2006-07-15 07:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its a weird thing i know.... i havent been through that, but when my ex had a baby with his girlfriend it made me feel weird too...i dident like it ..but i dont want him....and i was already married and had a baby... i cant explain it.. but i know what you mean.
2006-07-15 07:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are upset. I would be if I were you. You don't want an affair to now turn into a legal respectable relationship. Also if he had no respect for your marriage how dare he get married again. He is again pretending that he values marriage. Dont be upset though. Put him out of your mind. Guess what? He will most likely cheat on her and leave her for another woman too. Or may even better, she may cheat on him. Neither of them really respect marriage, since they didn't mind breaking up the one who had with him. Therefore a marriage of 2 people who dont respect marriage, probably wont last.
Just be glad you are rid of the cheating loser.
2006-07-15 07:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically because you probably hate her for her part in breaking up your family. Take heart in the fact that statistics show marriages that start this way rarely last. My ex tried to end the relationship with his fling after our divorce. He found out that his "new love" and soon to be wife was a psycho and he ended up getting a restraining order against her. My current husband's wife cheated with his best friend and they married. It lasted less that 6 months. His former best friend confided to another that he just couldn't trust her. You think? The first time she used one of her same lines about working late it clicked that they had used the same one when they cheated together. Be happy that your husband and the other woman are now stuck with spouses that they know lie and cheat and have no respect for the sanctity of marriage. Karma has a way of catching up to people.
ps - Caring doesn't mean you still have feelings for him. My ex re-married a family friend years after our divorce and I was very happy for him and her both. Neither me nor my daughter could NEVER have accepted the other woman in the same way. Time heals.
2006-07-15 07:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel the same way.
It just re-surfaces all your deep rooted insecurities but once the dust has settled you'll be okay.
2006-07-15 07:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Andreana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he beat you to punch. It's always easier if you got married first.
2006-07-15 07:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the anser is you think you i the only woman for him, there is a reason he is ur ex. you don't went that woman to give him a chance you went him to be ur ex for ever that why.
2006-07-15 07:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he was a part of your life, and there will always be a part of you that will love him. It's natural.
2006-07-15 07:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u still love him somehow or may be u jelouse b/c he got another woman(who may probabaly nicer than u).
2006-07-15 07:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋