my wife refuse to work.i have child.i`m thinking to divorce with her.cause i`m paying a lots of bills?

Answer 1

You're a wimp. She may not be comfortable and if she doesn't want to, are you going to force her?? She is probably taking care of the whole household, cooking your meals, cleaning the house. That is also WORK, my friend. Something noble but never given due credit. You probably don't do that. You sure show a lot of support for your family by thinking of divorce for such a stupid reason. Don't you love your wife? What about your kid? Where's your responsibility? You are going to stop supporting them? You seem to be a very selfish person. Reconsider and shoulder some resposibility like a mature adult.

Answer 2

look to be honest i dont see a problem unless your child is in school then i do see a problem. if it isnt in school then she is saveing you money because daycare is expensive and if she doesnt have any experience she will only be making min. wage and that isnt enough to pay for day care at least not where i live. but now if she doesnt have to waych the child during the day then i say she should have a job even if it is just part time. I mean like if you work from 8 to 5 the kid would het home about 3 so she could work at night and sleep in the day while the kid is at school or work at the kids school but if she is just lazy then i think that she needs a wake up call the cost of living is expensive maybe you should seperate for a while and let her try to pay her own bills and see if she can handle it then if she does get a job then you know it was because you let her get a way with it.

Answer 3

Just because you work and she stays at home,is no reason for a divorce.What is her reason for not wanting to work?How old is the child?IF the child is under 5 yrs old,alot of mothers wait until their child becomes school age and then goes to work.Also, she may like just being a stay at home mom and housewife.What was your agreement before marriage,if any??Take all these things into factor and then decide.Divorce is not an answer just because of she not wanting to work.Adultrey,abuse,etc....are!!!I ALSO she IS working a full time job now,she just dosen't get paid for it??????Understand??!!!I hate to tell you but regardless of if she works or not,the bills are still going to be there and IF she goes to work and puts her child in daycare,add another bill for that!!

Answer 4

A divorce just because she won't get a job! You ever think she wants to be a stay at home wife and take care of your child, a child that isn't even hers. Get a better job or grow up!

Answer 5

We all are in the same boat, but don't you devorce her for that reason. If you did, your child support be worse than your bills.You love your wife. It could be worse, she could be running around on you, but she not! [ As they always say- this too shall pass.] My friend: I know its hard, find the solution that you both need! If one working or the both of you are working, you still be in the same boat. Get help if you need to.

Answer 6

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX How about seperating first. If you seperate than she will have no choice but to support herself. If you divorce her she really won't work because she'll make you pay alimony and child support. and you will still be paying all her bills and yours. Remember, it's cheaper to keep her so just leave her for awhile. She'll wise up. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 7

you two need to talk... marriage isn't something you walk away from for childish reasons....if you are ready to leave so easily then either their is more to it then you are telling are you are immature and marriage was to much of an adult move for you

Answer 8

TRY TO UNDERSTAND HER WHAT IS THE REASON THAT SHE REFUSED I THINK U CAN CHANGE HER MIND
WILL DIVORCE SOLVE UR PROBLEM ?