2006-07-16 20:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by Sasha K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't get Divorced :)
2006-07-16 20:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something new!!! Change your looks, try things you have never tried before, go on a little vacation, go on a picnic and talk! If you need help in opening up, play a game that will get you both to be open and intimate. Communication.
In the bedroom:
Lots of foreplay, use TOYS and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you.
Try all variations and see what stimulates you most.
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy
2006-07-17 03:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make long term plans. Don't afraid of separation. Any way if you just want to continue just for the sake of it, what is the point? However, I had married 11 years back and have two kids. Our marriage is going strong. One essential part is to keep fit and healthy. Both husband and wife should remain fit. And in between give a break to their sex life occassionally.
2006-07-17 03:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by arooon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involve God in your relationship, read the Bible for instructions and encouragement. My parents are very God fearing and they have had a very wonderful marriage. this does not mean that problems will not exist. This unfortunately is when they will come in twelves. But all this comes as a form of testing you faith and making you a better person. Remember the Lord does not give you a burden which you can not bear.
2006-07-17 04:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true the family that plays together, stays together. Although I am not deeply religious, I think attending church as a family help build a stronger bond amoung families and I hope you don't spend a lot of time in a bar type atmoshere. To each his own but I just think that it could lead to temptations that otherwise wouldn't be present.
2006-07-17 03:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't complain about the other person's ways! If he has skidmarks, you shouldn't complain about them, and if you have them, he shouldn't complain about yours. If a person likes to sneeze in their hands, they have the right to do so and should not be told to get a Kleenex. A mother's job is done when a person gets married, so it's impotant that a spouse does not try to parent the other person. Children will rebel when they've had enough, so don't give your spouse a cause for rebellion!
2006-07-17 03:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many ways. Don't get too familiar, keep some suspense.
Respect Respect Respect each other.
Do something new frequently, together.
Get away for a weekend
And one could go on and on...
but see what the both of you like for fun and do it!
2006-07-17 03:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Constant reassurance and redefining the relationship. Having little marriage reviews like you do at work are good ways to nip problems in the bud before they become too big.
2006-07-17 03:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Adalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must make God the foundation of the marriage. By the way, that is where marriage originated!
2006-07-17 03:31:50 · answer #9 · answered by TryingToLearn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to have a long marriage is to marry a foreigner from Asia who is a beginner in your native language. Trust Me, they will pamper you!
2006-07-17 03:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Young and Famous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what each other enjoys and try to take part in some of those activities, but make sure you keep own space!
2006-07-17 03:28:45 · answer #11 · answered by Carpe Diem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋