy? SHould I change my convictions just to keep the guy? PLEASE SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!!!

2006-07-15 04:10:29 · 36 answers · asked by confusedphilosopher43 1