I have a feeling my husband may be straying. Are there specific actions i can watch for?

Answer 1

Yep men leave definate signs when cheating.. he could be doing any of the following:

Suddenly he takes a huge concern in his appearance.. wanting to work out or diet, plus being extremely concious of what he wears and how it looks on him. (this alone doesnt mean he's cheating but mixed with others could)

He could either go either way here he could become really moody as if he's suddenly PMS'ing all the time and becomes very withdrawn or suddenly he'll start doing things he's never done for you.. if uve been together for years and suddenly he starts buying flowers every other day for you.. he "COULD" be feeling guilty..

Is he finding reasons for you to leave the house...(this is something they'll tend to do so they can call the girl)

If he's all the sudden finding every excuse to leave the house for long periods of time more so then usual and more so then just one time here or there, if it becomes a regular occurance then he's probably finding ways to meet up with her..

Check his cell phone bill look at who is calling him, who he's calling and how long..

Check the pockets of his pants, go through his wallet.. go through the glove compartment of the car.. usually guys will eventually screw up and leave some kind of proof laying around..

Most men have pretty bad memories.. so also look for stories that change.. he told u last weekend he did this , this and this, suddenly when talking about the same weekend he either adds details that make zero sense to the original story or deletes details that were revealent to the original story.. basically ur starting to figure out somethings not right about his where abouts and who he was with and they start having to back track..

When ur gone for along period of time and he's home alone.. try hitting the redial button on your phone to see who he has called last while u are out..

If he suddenly is saying he has to work late.. fine.. go check and make sure he's there.. or ask to meet him for lunch if he's always got an excuse why he can meet u for lunch then go check and see whats going on .. is he telling the truth or is he lying..

Yes this sounds really immature and really shows a distrust in your spouse but if you really think that your man in cheating and u really need to know for sure then these are things to look for..

BUT IF YOUR MAN COMES UP CLEAN.. Stop ... dont drive yourself insane when theres nothing there.. at some point or another u have to just let it go and pray for the best untill something does come to light and it will on its own if he is cheating on u..

Good luck..

Answer 2

Does his penis smell like another woman's vagina? Big red flag there.

Does he talk on the phone and say, "I will see you and the kids soon dear." Again, a big warning sign there.

Does he invite you to go fishing with him on Christmas Eve while you are 8 months pregnant, and there are cement weights and lots of rope in the boat? He probably has another lover on the side.

Is he a black former NFL running back who has beaten you in the past, and yet you still stay with him, and has a hair-trigger temper? Red flag honey. Be very careful.

When he was governor of Arkansas, were there accusations of sexual assult, rape, or improper use of police officers to procure women for him? You may want to keep a close eye on him if he becomes president. He could embarrass himself, you, and the entire country with 6 or 7 episodes of sexual abuse of women he is not married to. Watch for this.

Answer 3

yes quite a few, there are actually lists of these things, but here is what i remember (and most of it is just common sense)...

unexplained absences without real explanations and happening over and over again. ie, he suddenly has to work late all the time.

a new attention to his looks: buying new clothes, haircuts, showering more frequently, wearing cologne all the sudden.

secretive about phone calls and suddenly 'needs privacy' and 'respect for his personal things' (check the phone bills)

joining a gym is supposed to be one of the most popular excuses

disappearing money, or odd charges on credit cards (check your statements)

most often i would say go with your gut, women are usually very good at getting 'feelings' about things and most often their mistake is not listening to that. start checking up on him and making sure he says he is where he thinks he is. however, if he's still home as much as he used to be and nothing else is out of the ordinary maybe you should just relax.

Answer 4

Check his email and credit card statements secretly. Check his pockets if he leaves his clothes lying about. Check any 'special' drawers or boxes that is sort of personal to him that you never get into. Tell him you'll be gone all day doing something and then come home unexpectedly in the middle of the day. When he says he's going to go do something specific, go there and see if he really is there. As discreetly as possible of course, ideally he should never know that you were ever there in case your wrong.

Answer 5

Well there are the classic signs, like coming home late from work, hiding/shredding the cell phone bill, etc. But one thing to definitely alarm you...if he calls you often to find out where you are, or to ask how long it will be until you arrive home, or to a certain place, or calls you several times while you are out with friends, he's cheating. What he's doing is establishing a chain of your patterns, as well as finding out how much time he has left...

Answer 6

If your husband starts to have problems with your relationship out of nowhere. Does he make excuses to leave home or be away from you? Does he put in more overtime, meetings that are not common? The best way to find out is to follow him for a few days.

Answer 7

Go online or to the cell store if your husband has a cell and ask for phone records. Go into computer, and check the "history" and also go into the "cookies" see if he has been on any dating websites. (That's what mine did.) Is he buying new clothes? Gone for long amounts of time with no REAL explanation as to what he was doing?

Answer 8

Sure.
1) Frequently away from the house
2) Doesn't talk any more than necessary
3) Secretive (hides away in a room, etc)
4) Argumentative
5) Little or no interest in sex

Answer 9

is he buying new clothes, new underwear, and doesn't need them?
is he keeping you locked out of his cell phone?
does he not give you the same amount of money that he used to?
does he come home late at night like around 3 or 4 in the morning?
does he come home from work not smelling like his normal scent? does he smell showered or have heavy Cologne on or even use fabreeze?
has he brought anyone home saying they are your friends friend or whatever? is she ever dressed up to go out by herself?

Answer 10

if he doesnt usually go out with friends such as co-workers or the guys watch out if he doesnt work over time but now does watch out new clothes a change of style if he wears cologne but never did before cell phone look at dupilcate numbers text messages computer look at where and what he does on it no sex with you bank statements credit card statements look at