Marriage & Divorce - 16 July 2006

Well i think that have too much expectation from my husband...we are having our place renovated...we have temporarily by my in-laws..Since 2 days...when my husband get from work..he said that he is going with friends out..before we used to have an understanding as what...to let each other to know in advance that we are going out..now he just came and said that "I'm going out with my friends"..For me there..that sound so ridiculous and pathetic..he said that i'm overreacting...and i have friends too..so i tell him that from on now don't even tell me or neither will i for sure..what piss me about him is that he always go back in the past..and when i do..he said i don't have..i think sometimes that it's all about him not about us anymore..Though i'm 24..i still think that i should have wait to get married..There is so much to learn in life..i rush out too much..frustrating my life for nothing..i need advice..from married ppl who understand what i mean there..thanks in advance!!!!

2006-07-16 12:59:56 · 3 answers · asked by Cutelara 1

my husband was over seas working, when he came home to visit for 2 wks he was always on the computer, i didnt thing much, but one day when i got home from school he was acting wierd. So i checked out the comp. & found his own personal web pages w/ pictures of himself that he also sent to me. I also found profiles of him, stating he was single and looking for someone to talk to. When i confronted him about it, of course he denied it. Then when i showed him what i had found, of course he said he was sorry, it was all a game, some of the guys were bored and used his name /address etc.. i told him he cheated on me, but he doesnt see it that way. He said he never slept w/anyone. well i took him back, and about 6 mths later i found out he was looking at profiles again, his included. i dont trust him like i use to , i dont even love him like i did, im in a marriage that i dont believe in & a husband i cant trust.. but im afraid to end it because i dont want to disappoint my family. help

2006-07-16 12:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by bird 1

I don't understand how he does not remember who she is

2006-07-16 12:48:17 · 19 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

I want to know of any man or women that found their soumate. I want to know how you knew they were the ones. How you found your soulmate, where and when. Are you still together? And what does it feel like to be united with your soulmate.
I believe I found mine, but I cant be with him as I am married to someone else and he too is married to someone else.
Was anyone else in this position, and if so what was your outcome?

2006-07-16 12:41:51 · 12 answers · asked by Spellbinder 3

He's younger than me and really wants kids. I've never wanted children but thought I would probably change my mind as time went on. Well, I want them even less now. We're only one year into this marriage. Should I maybe just leave him? I love him to death, but I recognize that depriving him of this is unfair and surely too much to ask.

2006-07-16 12:30:27 · 17 answers · asked by honeybee 1

has anyone ever asked you if your expecting when your not?
almost everytime i go to a store infact today a man asked me if im exspecting and gave me his church card and said if i need any help stop by,
its so embaressing , does this happen to you?
im 19 yrs old and this has been happening for the past year, yes my stomach is big, all i eat is fast foods, and i know i need to start exercising, but evertime this happens to me i feel so bad

io havent even had a baby before but i was pregnant for a 6 weeks and had a miscariage but still i dont think that should make me look fat

2006-07-16 12:28:09 · 14 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4

2006-07-16 12:17:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever talk about a customer when they leave?
Like she's too fat, or skinny or ugly?
Share your stories.
And where do you work?

2006-07-16 12:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by DEEDEE Y 1

we have been together for over 12 years have a child.... sperated once for a bit... got back together finally got married 3 years ago... at the time i felt i was making the right choice a son needs his father and i didn't want my son being a angry young man cuz his mom and dad were not together anymore had many friends who had those issue growing up and they became very bitter and i was from a family were my own parents are married and happy after 36 yrs of marriage ... but i have been though so much with this man..... he's not phyical abusive but emotional is the hell i've been called every name in the book treated like dumb wit.... i can't do anything right for him.... and if i try to talk to him about my feeling he said i took him as he was for better or worse.......... well all i feel is worse i have become literally sick... had surgery 6 months ago for gall stones and now i'm always just struggling to get out of bed........... should i stay in till my son graduates?

2006-07-16 12:07:34 · 27 answers · asked by dodonumber2 1

2006-07-16 12:05:23 · 35 answers · asked by roylovesyou 1

I was divorced 6 months ago after a 20 year old marriage. My husband wanted the divorce and he's moved on very fast (new "serious" relationship etc.) but I seem to be stuck. I'm still in love with him although I shouldn't be. It's very painful. How did you survive your divorce?

2006-07-16 11:58:03 · 12 answers · asked by Lotte T 3

I miss him very much, but Iam very angry and hurt over this. I really dont know the reason, but he keeps playing games with my head. One minute he is telling me he has had something going on with a another women, then the next he is accusing me of doing the same. He calls me when he feels like it, sometimes to start with me, calling me names. He called in the middle of the night when he was drunk, and started out nice then started yelling at me. He is driving me crazy, Im an emotional reck. I do not want to let him get the better of me. How can someone just turn off there feelings like that after so many years. He will be turning 40 next year. I just dont know? Im very empty inside right now. He is very difficult to talk to. I m afraid of rejection if I try to talk or let my guard down. I dont know if this is what he wants from me. Please help! how could someone fall out of love in just 3 weeks. He doesnt really see the kids either, too busy.

2006-07-16 11:52:35 · 10 answers · asked by carol s 1

I met him about a year ago on a phone chatline. Was looking only 4 a friend, no strings. He responded and we talked alot, we clicked and eventually met. Developed a cool friendship & hung out & all the normal things friends do. Never any sex or anything like that. Down the line he decides to come clean & tell me he's married. My first mind said to hang up & end it quickly because he wasn't honest from the start, but i gave him the benefit of the doubt, & figured we could just remain friends as usual. Long story short, about a month ago, expressed more feelings 4 me. I'd been having feelings 4him 2, but didn't show them too much due to his marriage. Well we were a bit intimate but no sex...he claimed later his conscience bothered him but he still wanted our friendship tho. I love him and have for a while & that incident wasn't meant to happen. I still wanted our friendship 2, but haven't heard anything from him since that night. I am so hurt..he was my only friend. WTH..=(

2006-07-16 11:47:53 · 10 answers · asked by Cali 1

My husband was previusly married for more than 10 years, we live in the west coast and he use to live in the east coast, when he is on the computer he spends his time checking on the websites, channels, radios and any info he can get from the city where he use to live, so he is watching those channels all the time and know the news and the weather of his ex town (where his ex and kids live), plus he is always talking about how things where better there (which is the same time that he was previusly married) and how things worked better there, how he had a beautifull house, nice car, how his ex wife knew how to cook, as well as his mother, don´t you think that he is bringing way too much past in to our present lives? I get mad every time I check the history of the internet explorer and all I find are websites from his former town!! or home town, am I over reacting??

2006-07-16 11:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Marcela 1

2006-07-16 11:04:53 · 22 answers · asked by Eve 2

2006-07-16 10:52:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married to a chef i have been feeling a bit let down laterly my husband works fifteen hours a day and i work on his off days i feel let down as a wife and mother i do all i can for my family but he
says i am selfish

2006-07-16 10:50:50 · 34 answers · asked by ang 1

for all of your answers to both my question and his (the most recent) it is just so hard to go on with all this hurt in my heart. and with him asking that in the first place makes me think i have no choice but divorce......one last chance perhaps anyone know how to truly get over and past this. i want the pain to stop....

2006-07-16 10:37:55 · 10 answers · asked by starla 3

Hi, i have a boyfriend with the last name "Rugg". Around here that last name is associate with a lot of bad things, even though he and his immediate family are not at all bad. When we get married i really want to take his name and leave my old name (McCrory) behind, but i dont know if i should. Sometimes people with his last name get turned down for loans, jobs, etc. just because of their last name. I dont want to have that problem, but i really want to take his name. Should i write my name ____ (McCrory) Rugg instead of just putting Rugg? Do you think that would help? And what about our kids names? Please help!

2006-07-16 10:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-16 10:20:58 · 31 answers · asked by uthmankhan1983 1

I have an essay due Monday. Its called an "arguing to inquire" essay on marriage and depression. Anyway, I believe that depression may play a small factor in deciding to marry but it should not be the biggest part of the decision. In my paper I have to present evidence/ideas that support my and go against me. I just want to see what y'all think. I need to see people present their ideas so I can glean some ideas from answerers. Even if you don't agree with me thats cool!!! If you do agree with me, but wish to play devils advocate and debate just to debate, that is great too!!! Again, I don't believe that depression should be the deciding factor in marriage. Please help!

2006-07-16 10:18:38 · 8 answers · asked by wood_elf_86 2

I have a beautiful, faithful 30-something year old wife. We are both white. Recently at a wedding, I was having a temporary knee problem so i agreed to allow my wife to dance with anyone she wished at the reception. I'm not the jeolous type.She danced with EVERYBODY. Later, she came to me and whispered, "You're gonna get lucky tonight, mister." She explained that a young handsome black guy had pressed against her while dancing and, let's just say she was impressed. He told her, "I'm so embarressed that I'm rock hard. Please don't walk away and allow everyone to see", so she kept dancing, obviously turned on. She was honest. So I wouldn't get upset, she stayed close to me the rest of the night. We had amazing sex that night. A week later, she asked me if she could have a black stripper for her birthday. She said that she just realized at the wedding what a turn on seeing a large black dick would be. She said that she only wanted to see one, and it would be a fantasy come true.

2006-07-16 10:15:45 · 38 answers · asked by yofreshbreeze 1

tell you more latter on

2006-07-16 10:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by EUGENE L 1

another state and he loses contact for 28 years both remarry have children stay married to their spouses find each other through the internet rekindle feelings what should they do. continue or stop...

2006-07-16 09:55:20 · 18 answers · asked by starla 3

2006-07-16 09:43:21 · 19 answers · asked by evian 6

2006-07-16 09:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by senior06 1

Is it normal and/or safe to have 8 hours of sex on your honeymoon each night?

2006-07-16 09:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by danceflamingo512 1

its taking ages, and through all the time has passed, NO PROGRESS HAS BEEN MADE!! i dont know what to do, i cant hadndle it anymore!! i now for a fact that one call from me, and we're back together but i dont want to anymore... but im still so weak... i havent moved on at all... and have been keeping busy... when will things start changing in my head.... gettin back is NOT AN OPTION.. thats the only thing i can be sure of ..

2006-07-16 09:34:51 · 11 answers · asked by lady 2

I am about to get engaged to a Mexican woman that I met over the internet, and have met in person several times in Mexico, and she has come to my home in Canada once. She speaks no english, but my spanish is pretty good.

A relationship that develops over the distance, especially international differences is different from a regular relationship. Some of my friends and family think I am crazy, but of course, they are not me, and neither have they ever married a foreigner.

I would greatly appreciate hearing about some of your experiences in marrying a foreign spouse that speaks a different language, and how your relationship has developed, and finally, do you think you made a good choice.

Thanks very much!

Todd

2006-07-16 09:21:30 · 4 answers · asked by Bifferoo 3

i havwe lupus sle i am in pain all of the time so i am addicted to my pain killers, (i take one 3x a day) i figure it is an addiction cause if i do not take my pill i hurt really bad so if i need to take it it must be an addiction,anyway my husband says i cannot tell him not to drink since i have to take my pills, i am getting really sick of this i told him i would quit taking my meds, if he will quit drinking but that is not what he wants to do, i am 50 i do not feel like mothering him anymore whatt should i do?

2006-07-16 09:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous