and my hubby is acting like he cant tell me what his bro said.Why not?does he love his bro more than me?
2006-07-15 21:42:05 · 16 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesnt show me any loyalty!he must love him more.
2006-07-15 21:48:04 · update #1
he's supposed to have abond with me too!Ifhe's keeping this,what else is he keeping?
2006-07-15 22:02:19 · update #2
When I becamer his wife,I became his blood and he became mine.We became one person,his family is obligated to respect that.Just as we respect his wife as family.
2006-07-16 16:13:53 · update #3
well, it seems as though you are thinking it through, as you should. he should trust you and vice versa. i can't figure out why he would withhold information of any kind. maybe he does hold other information or maybe other women. i don't want to start trouble. you need to talk to hubby and ask what is going on. good luck babe.
2006-07-15 22:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by sinned 7 · 8⤊ 3⤋
It's really no big deal - as Anne Landers used to say - MYOB.
I would't be too concerned that your hubby isn't telling you all the details, at least he told you of the affair. If he was told this information in confidence, then it should stay between the two brothers.
No he doesn't love his brother more than you, it's more of an oath thing for your hubby not to go blabing this affair thing - even to you.
The less you and everyone else knows, the better.
2006-07-15 22:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby loves you, and wants to keep you from been in the middle. If ever the cat came out of the bag. So he must love you a bunch and keeping you in the clear of all that mess. Details of he's bothers affair should not make a mess of your, love of you and your husband. So relax and enjoy you life with you hubby.
2006-07-15 22:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would let that go. His love for you has nothing to do with it. His brother told him in strict confidence. Your hubby is only honoring his wishes. This is a trait to be admired and appreciated...especially by you.
On the other hand, with a little cunning, guile and female initiative, I'm sure you can wrangle your way to success. Let it rest for awhile and don't pressure him. Kindness and sweetness usually will get you everything. Timing is important.
2006-07-15 22:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm what business is it of yours? it doesnt concern u.. and perhaps he made a promise not to tell you for fear u'll run back and tell his wife or gf .. do u always make everything about you? just curious cause your really coming off that way.. why do u need to know all the dirty details??? U know the jest of it.. he had an affair.. leave it alone.. mind ur own business and be thankful it wasnt ur hubby telling your brother-in-law details about an affair He had.. sheesh..
2006-07-15 22:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed off . I would keep prying and prying until he got so anoyed he told. His brother more than likely made him sware he wouldnt tell anybody BUT that crap wouldnt float with me , He cant just tell you he had a an affair and leave it at that ,if he didnt want you to know than he should have never mentioned it . Curiousity killed the cat . Thats like laying a piece of bread infront of a starving man and telling him not to touch it. ..He should have gave you all (details to ) or nothing (shouldnt have mentioned it ) ..Just keep prying girl ...Tell him your not gonna let it go until he starts talking
2006-07-15 21:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Diane26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd rather not know the details. Sometimes ignorance really is bliss. Besides that, his loyalty to his brother shouldn't threaten you, he'd be a chump if he went and gave you the details that his brother told him in confidence. Just be glad it isn't your husband doing the cheating.
2006-07-15 22:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hubby does not love his brother more than you. Brothers share a bond, respect that. I tell my sister things that I would never tell my spouse because she can give me a different kind of advice than my spouse could.
2006-07-15 21:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels a need of loyalty to his brother but just because he isn't telling u that doesn't mean he loves his brother more, maybe he doesn't want his brother to look like a jerk or something u know
2006-07-15 21:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is something you really don't want to hear. You're his wife, but his brother is blood. So maybe you really don't want to get in the middle of that anyway. The less you know, the better you are......best of luck to you..........
2006-07-16 06:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 03:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋