for all of your answers to both my question and his (the most recent) it is just so hard to go on with all this hurt in my heart. and with him asking that in the first place makes me think i have no choice but divorce......one last chance perhaps anyone know how to truly get over and past this. i want the pain to stop....
2006-07-16 10:37:55 · 10 answers · asked by starla 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the relationship isnt over yet we are still very married in every sense of the word. i just hate the pain and the hurt....
2006-07-16 10:43:17 · update #1
Turn to your friends....go out with them to get your mind off of all this...only time can help mend a broken heart.You can always try seeing a therapist,he or she could give you some good advice and a good ear to listen.
Good luck and God bless.
You can also try religious counseling,sometimes it really does help.
2006-07-16 10:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 2⤋
No magic answer to the pain. Only time and distance will make it go away. If you have a really close friend they can help talk it out.
Just give it time and it will work it self out. Go meat other people. Always helps.
2006-07-16 17:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the only true thing that helps with the pain of a relationship ending is time. Time and loving yourself. Be good to yourself! Have a lovely summer, the sun's shining for you darlin'!
2006-07-16 17:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by serenity seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I don't know all the reason and what all about but if you guys put aside the materials, money and jobs, you guys can live together for the rest of your life....try one more time please, I have been there and done that...if I can do all over....I would not choose that dicision...unfortunately...I didn't the one to make that mistake, good luck.
2006-07-16 17:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Duke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine the pain will slowly go away. Prayer, family and friends have helped me. Lean on them they are great support systems. Hang in there, it will get better.
2006-07-16 17:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY TO GOD BUT IF YOU THINK YOU CAN START OVER THEN TRY THAT BEFORE ENDING RELATIONSHIP, FORGIVING IS FIRST PART TRULY FORGIVING NOT JUST SAYING YOU DO. TO TRULY FORGIVE YOU GOT TO PUT IT BEHIND YOU AND ACT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED IN TIME IT TO WILL FADE JUST WENT THROUGH THAT WITH MY HUBBY, HE CHEATED ON ME IVE FORGIVEN HIM AND WE ARE STARTING OVER I PRAYED ALOT ABOUT IT, I DON'T WANT A DIVORCE SO ITS TIME TO START OVER AND TRUST HIM MORE
2006-07-16 17:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think that wicca said it perfectly.....just have to give it time and believe in YOU! Take care :O)
2006-07-16 17:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by zoinks22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You welcome .. wish you good luck
2006-07-16 17:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Azul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you welcome
2006-07-16 17:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by mayri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your welcome i guess.
2006-07-16 17:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋