My husband swears my friends boyfriend has the hots for me.
Before my friend and him hooked up he was a huge flirt .With everyone . Now he has calmed down some . But my husband makes it very hard for me when we all get together.
My friend and I get along so well and I have a great time w/ her.
But I am soooo angry at my husband .I have told him this over & over and he says , " I know him and I dont trust him"
He met him 6 months ago when I did and he never hung out w/ him w/o me. Is that how it is ?Do guys know guys that way?
2006-07-14 05:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by suiki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What he knows about that dude your girlfriend doesn't even know so go with your man and trust his instinct another man can tell when another man is trying to be slick at the mouth just trust him on this one and he will feel much better if he know's you are on his side with this one. Cause if he has kicked with him alone he has saw a side you are your girlfriend has not seen he is just not telling you the whole story and he shouldn't just trust him that is your man he is on your side don't forget that
2006-07-14 05:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one is tough!
As others have said part of this is a questions of trust. How much does he trust you and how much do you trust him?
Does he say this to you about other guys or just this one? If its just this one maybe he does know something or have bad vibes about him. If its every guy then that's a different problem!
Are you attracted to her boyfriend? Being married does not mean our natural feeling are gone! If you are, he may see that even if you are trying to hide it.
If there is something there, maybe you need to see just your friend and not go out as couples. A day at the spa or out shopping would be fun! And the guys would not want to go anyway.
Two last pieces of advice.
If you have a Friend that know both of them you could talk to her or him about them. And I am not suggesting you talk to your girlfriend or her boy friend! That could get real messy!
No matter what - Keep talking to your husband! Sometimes it might be frustrating but you need to keep trying!
2006-07-16 09:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by paintingj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but we think we do. Your husband doesnt need to trust this guy if he trusts YOU! Just keep reassuring him that even if that guy is being a flirt, you are much more attracted to your husband (just do it :-) and you would never cheat on him. Have you told your friend... it may help to talk to this other guy... tell him not to tell your hubby what you told him however to try to get to know you hubby some more so he will be comfortable.
2006-07-14 12:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! Girl answering!
My partner could always tell if someone was interested in me and I think it's because he was on the outside looking in. Maybe he could read the signals the guys were sending!
I just didn't see it because I didn't see the other guys in that way and never thought anything of their flirting (sometimes I didn't even see the flirting!).
He was always right and eventually they would make their move. Have you asked your friend how she feels about the way he acts towards you, maybe she sees something too?
2006-07-14 12:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not trust the guy, but does he trust YOU? You are a big girl, you can make your own decisions and no matter how much of a flirt some guy is with you, if your married and not interested, that's all there is to it. End of story.
2006-07-14 12:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course we do, just like you know when a girl is flirting with you husband
2006-07-14 12:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i know men like this, they are insecure. but maybe you have given him some reason to be insecure? where you a big flirt when you met your husband?
2006-07-14 12:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋