Ok, my GF just got back from vacation. She now, after having had time to think about the current state of our relationship, isn't sure we can be together anymore.
A little background, I have been really down becuase I lost my job a few months back, and it's effected my ability to get another job. Becuase of it I've been absorbing myself in video games to escape that harsh truth. And, subsequently, have been spending a lot less time with her, and havn't been really doing much of anything to help out around the house (bills, cleaning, etc).
The day she left I started thinking about our current situation too, completely independant of her starting to ponder, and since have become a machine. I've cleaned up the whole house, put in 40apps in 3 days, and have overcome my little depression.
Question: How do I convince her that I'm for real? That I really have turned over a new leaf, and am not just trying to do the minimum?
2006-07-14 21:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nevermind...she dumped me...
2006-07-15 03:29:56 · update #1
Actions speak louder than words. Keep doing what you are (NOT saying) and let her see for herself. Show her that the changed you is not because of her, and doesn't depend on whether she's with you or not, it's just who you now are. She'll come around. But whatever you do, don't pressurise her - let her come to you, don't chase her. She's more likely to be back.
2006-07-14 21:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be totally honest, if you sat around the house (no matter how much cleaning you did), I'd rethink the situation as well. At least get some job, anything... move if you have to.
Chances are that if you don't, she'll walk.
I may be wrong, but that's my gut feeling.
2006-07-15 05:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convience her to come to the house to see that you have cleaned , and my advice as a wife if my husband played video games that would be enough to make me want to divorce him b/c games are for little boys not grown men. Sell the video games and call everyday to check on the applications you have put in .
2006-07-15 05:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by bobby_brenda_slone2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a good start so just keep the energizer bunny energized and hope she believes you, because the urge for you to return to game boy is still there!
2006-07-15 04:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words
2006-07-15 04:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show it in action. she should sense it by her heart not by her ears.
2006-07-15 04:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
propose her.
2006-07-15 04:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋