2006-07-15 22:56:11 · 19 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think yes, it makes him look really bad and unfaithful in God's eyes. If he messes around it isn't a marriage but a life of lies because of his obsession for lust and sex. He will never be faithful to one woman but a male organ for hire. He has committed Adultery in his marriage and vows were broken when he committed one of the sins from the ten commandments. It is she that will have to divorce him due to his wrong doings.... unless she loves him enough to forgive him and stay with him and he make a change of his ways to make things right. He has to have the will and the way. Now, on the other hand, if she approves of his adultery and she is not doing a thing, she may fear losing him and not strong enough to stand up to him so she lets him. What ever the case, it is wrong, wrong , wrong and should not be tolerated or excepted in a marriage that was suppose to be based on love and the vows that were stated to each other when they became man and wife..
2006-07-15 23:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to stay with a cheating husband in the first place? unless your that desperate to keep a man in your life.
If he really loved you he wouldn't be doing such a thing ..would he? and you do not owe this man anything if he is unfaithful to you.
Put yourself first and do what you feel whats best for you, but if you are considering being unfaithful yourself, then you should leave the marriage first...don't just stay for material comforts and financial security like what many do, it rarely works. A marriage doesn't become broken down for no reason and neither is all marriages meant to last.
Only you can decide if you want to work at saving your marriage and if your husband feels the same, then give it a go, but otherwise id say ta-ra and good riddance to this guy and find someone who will genuinely love and appreciate you. Dont be a doormat for your hubby and his comfort zone or there for his convenience.......you deserve better.
2006-07-16 06:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband has another woman, perhaps it is time to send him packing. File for divorce, find somone who will be good to you, faithful, and live a happy life
2006-07-16 07:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Wes M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is for the marriage and the kids, then better try to still work things out. but if it won't help anymore, then there are other places where love can be found again. my ex-husband left for a younger woman and my resort was to go online and date men on wealthymen dot com. it was rewarding.
2006-07-16 08:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by trixy a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she should not weaken and demoralize herself because of her husbands weak immoral character. He will have to answer for what he's done...she should not also sink to the low he has. There are other ways to deal with a cheater and she'd be wise to employ those tactics and not sully herself with adultery, sneaking, lying, etcetera.
2006-07-16 06:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband hasn't kept his vows.... then why should you?
What's really funny about men who cheat is when they find out their wife is also cheating, they get crazy jealous. Doesn't make any sense, does it? But all men have a double standard like that.
2006-07-16 06:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Guppy Geek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they need not remain faithful any longer. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
2006-07-16 06:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh until the divorce but get adultry on the hubby by hiring a privat investigator
2006-07-16 07:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
cause her husband will note with time that this is wrong or weven if he not he better know she's not cheating
2006-07-16 06:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel read some articles on how to catch a cheatig wife and a husband
2006-07-16 06:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋