2006-07-14 20:05:58 · 38 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For all you women who think that the thought of another man joining is so terrible, we actually did that before we were married, and it was a turn on for me to watch...
2006-07-15 07:03:42 · update #1
If she doesn't want to dont do it. Its it worth a divorce?
2006-07-14 20:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, but don't push it. Maybe the next time she brings him or her up in a conversation bend it that direction, ask her if she would do him or her if she had a chance, then bring up the idea. If she agrees, then sometime while having a conversation with this person, talk about sex and then ask them if they ever considered group sex., if yes then move ahead, if no forget it. Do not push anyone to do this.
Fair warning, you run the risk of losing your wife, have some rules about what you expect and what you don't want to happen. Some relationships can handle this, some can't after it happens.
2006-07-14 20:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should divorce her so she can go with the woman and you should find yourself a male boyfriend and then you can have a foursome. Really, you should respect your wife and not ask such disrespectful questions as if someone can tell you how to manipulate your wife so you can fulfill a fantasy. Grow up or get a divorce because what you are wanting will certainly destroy your marriage one way or the other.
2006-07-14 20:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by duelpers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a real husband, i am shocked that you are showing your wife a wrong path, which will ruin your entire family, then whats the fate of your own children or family, better late than never, give up such shabby things, in fact love your wife and children and be a role model, that other husbands will follow you and make their lives a heaven. advise that friend of your wife and express your sincere apologies for thinking so badly that one cannot imagine. thanks atleast your questioning mind will definitely guide you to the right path, all the best for becoming a pure soul, who will do only right things. to err is human but to forgive is divine.
2006-07-14 20:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What women would agree?
If she told u to being a friend of urs and lets have a 3 some, that make u uncomfortable...really.
Because that is ur wife and friend and u, i mean ur friend is gonna start hitting on ur wife.
Its not right to ask ur wife that coz that means she is not giving u everything u need from a women and that will make her sad(cry).
2006-07-14 20:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has expressed sexual attraction. Then she isn't her friend she is a ..... dont hurt your wife like that. Both of you need to stay clear of her. How would you like it if it was your wife, her and her mate????? Marriage is sacred! Hope you do the right thing.
2006-07-14 20:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by lrh_daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are treading on extremely dangerous ground. I have been in the same position as your wife and it ended very badly. Keep it as a fantasy, but don't make it real. Some things are sexier when it's still a fantasy.
2006-07-14 20:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by amyaliceco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is already interested, it is just a matter of talking it over and if you both agree, invite the friend over and let her know how you both feel. There is the possibility, though, that you may damage the friendship if her friend is against it. Threeways can be tricky. Hopefully your experiance will be an enjoyable one.
2006-07-14 20:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by taboobiker73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 way is never a good idea... ... no matter what your woman feels its never good on the relationship... .. someone is going to get more playtime than someone else than that will cause a rip in the marrage and it all goes down hill from there
i would stick this in the mental files as mental four play but not act on it
2006-07-14 20:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Nicoley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think you need to ask her at all she has told you she is sexual attracted to her friend so now let her bring it up to you she will. if that is what she really wants she is half way there she told you next she will ask you she is feeling you out also to see your reaction. all good things come to those who wait.it will be worth the wait OK
2006-07-14 20:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by teachmemore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife wants 3some, 2 guys and 1 woman. Is that ok with you?
2006-07-14 20:19:16 · answer #11 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋