Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2006

I am going through a really hard time right now and I thought I had finally found someone that I actually connected with. All of the sudden he doesn't want to talk to me any more. He said it was because he was having feelings for me. He said that he wanted to end it now so he didn't get hurt.

Should I respect him and leave him alone or follow my heart and not let him get away?

2006-07-14 05:39:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean SICK he couldn't stay out of the bathroom more than 20 minutes (and all that this implies, sorry to be gross) but still wanted to whine about not having sex. is there something wrong with this or is it just me? i'm not young and have been married a couple of times before and he seems obsessed with it to me, he honestly has himself convinced he can't sleep unless he has sex and no amount of sex is ever enough for him, no matter how much he gets he wants more....this is abnormal in my experience, but what do you think? don't even guys get to a point where they have enough?

2006-07-14 05:32:37 · 12 answers · asked by dappersmom 6

My husband swears my friends boyfriend has the hots for me.
Before my friend and him hooked up he was a huge flirt .With everyone . Now he has calmed down some . But my husband makes it very hard for me when we all get together.
My friend and I get along so well and I have a great time w/ her.
But I am soooo angry at my husband .I have told him this over & over and he says , " I know him and I dont trust him"
He met him 6 months ago when I did and he never hung out w/ him w/o me. Is that how it is ?Do guys know guys that way?

2006-07-14 05:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by suiki 3

how long did you date before asking/realizing marriage was the next step? my mom always said she realized it immediately :)

2006-07-14 05:27:56 · 28 answers · asked by Jessica B 4

2006-07-14 05:26:22 · 22 answers · asked by petes2084 1

last mth my wife say she wan a divorce, she know a guy online n went out with him over night. now she wan to came back to me....... we have 2 kids. what should i do........ forget abot what she have done or forget abot the marriage???? pls help ........ for me, my heart is 3/4 dead.....
what can i do or what i should do...........

2006-07-14 05:21:46 · 43 answers · asked by Andy Heckmen 2

2006-07-14 05:21:27 · 26 answers · asked by aloysious 2

I saw a 360 page that was a bit disturbing, it was a couple that had been together for over 10 years that seemed happy, yet they were swingers. I was dsturbed because I wondered if that goes against the basic princlples of marriage, yet they are still together. Is that what it takes to have a successful and long relationship, an open sexual lifestyle???

2006-07-14 05:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by justme 2

2006-07-14 05:15:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23yrs and my Husband is 36yrs. I am also a student and there is this guy in my class that is driving me crazy. I am falling in love with him and he is also falling in love with me too, I cant do anything without thinking about him, I cant sleep in the night, cant concentrate on my studies. I was at school today and he did not come, I started crying. I have only 5months to finish my school. Should I leave the school in other to forget about him what?

I never had any sexual relationship with him but, I am missing him a lot. even when my husband is making love to me I was wishing it was that guy. I have tried all I could to stop thinking about him but no way. what do I do?

2006-07-14 05:14:57 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question kind of was sparked by another one asked. I am nearing the end of my divorce am really trying hard to rediscover myself and heal from the rejection from both him and my best friend. I am not a shy person when I get to know people but I am shy in showing up meetings by myself.

2006-07-14 05:12:47 · 15 answers · asked by libby s 1

My husband (of which we were married for 2.5 years) is just mean to me and my son. He says he'll never change but wants to do counseling. He gets in my son's face (19 mos) when he makes a mess or when my son "acts annoying". He also calls my son a moron and that he's stupid. Plus, when my husband gets mad at me, he calls me names, and he's called me a c*** but says he doesn't remember. He has an anger problem but says it's just the way he is and he can't change and for me to just live with it. Also, he says he treats our son the way he does because he was treated that way when he was growing up and why should he treat his kid any different. He grew up where his parents fought all the time and physically abused each other. I'm just scared.... Hope someone could give me a mental kick in the head so I'll get the balls to do something.

2006-07-14 05:00:55 · 31 answers · asked by nvfire7 1

2006-07-14 05:00:44 · 3 answers · asked by cbridge2003 1

we've been having problems and i just havent' been feeling the same about him or our marriage. we'll be married 10 yrs in december and i just wonder if this is normal or is there more to it.

2006-07-14 04:55:30 · 20 answers · asked by smcstokes 1

2006-07-14 04:52:20 · 4 answers · asked by zee 1

2006-07-14 04:50:04 · 26 answers · asked by hubbabubba 2

This lunatic keeps calling my lovers phone that he met a little before they met me and she wont leave them alone. Me and her get into it constantly over the phone when she randomly calls. She called one day and I called her a ho. Later that day she left a message in their voicemail and said that mem love their hos more than they love their wives. I was wondering if that was true?

2006-07-14 04:38:07 · 11 answers · asked by prncbab 2

my husband has two children that live with their mom... she has remarried it's been well over a year now, but she and the kids moved in to her new husband home with his two kids...
well when my husbands kids come to visit us they call him dad of course but me they call me by my first name.... but when they are at home they call their new step dad MR. and the new step dad kids call her MRS. now to me thats just not familyish... I dont think they should call me MRS. or the step dad MR. if we are all family right.... am I the only one who feels this way.. they shouldnt be calling me Mrs. and him MR. in their home....

2006-07-14 04:35:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I bring it up to him without him thinking that I was snooping or checking on him. I was looking to see if anyone had found our dog since the cell # was on her tag. I don't believe this other women has any idea about ME!!!

2006-07-14 04:31:18 · 26 answers · asked by gulalisa 1

Any ideas how to make a romantic vacation with my husband great even though I am on my period?

2006-07-14 04:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 2

I am 21, and my husband 24. I have been with my husband for 4 years, only married a few months, and we have a little girl. He has put me through hell, but we are working on it. I thought everything was going along well...but I cheated. I feel terrible. I love my husband, that is why I took him back. Now, I know that I am a terrible person, a cheating whore, a slut, all of that, so don't waste my time stating the obvious.
My question is, what do I do? I feel so guilty, but I don't want to tell him just to alleviate my feelings of guilt. He will be devastated, and never trust me again. I know that is what I deserve...I just don't know what to do. And, if I do tell him, what do I say so that he knows this is not who I am, that I love him, and that it is not going to happen again?

2006-07-14 04:27:38 · 40 answers · asked by elizabeth k 2

2006-07-14 04:27:36 · 13 answers · asked by thewonderer 1

we have separate bank accts, but i have come across a way to see his banking activity. he is quite unaware of this. I noticed that he spent over 2k in one month. I don't know how to bring it to his attention because i checked his bank acct unofficially! any suggestions????

2006-07-14 04:23:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What happened to make you see it or what feelings can you describe that said to you that this person was the one?

2006-07-14 04:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Chris D 4

2006-07-14 04:18:42 · 17 answers · asked by Randi R 2

Anyone?

2006-07-14 04:15:49 · 62 answers · asked by Kristine R 4

2006-07-14 04:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Andrew 5

I believe most married men fantasize about being with other woman.

2006-07-14 04:13:49 · 15 answers · asked by broj7400 3

2006-07-14 03:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by hoboken134 2

He was always in the mood, liked all sorts of stuff and would fulfill every fantasy I had. Now that we're moved in together, and monogamous,he never wants to do ANYthing, not even if I offer him oral! lol. Is he just comfortable and happy but tired from his work (his main excuse), or was I a victim of false advertising?

2006-07-14 03:52:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous