2006-07-16 09:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by senior06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHEN U BOTH REALISE THERE IS NO WAY WE CAN LIVE SEPARATE WITHOUT EACH OTHER WANT WANT TO JOIN IN FOR LIFE LONG COMMITMENTS YOU BOTH ARE THEN READY FOR IT
2006-07-16 09:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have discussed and negotiated life after the wedding, every single thing about it, finances, jobs, household responsibilities, in laws, ex's, time out with friends, children, and a million other things you never thought of. and when you can honestly commit to each aspect of the vows you will take...
richer or poorer...broke and living in a shack, still wanna be married?
sickness and health...one contracts a life changing illness, physical or mental, still wanna be married?
better or worse....one is in an accident and the other is left to feed them and change their diapers and be the sole bread winner for the rest of their lives, still wanna be married?
and don't forget no sex with anyone else ever!
even if you could still stick it out, do you have faith that the other would stick by you through all of this too? don't just consider the upside, if things go ok, anybody can be happy when things are going well, truly consider the downside of things, the worst you can think of (reading some of the questions here and thinking about whether you would still want to be with him in that situation is a good idea) and then if you would still truly want only that person you think about getting married. the one guarantee you have is that things will NOT always go well, there WILL be problems and issues.
2006-07-16 17:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that you are ready for marriage when you know that it feels right. You will have a feeling that you both want to spend the rest of your lives together and of course you have to be best friends.
2006-07-16 17:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Samara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, the woman is ready without question. It usually takes men a little more time to come around. Wait until he asks. If he doesn't ask and you are ready, let him know you are ready...If he says he's not, then you have to decide whether you want to wait around until he is ready or if you want to leave.
2006-07-16 16:45:24 · answer #4 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right you will both know it. If you have to question it then you are not ready.
2006-07-16 16:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cannt stand be away from each other, but whenyou marry thanyou there 24 hours an you see what you really dont like about him are her, an wish u would of never got married so wait as long as u can. ive togther first fotr about a year than do it,
2006-07-16 16:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by cris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVER?
GAY?
WELL I THOUGHT A LOVER WAS JUST SOMEONE ON THE SIDE
NO DONT GET MARRIED TO YOUR LOVER
THATS A FUN THING THAT YOU DONT WANT MARRIAGE TO RUIN
2006-07-16 16:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When deep in your heart this person is the one you want to live the rest of your life with.
2006-07-16 16:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u talk about and determine if your ready for marriage
2006-07-16 16:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by somepaliguy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married is like russian roulette. Sometimes you fire the bullet and get shot and killed and sometimes the gun gets jammed and misses, but you live.
2006-07-16 16:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋