2006-07-14 10:45:45 · 35 answers · asked by weberliner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Introduce her to your wife's boyfriend.
2006-07-14 10:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's crazy man. Adultry right there! I won't bash you because you had the guts to post this question on Answers, but that's just bad man. I'm married myself and I love the woman I'm with. Is there something in your marriage life that's not complete? Because the reason why most married couples look for others is because that other person can offer something that he/she does not have in their marriage. I suggest that you leave your girlfriend and stick to your wife. Try some marriage counseling, if all doesn't work out, then divorce your wife and go out with your girlfriend, but I warn you, the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Hopefully there are no kids involved, because if there is, take into consideration that you'll be putting the kids through a lot if you were to get a divorce. Luckly for you, your wife does not want to get a divorce, which means that she still loves you and is giving you a second chance. Second chances don't come around a lot, so make sure to take it and change for the better. Whatever you decide to do, good luck and god bless you.
2006-07-14 10:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your wife you need to break it off completely,and something you need to think about is if you really love your wife why do you have another girlfriend,you are lucky your wife is giving you a chance because any other woman would tell ya to get your sorry a ss out and don't come back.Your wife obviously loves you very much to give you a second chance if I were you a would not mess it up. Especially if you have kids together.I think you need to treat your wife with alot of respect and kindness from now on,I don't know your whole situation like if she has done this to you or not but just think about if you truly want to be with your wife or your girlfriend.Who has done more for you and put up with all your problems in your life and who will stand beside you through the good times and the bad.good luck
2006-07-14 11:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend honesty: why did you have to have a girlfriend and be a married guy? You should look at that question honestly and not try to play games. You have ended up hurting the feelings of 2 women, and that is really unfair. Try to look at that issue and then make a decision. Are you unhappy with your wife? Did you do it because of the thrill? Or do you miss something in your marriage that your girlfriend had? Only when you are able to answer these questions to yourself, will you be able to make the right decision. Any man who cheats has an issue to take care of, and so you need to take care of that with honesty. Then talk to your girlfriend being honest with her--not trying to tell her something that's not true(i.e. I love you but....). Because in essence are you taking the chance from her to meet someone else who is not married.
Well, I wish you the best of luck....
2006-07-14 10:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray she don't go "Fatal Attraction" on you for sure. You are one lucky man to have a forgiving wife, and I hope you are asking because you don't want to hurt the girlfriend's feelings. Or did you tell you were married? Did you tell her you were leaving your wife for her? I sure hope you told her you were married, and she just thinks this wasn't for keeps. You don't know about people now days, but I would do it soon. Tell the truth for once and ask her forgiveness to if you have lied to her as well. Then go give the time you spent on your girlfriend to wife, because, she is the one who deserves it! Please be careful, and talk to your wife if you are having problems, or let her go and find someone who would love her like she needs...not when you want to! I am sorry, I am not being very nice, but I am trying to help. You admitted your mistake, and the biggest step, now you have to fix things...God bless....
2006-07-14 11:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is are you happy with your wife? No matter how you tell your girlfriend you will break her heart. I could bet you money that you and your girlfriend get back together. Because most men that cheat on their wives are not happy and now that she knows about your girlfriend she will make your life miserable. So make the right decision the first time.
2006-07-14 10:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suck! I think you should get some counseling with your wife FIRST after you tell your girlfriend to take a hike, that homewrecker! And like I said before you suck. If I was your wife ( thank GOD I'm not) as soon as I found out you cheated on me,I'd kick you straight in the balls and do permanent damage and kick your as* straight to the curb!
2006-07-14 10:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not talk to this girlfriend anymore and probably fess up and tell your girlfriend that you are married and that she was a mistake. Go to counseling with your wife. And keep to your wife. You are lucky she isn't divorcing you over this.
2006-07-14 11:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go to her and tell your girlfrined that my wife found out about u and i want to work on my marriage so u got to go. and thank god everyday that your wife is willing to work with u which by the way will take a lot of hard work on your part. she will never trust u again. you are very lucky that she is giving u a second chance.
2006-07-14 13:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this should of not of happened but you probably know that by now. If this woman knows that you are married she is partly to blame as well. Stop calling her will be a big clue, if she calls you tell her you want to work on your marriage. I suggest you go to marriage counciling. Hopefully your wife will be able to trust you again.
2006-07-14 10:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother' just tell me if u'r wife wants u to breakup with u'r girlfriend what does that mean that obviously means that u have to choose between u'r girlfriend and wife.
Now tell me to which way will u go' ofcource to u'r wife so just tell the girlfriend that u'r wife doesn't want u with her and u have to leave her. It was so simple i wonder why didn't u do that till now. Now don't wait and do it!!!!!!
2006-07-14 10:51:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋